1st relationship i was in in 6th grade i told her that i loved

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1st relationship i was in in 6th grade i told her that i loved her, and she broke it off on the stop. (we had been texting all night) thats one of the most pathetic things in my life that i can think of, and i have told only one person.

2nd relationship i was in, i was i guess not clingy enough because almost all the things she said i couldnt trust and i thought she wasnt serious. we only had a serious discussion once, and i learned that she'd been raped as a child. eventually we stopped talking because she didnt think i was into the relationship enough. besides experience, is there anything I can do to improve knowing the acceptable boundaries with a girl? i dont really understand how playful i should be and how distant/jokingly mean is a good amount. any anons got advice?