ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

>>17366593
Have any of you guys (also a guy) been scared of a girl in a creepy sense? Or is being creepy generally a guy thing?

Girls, I want an innocent <5'2", really skinny, and decently qt asian gf. I'm good looking, doing well in life, and willing to work hard for it. How feasible of a goal is this?

>>17366600
Considering how many Asians there are in the world, I say your chances are great. You've just got to be somewhere where you have access to meeting a lot of them.

>>17366600
That sounds pretty feasible to me.

>>17366600
Depends on where you live, but I'd say pretty feasible. I don't know the chance of you having a happy and successful relationship though, but that's not what you're asking.

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>>17366609
>>17366614
>>17366615
Sweet, I just hope there are plenty in the college I'm transferring to.

>>17366599
Being creepy is not a guy thing. Being concerned about creepiness is a girl thing.

>>17366635
Just because there are a ton around, doesn't mean that they'll want to date you. And be careful that you don't get labelled as that creepy guy who hits on all the Asians

>>17366638
Are you saying that guys can't be creeped out? Even by other guys?

>>17366639
I only need one, so....
I'll try not to be creepy but I'll be honest, if I see a really qt one I'll probably try picking her up.

>>17366645
>I only need one
Like I said, I don't know your chances of having a happy and successful relationship with one. If you're just going with the first one who'll date you then I wouldn't say those chances are high though.

I'm just warning you. Don't come back and complain that you're labelled as a creep and weirdo

>>17366649
How can I prevent being known as a creep? It's not like I'm trying to get in bed with them.

>>17366658
I feel like the fact that you even have to ask that means you're a lost cause, but whatever. If you keep hitting on Asian girls, you're going to be known as a creep, even if it's just between them and the rest of the university doesn't know about it. Word travels fast among Asian girls

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A girl from my class invited me to some party at a nightclub over facebook.
Why the hell would she do that? I have barely even interacted with her, outside of a couple of group assignments and the only reason she is on my friend list is because it helped us to communicate during our assignment.
I barely know her, and I can't see a single reason why she would invite me to some nightclub. Especially when I have stated that I don't drink or go to bars in general.
It can't be some invitation intended for our whole class, because that would have been posted into the group page of our class and it has nothing about this.

What the hell should I do? I got no real interest in going to a god damn nightclub because I find the very idea repulsive, but at the same time, I don't want to be impolite.

>>17366685
Because she probably added everyone on her friends list, you autist

>>17366688
Why would anyone do that? People have hundreds of friends on their friendlist, especially girls do.

>>17366685
>Especially when I have stated that I don't drink or go to bars in general.
She probably either took pity on you and felt like you were missing out on a lot, or she's the type who feels that trying to get a "virgin" drunk is hilarious entertainment.
Third option is that either she herself or one of her friends finds you cute.

>Found a great girl
>Ask her out after a few times seeing her and talking with her (and getting her number), she said yes, but made excuses and no date happened
>Tell her she should just tell me if she doesn't want to date
>She says there are other reasons, maybe she wants to date later, and she is kind of avoiding me since then

Why could she be acting so weird? She's neither with someone, nor dating someone else. I'm not needy or creepy, but i feel like she perceives me as that. I just want to stay friends if she doesn't want to date, because we have much in common, which is rare for me with other people.

>>17366702
It's not like I haven't been dragged to a bar or a nightclub before. I have just never enjoyed the experience, nor do I have any desire to get drunk. I have never seen a person to become more fun, or interesting to be around after they have gotten themselves drunk.
I hate how not wanting to waste time and money in an expensive club, getting shitfaced, is seen as abnormal.

Also, no way in hell does she think I am cute. I look fucking disgusting.

>>17366721
>She's neither with someone, nor dating someone else
How do you know for sure?
>i'm not creepy
Oh

>>17366721
>she hasn't moved on from her ex yet and said yes in an impulse thinking it might help
>she's in love with someone else but wants you as a potential back up option, or she only realized she really liked him after she said yes
>she has personal issues (depression, addiction, caretaking for family member) that make it hard for her to let someone else into her life
>she feels rationally like you should be promising, but feels no chemistry/attraction and is debating whether that will grow
>one of her friends likes you and expressed that to her earlier, but she kind of likes you as well

No doubt there's more options, but I hope this gives you an idea.

>>17366728
But if she doesn't know that, she could think it's fun to give you/witness your first time.

Getting drunk isn't about being an improved version of yourself, but rather about losing inhibitions and feeling relaxed and more at ease with yourself. Like a mental little vacation from your sober mindset and way of seeing things. But it's definitely not for everyone. I think the feeling of being drunk is okay (though I mostly become sleepy and sentimental) but it's not worth it how groggy and shitty you feel the next day. And when I get together with people I very much like being able to talk to them normally.
If you feel no desire to get drunk then that's fine and your liver will be grateful. However I would strongly recommend that you do not share these stances. No one likes being judged for what they enjoy doing.

In desperate need of help here femanons. I'm about to turn 25 and I'm still a virgin. I've only had one thing that could loosely be termed a relationship. Whenever I realize a girl is interested in me, or an opportunity presents itself, I just shutdown mentally. I don't know what to do about it.

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has anyone of you guys ever cured themselves of deathgrip?
dating a guy for two weeks now, had sex a few times and i only managed to make him come in me (condom) once by riding him at full power. in hindsight i hope his orgasm was real.
the other 3-4 times he jerked it himself and oh boy he wasn't gentle to himself.
stimulation isn't a problem, he convincingly seems to enjoy it a lot, precum and all.

The condom of course doesn't help and I don't want to make him uncomfortable 2 weeks in by pointing it out but does anyone have any tips?

>>17366977
Tell him to stop wanking for a month. Promise a reward or something. Tell him if he doesn't wank at all for a month, you'll buy a pill and let him cum inside you sans condom. Paint it as your idea, rather than "I noticed you deathgrip your dick, so here's a solution." Just go with "I had an idea..."

I don't care how fucking hard you grip your dick, you're not making it out of a month's buildup.

>>17366977
I fucking love that cat.

Nigga needs to stop wanking, seriously. He is not a pornstar...

Question for females:
What is it about the girls that are the touchy-feely types? The ones that likes to touch you and be around you? I know a girl who I've never said a word to but out of the blue she started talking to me a lot and even rested her head on my shoulder at one point. She also asked for my number but we only texted for like 5 seconds and that was it. She would literally not text me unless I do. I thought she was showing interest in me bit it turned out that she didn't like me. She said she "definitely would've told me" if she did. Why do females do these things? It really fucks with me.

>>17366977
I have a similar problem to your boyfriend, and the solution really does seem to be stopping/reducing masturbation. I masturbate once a week with the most gentle grip I can, and it's slowly making things better. I still can't cum with my gf, but it's inching closer, and her play on my cock feels better each time. I've been trying to masturbate with a condom on too, since it's a real obstacle for me.

Also, make sure you're communicating with him both as a way to make your relationship better, but also to make yourself feel better. When this problem reared its ugly head, my girlfriend thought it was her being unattractive. It's not. Dicks are ridickulous. Talk to him and he should talk to you about how you can help, but also about how it's not your fault and that you're still great and that he's still having a great time.

>>17366977
Ask how often he beats it. If it's everyday then he should be able to cum after waiting 2 or 3 days. Maybe he has a fetish?

Girls or guys, just looking for a little advice

I'm trying to talk to my girlfriend at some point today about being more dominant in our sex play sometimes. We both switch and I think she's ok with domming (we had a big discussion once where I apologized for doubting that she did, that's not fair) but she kind of doesn't often....follow through?

When I dom her, I get really into the role and we have fun. We play for about 30 minutes or a bit less. I spank her, I command her, we enjoy ourselves, have a finale, and then we sink into a bliss of aftercare and she feels relaxed and relieved after.

When she doms me, things are shorter. She's commanding, but I never really get the commands that I crave. It usually boils down into her straddling me and pinning me. I love it, but that's basically it? When we finish up, to me it doesn't feel like a finish, it feels like we trail off. I don't get that aftercare bliss that she does because I feel like I barely need aftercare based on what we did!

For her, the appeal of being dominated is being cared for and desired and relieved of the stresses that get her on the daily. I've been very stressed lately and I could really use the same kind of care.

I get that the answer to this is "Talk to her!" but can anyone help me figure out how to frame this? Sometimes I'll get frustrated and my thoughts will turn to her lying to me about being dominant herself, and I don't want that. I dunno. When I see her curled up after we finish playing, looking relaxed and almost glowing, I feel a little jealous and left out.

Girls: Does a young guy who believes in monogamy turn you off?

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Girls :

What's better, beard ? or no beard ?
Also, what do you feel when you look at my picture, what do you assume about me ?
What can i do to be more good looking ? (losing weight appart, i'll do it soon)

I want to know how i'm percieved by the other gender, thanks a lot in advance for the help !

>>17367062
Young as in younger than me? I think being as close in age as possible is ideal. My SO is technically younger than me but only by 4 months and I think it's perfect.

As for the monogamy part, that's absolutely ideal. The opposite of a turn-off.

>>17367033
What do you want her to do exactly?

>>17366977
hmm i think you should continue your good work, i was kind of like that (less, to be honest) with my previous gf, after 4-5 try she did made me cum and after that it went better, so you're on the right path !

>>17366599
no, not really, for an unknow reason, i don't find them creepy, they don't make me uncomfortable.

Hey femanons. I realize this kind of is mentioned in the OP, but it's been bothering me so I think I will ask it here.Last summer I had a relationship with a 9/10 girl I worked with. We had a few dates, they didn't go well. Find out there is another guy. Figure that's over.

> be me working retail for summer
>go into work
> girl is on shift
>"anon, I have a boyfriend"
> oh joy
> starts being very rude and obnoxious, insulting me
> ask her why she being this way
> "what way?"
>later asks me to come help her with a pallet
>get caught with customer
>After finishing with customer, go to help her
>"Go fuck yourself anon"
>wut
>later try to console her, apologize for not coming sooner
> before she leaves "looks like someone is closing by themselves tonight" very loudly
To this very day I don't know what was going on here

>>17367084
Be more demanding or forward in what she wants. Usually her style seems to be "pin him and kiss him, then let him go" when I'd like her to pin me, tell me what to do, have me do it, talk to me in a commanding way, and then finish up the play.

Basically, I want a more complete experience like I give to her as a dom. If I could pull a switcheroo on us in the fantasy that was just enacted last weekend, with me subbing and her domming, I'd be in heaven.

I dominate the hell out of her, and I want her to dominate the hell out of me instead of being less involved with it like I feel she is now. Does that make sense?

To Girls:

I hang with a girl out and she tells me often about the guys she has rejected recently. Why does she do it? Is she trying to make me jealous or as a hint to fuck off and don't try anything?

>>17366977
You just gotta jerk it less. Used to be quite the fan of distributing free literature multiple times per day and it made climaxing through regular coitus difficult.

Doing it less and more gently after a couple months cold turkey fixed me up pretty good.

>>17367087
just ignore her, she's just a cunt who don't deserve your attention.

There's a guy that keeps asking me out (well he invites me to go for a drink, i guess thats a date?) but never actually makes a move and has even told me he's not interested in being in a relationship/having a gf. Honestly I don't get what this dude's thinking, should I make a move instead?

>>17367094
Yes, but what I'm trying to get at is you formulating very very specific requests. That way you'll be able to tell her clearly "this is exactly what I want" and then she will be able to do it. You can't expect her to read your mind, so you gotta tell her exactly what you want for her to do it.

So telling her "I want you to be more dominating" is a good start, but you need more. "I'd love it if you commanded me to eat you out" or "I want you to spank me", for example.

You've gotta be able to give her specific direction.

>>17367099
Guy here.

That really sounds alot like when they used to put heads on pikes as a warning and shit.
I wouldn't.

I'd consider it a warning not to ever ask her out, ever.

>>17367017
Anything for this?

>>17367113
Riiiight. That makes sense anon. I actually study human behavior, and I was kind of forgetting that one of the biggest rules is that you need to have a very specific definition of a behavior. I just didn't know if that might come off as being controlling myself? I want her to feel in control in whichever ways make her feel comfortable or just suit her personal style.

Females:

How would you handle a relationship with a guy who has a very attractive female roommate who is a very close friend of his? Let's say there are no signs of anything sexual between them or flirting.

And, just for fun, would you date a guy who employs a distant ex of his as his secretary?

>>17366642

Sissy guys, sure.

You can be wary of someone that you percieve as a threat, possibly because they're violent, which puts on edge

Thats the closest to "Creepy" I can think of

>>17367157
I would probably say im okay with it but inside id be pretty jealous/suspicious.

I wouldnt give a shit.

>>17367111
He said hes not interested so why do you think you can make a move? Maybe he just wants to hang out.

>>17367178
Yeah I guess, I was over thinking it, guess it's that simple

>>17367099

She's showing off, on a pussy power trip

>Look at how desireable I am!

>>17367078
pls respond

>>17367078
Personally i prefer no beard. You look like a normal approachable guy. I look like a genuinely nice person. As a guy, theres not much you can do to be more attractive. Theres generally only 3 things a guy can improve physically
>hair: looks fine
>weight: start lifting but you said you're already working on it
>clothes: wear nice clothes.

>>17367239
ok thanks a lot :)

I'm already lifting, since a long time, but never watched my diet, so i have this husky body with some muscles that, in all honesty, don't find attractive.
I've never done anything at all with my beard, so i wanted to try and let it grow and see if it look good on me, and for the hair, i have some thick kind of curly arabic hair, it's a pain in the ass to have a good haircut, i'm actually letting my hair grow on the top and see if i can have a pompadour haircut...

Anyway, thanks for your contribution :)

>>17367270
>:)
Pls no

>>17367278
yeah sorry, i'm european and we use emoticons a lot in my country.

>>17367270
Sorry i meant
>you* look like a genuinely nice person
Yeah experiment with your style, you dont have a bad face

Girls and guys

Have you ever felt hurt to the point that you get upset/angry/sad when you see the picture of the person you care deeply about who hurt you?

>>17367445
The picture isn't necessary; I'm still fucking angry all the time.

my GF's ex messaged her today asking how she's been. she always says how he was an arsehole and regrets even dating him. I asked her if she was going to ignore him and she said 'if its a convo i will but not if its important idk'. I asked how it could possibly be important, to which she replied 'idk'. I'm not sure how to interpret this and her reaction. also would it seem untrustworthy if i asked her if she ignored? i'd be annoyed if she replied

>>17367451
Bruce?

>>17367461
Nope

>>17367464
Thejokeyourhead.png

I can't get continuation from women after dates. Last two women I've seen, the dates went well: no lull in conversation, lots in common, they genuinely seem to like me. Both dates also ended in sex. However, both times they stop texting and I'm left thinking wtf went wrong. I have to much pride to keep texting when I don't get responses so I'm my thoughts are just churning in my head. And before it's mentioned, the sex wasn't bad at all, I don't claim to be a sex god but I know when my partner is enjoying it.

I never had this problem when I was younger, but now that I'm on the other side of 25 and out of a long relationship, it's starting to get to me.

Any thoughts? Thanks

Girls, I'm a little confused here. In a good way, probably.

For a few months I've been involved with this girl. She's introverted and not very romantic, but still very close. She never acknowledges when I try to be flirty, she deflects compliments and kindness, she gets all technical and logistic when I ask her out, and most of the time she gives little to no response to things I tell her about my life or day. Plans we make fade away due to her getting ill (which happens a lot even without making plans)
She usually gives serious and to-the-point answers to my usually unserious texts which makes me think I bore her, yet her texts keep coming. She hits me up almost daily, makes plans with me, sends pics of whatever happened to her, and in person she's comfortable enough to have zero personal space around each other and fall asleep with her head on my lap while I'm stroking her hair.

I don't get it. I thought people in relationships were supposed to be all flirty, loveydovey and endless laughter around each other. We're just comfy, I think. I don't get it. We're not official, never got physical or romantic and never even brought dating up, but it doesn't feel like we're just friends. She's the girl closest to me by far, and I'm pretty sure there are no similar guys in her life either.

Doesn't feel like I'm doing this right, though. Yet we're still this close. How is this even possible? I'm physically average and don't feel like I have anything special to offer mentally. She probably should be bored and leave me alone or something, but she isn't and doesn't. I just don't get it. Girls, any idea what she sees in me?

>>17367445
>Have you ever felt hurt to the point that you get upset/angry/sad when you see the picture of the person you care deeply about who hurt you?

Not worth the energy.
If a person makes you that upset and takes THAT much effort out of you, just don't deal with them. Period.

There's a finite amount of emotions you can experience in a day before you get exhausted, choose to use that on positive ones.

Life's too short.

>>17367586

This person didn't intentionally wrong me.. But they did hurt me. She doesn't even know it..

>life is too short

No.. It's too fucking long. I wish was 40 years older than I am right now, so I could be closer to the end. Seriously. I want to shoot myself with the gun I keep loaded by my desk, but I'm worried if I shoot myself I'll go to hell.

>>17367585
You seem like a nice guy who is actually interested in her for who she is. Thats probably what she sees in you.

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Is this a man?

>>17367610

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>>17367610
>>17367618

>>17367610
Looks like she doesn't know how to take a proper picture.
I think her mouth makes it look ambiguous; she should be smiling fully.

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>>17367623

>>17367610
>18
No way

>>17367624
>>17367623
I take it back, looks like a trap.

>>17367624
I can't quite put my finger on it, but their face just doesn't look quite right...

girls

how do i fuck you without getting into a relationship with you?

>>17367644
I hear there are plenty of girls who want NSA sex like that. Isn't that what things like Tindr are for?

Or you could just get an escort.

>>17367665
well in most of my experiences when girls arpoach me they usually want to get into a relationship, that experience comes mostly from school. I want to avoid that i'll open up a tinder i guess.

Question of either gender

So I'm thinking of asking out a girl from my work but I'm not sure how to go about it. The only time I see her is at work, so I figured I'd ask there, but I'm wondering if its a bad idea since if she says no, neither of us can walk away.

Should I go for it or just forget the whole thing in general? Any advice is appreciated?

Never asked here before so I'll probably be asking the same question again but here goes

Is it even possible in this day in age to keep a girl (4.5/10 at the least) into you when your dick is well below average?

>Is sex even worth it at this point

>>17367725
I'd normally say go for it, but work is a big risk. Is she really a big deal, or is this a smaller crush?

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I'm a guy asking anyone for advice. I need perspective. My fiancée and I are both 23, we're pretty socially awkward homebodies without a lot of friends. I have five or so people I would call my friend, but she has only one that she just met a few months ago. She is out at a going away party with some coworkers and her one friend, and it's bothering me because all of her coworkers are legitimately awful people and a really bad influence (except her one friend who I trust to take care of her). She has never really had any friends and is very impressionable for someone our age. She will really change her behavior to fit in, even if it has bad results for her.

Here's the thing: I have been sick with a chronic illness the past few days and I have really bad anxiety. This sounds pathetic, and I've never let on to anyone, but when we're apart I just run through all the worst scenarios in my head. I keep asking myself, "What if that was the last time I'll see her?" every time she walks out the door.

Given these circumstances, how worried should I be? Scale of 1 to 10. How much is my anxiety fucking my up right now?

>>17367105
Thanks, I kinda figured it was her being a brat. Tbh, I hoped it meant more though. All well.

>>17367770
If you trust her, about a 3, assuming 10 is extremely worried. What don't you like about these coworkers?

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>>17367610
>seize the means of production

Even if they have a vagoo, abort

>>17367802
They are just rude, cruel people who have fucked up their lives with their bad decisions and aren't really going anywhere. They will probably be working part time retail all their lives specifically because of their poor decision making, not despite trying to do better.

My fiancée always comes home with stories about how they've screwed each other over or even made things worse for her, but she still acts buddy buddy with them. They all seem to hate each other but pretend they don't, and I don't get it.

Meanwhile I have a salaried job and just want to chill out instead of fucking with people.

>>17367730
Bitches don't care about your dick size if you use it well and are a great person or asset in general.

Dumb ass

>>17367730
>>17367854
And no, sex with anything below a 7/10 isn't worth it.

>>17366599
Women can be creepy in different ways to men.

I was always creeped out by an ex of mine who was too submissive. Something is up if they are that willing to go with whatever you say, no matter how wrong or odd it might be. Not necessarily in a sexual sense either.

>>17366638
creepiness is not a thing. it's just a way for women to put a name to the undefinable revulsion she feels for an unfit mate. that's why handsome men are never creepy

>>17367099
Maybe she doesn't know that you're into her and only sees you as a friend. Hanging out is something that a girl would do with a friend and doesn't necessarily imply that she feels some special way about you. But she might be doing it as a warning though.

>>17367573
Maybe try to hold off on the sex? Maybe that's all they were interested in.

>>17367730
>well below average
You'll have trouble keeping ANY girl

>>17366721
>Why could she be acting so weird?
you called her out and hit it right on the head. instead of slowly disengaging she knows the jig is up and left you in the dust. it isn't weird.

>>17367078
beard makes you look stupid as fuck.

>>17367111
maybe he's shy, or just likes your company

>>17367730
>>17367854

who cares? you literally cannot compete with an above average dick. the sex is completely different. however she will likely not leave you just because you have a shrimp dick

>>17366593
>anon is scary
>i'm scared of anon
Is this a meme like 'creepy'?

Question for single girls. Why don't you just have sexual relations with any hot guy that clearly wants you? Not particularly sex but you could get a guy to eat you out or finger you and they'd most likely be fine with it. Free assisted orgasms 24/7. Why not?

For guys,

How would you feel if some girl asked you to model for her given that you know she's good at art?

>>17368071
Depends on the kind of modeling requested

>>17368071
I would feel good about it but also feel sad.

But desu you should just ask him instead of us.

>>17368068
Because I view sex as more than carnal pleasure.

>>17368068
I have actually been in that situation and I felt I was basically using them as a glorified human sex toy. Plus some of them would feel like you owed them or something afterwards. Didn't like feeling like complete piece of shit after getting off so I stopped doing that. I can just feel like a regular piece of a shit after getting myself off on whatever freaky shit I just watched.

>>17368073
Clothed not nude. I mean the best would be to wear as little clothes as possible or tight fitting clothes but that sounds creepy af.

>>17368074
Why sad?

I don't really have anyone specific in mind right now. It's just something that has come across my mind before when I meet an attractive guy. I just want to draw him but aside from the possible creepy implications, it's also tiring and kind of boring for the model.

>>17368093
Good because my looks and aesthetic are distinctive enough to inspire art, but bad because I was chosen for my ugliness

>>17368080
What's your view on prostitution?

>>17368082
It's nice to have perspective sometimes. That's a very human reaction.

>>17368110
>What's your view on prostitution?
Don't have anything against prostitutes because I acknowledge that not everyone feels the same way as I do, but I wouldn't date a guy who had fucked one.

>>17368105
Well usually the implication is the model is interesting at the very least or attractive at the very best, not ugly.

>>17367665
>all i want is a woman who's into having a serious, long term relationship
>all women want is NSA hookups these days

why the fuck do i even bother

>>17368157
Well, you wanted answers.

>>17368166
different anon

Femanons, how would you feel about a confession letter? Would it be better handed in person, or E-Mailed so you don't have to respond right away?

>>17368202
I'd wonder why he thought life was an anime and didn't just ask me out

>>17367725
Is she cute? If yes, go for it.

>>17368217
Fair enough

Ok so I have a strange question to the girls out there.

What would you think of a guy with one leg (cut below the knee) that is otherwise in good physical shape and reasonably attractive, would you be immediately turned off by the disability?

I lost my leg in a major traffic accident and I'm quite lucky to be alive, but now I'm self conscious about my disability.

I can walk and everything but i have to use a prosthetic leg.

>>17368305
Shit's hot.

>>17368305
I'd date him if I liked him enough, but I'd be lying if I said it wasn't a turnoff at the get-go

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>>17368310
My new foot is similar to this, it's a BIOM foot that aims to emulate the function of a normal ankle.
Is it ugly? Would you be turned off by the bionic itself or just the stump?
I have normal prosthetics too but im starting to use this one now

>>17368320
I would straight up fellate your steel foot.

>>17368320
Lt dan....you got new legs

>>17368320
>Is it ugly?
It's neither ugly nor attractive. It is what it is, and if it's helping you lead a life similar to how you lived before where possible, I have no qualms
>Would you be turned off by the bionic itself or just the stump?
The stump

>>17367911
Wow. Stupid as fuck, really ?

>>17367623
>>17367627
>18
>Robotics instructor

>>17368361
yes you look tons better without it

let your jaw shine through

>>17368068
Because I can't trust myself not to want more. Esp if the fingering was good and the guy real qt, and if we talk during it I might discover I like the guy as a person.
Catching feels is just too easy for me.

>>17367730
Take care of your fingers, learn how to use them and learn how to eat pussy ( or at last the way your gf likes it).

Being a black guy with a non black Dick makes you learn. Godspeed anon.

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Women: is having a 4 - 4.5 inch penis unforgivable? What if the guy is incredibly good at fingering you/playing with your clit/giving head? Would you eventually get sick of only getting off to foreplay like this?

had a fight with my gf today. she apologized and i said i accepted her apology. she often likes to turn things she did wrong on me and make me the bad guy. after i said i accepted her apology she hasn't said anymore. i know she is waiting for me to say something and then she will play victim and ask for an apology. what do? thinking of sending her something random/off topic but still annoyed with her to some degree so dont feel like being too friendly atm.

>>17368503
Do you owe her an apology? Act as if nothing happened. If she asks you for apology make her explain it.

>>17368431
Did you ask your parents if you were two people sewed together?

>>17368508
I don't but I know she will now be shitty towards me and will expect an apology despite me doing nothing wrong

>>17368526
Simply, don't put up with it.
Source: victim complex mother

>>17368071
A bit cautious but probably flattered. But I have body issues, I'm sure someone more secure would have no issue.

>>17367748
I'd say this is more of a crush I have for this girl. But I was more just wanting to get to know her rather than something major.

The main thing is that the job I'm at is just a temporary thing that I'm doing outside school. Probably only gonna be there another 2 months, but that is also making it difficult to decide.

So roughly 4 years ago I was a much more immature person. I was seeing this woman at a time but things fizzled out. I didn't take this very gracefully, and in hindsight I'm not proud of my actions. I had trouble accepting it was over basically and she was more sensitive than she needed to be.

Anyways while things never ended particularly catastrophically, things between us became distant although we still bumped into each other now and again. We've both moved on, is it a good idea to apologize or should I just keep my trap shut?

>>17368508
>>17368526
>>17368531
I tried being nice and changing the conversation. She gave me one word replies so not going to bother now until she comes around

I bet this is a stretch, seeing where I'm asking this, but... But for any religious women: is there anything special i could do (as a filthy agnostic heathen), to maybe up the chances of getting you to like me romantically?

I've been talking to this woman, been out with her a couple times. None of the times were a date, just walking and talking. I had fun, and It seemed like she did too.

The thing is, she's pretty religious, and my friends have told me she only dates people of her own faith. That's ok with me, if that's what she wants.

I legitimately just like talking to her. None of my friends are really into art (they talk more about cars and booze and music,which i have no problem with btw), but she is. It's nice having someone to talk to about "gay" stuff like that. I used to be really into painting and drawing, but it fell by the wayside in recent years. She's actually got me kinda motivated to start again.

I also really like how she looks me in the eyes and smiles when she talks to me. Not many people are comfortable keeping eye contact that long. I like it. We make each other laugh and stuff.

I'm gonna stop gushing now,but i think I'd be lying if i said i didn't have a little crush on her. So what should i do? I legitimately don't wanna lose the ability to talk to her, cuz i enjoy her company so much. Should i just go for being friends? Ask her on a date directly? Maybe just ask her to an art museum and see how it goes?

Thanks in advance. I hope i made sense.

>>17368443
This completely depends on the person. Some women think being fucked is the best feeling in the world, for others it's the "guy part" of sex while they mostly enjoy the foreplay and hands/mouth stuff. Hell, some women have a vagina that's so insensitive that they get nothing out of penetration at all. Likewise, there are women who get nothing out of oral sex, or find the sensation too "soft".

On top of that, vaginas differ in size, not just width but length as well. This is just not that commonly realized because it is virtually impossible to measure the size if a woman's inside as it isn't exactly a straight tunnel you can stick a ruler into. What's plenty for one woman is lacking for another.

And that's still disregarding that sex is more than the bare acts. Many girls complain about guys fucking like robots (not making noise, having that thousand yard stare because they're trying not to cum) and being embarrassed to talk dirty etc. Some guys are also just lazy fuckers who wouldn't think to sensually undress a girl or put a pillow under her head so she's more comfortable, or hop into the shower quickly if they spent all day out in the sun. Not all people are good at sex by a long shot. Your penis is only part of the overall experience you have with someone - in which feelings are the most important factor to begin with. Why do you think people willingly remain in sexless relationships for years on end? Not because it's the end all of love, that's for sure.

>>17368550
I would mention it if there was a natural opportunity. Eg you happened to catch up a bit, then you can say that you are not proud of how you behaved and in hindsight think she was more than generous with her patience and understanding.

I wouldn't do it out of the blue, makes it too much into a thing.

>>17368577
Best way to combat silent treatment is to treat it as blessing, anon.

>>17368595
>Your penis is only part of the overall experience you have with someone - in which feelings are the most important factor to begin with.

>tfw I'm a guy
>can't even successfully have one night stands because you don't know the woman but you want sex so bad
>tfw you enjoy the connection too much

>>17368577
This right here: >>17368604

If you know you've done nothing wrong and she's just being miserable then you wait it out.

I've apologised for shit that wasn't my fault when I look back and there was a time when I actually was a man and told her straight up.

Just keep changing the conversation until she comes round.

>>17368595
>it is virtually impossible to measure the size if a woman's inside as it isn't exactly a straight tunnel you can stick a ruler into.
Not with that attitude mister

Why would an ex keep getting in contact, dumping her emotional baggage on me because she "misses my voice" and "you know me best" and then cut contact for a few months?

>>17368698
Because she misses your support

Is the fact that u re getting hotter every month passing (gym and genes i guess) while your girl has literally stop trying (getting fatter, eating like a rhino, not giving a fuq about your fashion suggestions (which are far more on point than hers) a good reason to break up?

I just did.

What do you answer to her "You re throwing 2,5 years of feelings/"love" away just because you don't find me attractive anymore?"

>>17368721
You sound idiotic. You can't give somone fashion advice without them asking you. It's rude. It also sounds like you have just started to eat better and exercise. You can't except her to change her whole lifestyle, just because you did. That's not how this works. You will learn your lesson after you fucked around for a while and then can't find a decent girl to have a meaningfull relationship with anymore. Good job anon

>>17368589
What religion? How did you meet her?
I would start it off with doing "friendship stuff". Going to a museum seems like a good idea, judging from the fact you both like arts.
Focus on spending time with her and get to know her. Don't rush it with dates or, god forbid, body contact.

>>17368431
>tfw asian guy with an asian dick

ive been training my fingers for the day i hook up with someone

I don't think this deserved it's own thread.
Men and women can answer.

How normal of a fetish is it for a woman to be a masochistic sub? Even just the light things (biting, hair pulling, light restraining, light choking, etc.)

Men, how many times have you experienced a woman who likes this?

Women, are you into it too?

>>17368803
I don't know how normal it is but it seems pretty vanilla to me.
Don't want to have sex without it desu

I met a girl a couple of months ago at work and we hit it off really quick. So fast that was our downfall. We are so compatible its scary when you find someone you have to really ask are you ready to build your life with? She got scared that we got so close so fast.

As the months go on we didn't even speak. Casual smile at work. That turned into us just walking by each other. These months were mental torture for me. I didn't even want to meet other woman.

Fast forward to now: I run into her at work and say hello and even make a joke.She ends up messaging me on social media a casual joke and we talked. She admitted she was surprised I said hello to her. She's been under the impression I wanted nothing to do with her..I felt so silly. We talked about us and she confessed everything on how it was all her (so she says) and I did no wrong. I just was too forward (which isn't a problem, just at the time) She says she wants to begin hanging out again to "build structure and see where it goes".
We hung out and smoked and drove around the city talking. It's so easy to talk with her. End of the trip we get out and extended hug; her rubbing my back. We make plans more and have just been texting since.

TL;DR - How long after re initiating feelings with an old fling that got scared off from moving too fast do I make moves again? She knows how I feel from the get go. Just not good with time. Im eager.

>>17368842
Whatever you do DO NOT PUT HER ON A PEDESTAL.
Treat her like you like her and like to spend time togheter but also have your time alone, seriously, even if you have nothing to do alone find something so you don't think about her 24/7.

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Hi,
there's this chick I know from a university sports group that I had half a year ago. I only spoke to her briefly in that time and last time I spoke to her was casual and half a year ago.

In the last couple of weeks I saw her a handful of times where she seemed to blush / smile at me. Last time at the cafeteria complex but she only smiled from afar and I didn't think much of it.... until the evening that day when I held my dick in my hand once again...

Problem: now lectures are over and I could only see her in the cafeteria complex by chance within the next few weeks.

so HOW should I talk to her?

should I get her number from the Whatsapp group we were both in ?

should I wait somewhere and then try to 'coincidentally' meet her in the cafeteria complex?

please answer with the reasoning behind the decision. Thank you very much guys!

>>17368853
Yeah I understand. That's hard to do because I've honestly NEVER felt this way before. I can't eat. I can't sleep. I wake up hoping it'll just work out.

If there's one thing I've done right it's show her I have stuff to do if we aren't hanging out. The other day the first time we hung out since it all happened I told her I was going to the club with some friends. Like I want to text her right now and initiate conversation but I also need to back off..just sucks 100% this situation

>>17367879
>too submissive
>willing to go with whatever you say
>no matter how wrong or odd it might be

are you kidding me bro? sounds like a gem

greentext and / or examples of what she was ok with, please


also, where did you meet someone so willing?
a girl I talked to on tinder talked about all the kinky shit she wanted me to do when we met
I'm talking
>hardcore choking
>hog-tying her
>cutting her back with a razor
>rough anal
>insulting her
>fisting
>pushing her head underwater
>inserting ice inside her while fucking

(she had done it all in the past so I wasn't expected her to have an issue)

I was so fucking excited, but when we met up turned out she liked me romantically and retracted everything she said
in the end she was still pretty submissive but it was a major let down

>>17368860
>i can't eat. i can't sleep
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9K7rmxjk5RQ

Itfb, but you gotta learn to control this, otherwise the suffering will be worse.
Don't be distant either, but that's easier for you.

>>17368868
It's not EASY to be distant..but I feel ya.
It's going to take serious time to control this feeling. I'm hoping things work out and I won't have to.

I can't really vibe to that song I gotta listen to stuff like this when I'm down
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qKDBVF9F91Y

>>17368877
The song was because of the lyrics.

When you want to talk to someone all the time is fucking hard to know the ideal frequency, buy we need to control ourselves because it sucks for the other end.

I'm not sure if this deserves it's own thread so I'll start here to not rile the mods.

I was at a party the other night (yeah I know >reeeee) and got with a girl, weirdly enough it was all initiated by her. Anyways so we only made out for a short while and my ride home arrived way earlier than expected so I had to go without really finishing what I started.

That was two days ago, I have not made contact with her since. It only really occurred to me today that it may be more than a once-off thing, that I could actually develop this into a proper relationship, or at least get with her again in future. However, I'm not really desperate, it's quite clear we don't have much in common and I don't honestly think I'd enjoy being in a romantic relationship with her.

That being said, I'm willing to give it a shot. So, people of the female gender, is it okay to start messaging someone like 3 days after you get with them, or would that be a little weird? I really don't know what I'd say to her either, I'd just kind of test the waters and try to figure out how she feels.

I've got nothing to lose I guess but we are connected through a big group of people and I'm 95% sure whatever I message her, she'll tell at least 1 of her friends, and thus they'll all end up knowing whatever I do. So wait I guess I do have a lot of face to lose if I do something weird lmao.

>>17368068
because it will rapidly diminish my chances to actually find a decent guy

>>17368539
Eh, I'd say go for it then. Worst case is an awkward two months. You get to bounce no matter what happens.

>>17368884
Yep. That's my struggle right now. She's really independent. When we spoke about everything that happened she said she needs space and can't be smothered with attention (assured me I wasn't doing that). She's at work now I want to text her and ask how she is but I just dont know. I don't know how much is too much with her

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>>17368803
femanon and i'm really not into that kind of stuff. a few guys have tried to pull that on me, so i guess it's pretty common place that girls like it.

>>17368906
That's is something only you can find out, young grasshopper.

>>17368803
So far all 3 of the girls I've fucked have been to some extent submissive
( all 3 met on tinder cus not too confident with girls in person, unless I know they like me )

> #1 slampiggy - was into all the stuff I mention in this post ( >>17368861 )
> from how she described it online, she was pretty into all the hardcore shit,
> but she decided it wasn't best for our relationship because she saw me as more than a casual fuck

> #2 random slut - misrepresented what she looked like online, but her ass was so firm that I went with it
> wasn't so much submissive, but wanted me to take control of sex. ( doggystyle, public missionary )
> not very noteworthy, her family was mega rich, she wanted to spend big on me but I refused cus I knew it would be over soon. ( she spent like 2.5k on her last bf )

> #3 current gf - innocent catholic chick who's only sexual experience was sending a few nudes. (hadn't even kissed a guy)
> took her virginity after 3 and a half months of getting her used to penetration. (seriously, 1 finger inserted half way hurt her)
> once we got used to fucking, discovered she liked any sexual contact involving her neck, which is something I learnt from the last girl.
> went from kissing, licking, rubbing and lightly biting her neck, to semi-hard choking
> she also likes being thrown around, (I'm 6'2" and she's like 5'2" or 3" ) having her arms held down while I lick her all over
> and just generally being controlled, as long as I'm not being mean or overly aggressive. ( has anxiety )

cont...

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>>17368957
cont

I've noticed a pattern so far
Its not just a stereotype that girls who have

>self esteem issues
>parent issues
>been taken advantage of

are more likely to be submissive

> #1 - was only slightly above weight and had a cleft lip which she wanted to surgically remove ( pic not her but is similar )
> ironically, despite seriously enjoying all this stuff ( >>17368861 ) plus more, was hardcore into MMA fighting and idolized Ronda Rousey
> I think she had some serious issues, because sometimes when we took the train/bus together and I bopped to music we were listening to
> would get seriously tense and stop smiling immediately. ( later told me it made her feel like I would attack her cus of her fighting history )
> also barely knew her dad, her mother was a tattoo artist who acted more like a landlord than a parent, and her sister had anger issues.

> #2 - barely got to know the family, but the mother seemed completely normal
> on the other hand, her father and brother were apparently hardcore christians, the dad looked like a biker but I dont know if he ever abused her
> told me one night that an older guy she was out on a date with forced her head down on his dick, making her blow him ( seemed like it scarred her to some extent)

> #3 - family is pretty normal. overprotective mother, super chill father, 420 younger brother
> cept she has serious anxiety and self esteem issues. would send pictures to guys online when they pressured her into it because she was lonely
> because of being seriously nervous a lot of the time, was picked on sometimes at school, but otherwise no real issues here

Femanons, how long is too long after a match to message you on tinder? Like at what point has the ship sailed?

Anybody, but mainly girls:

I am 27 and never had a gf. I want to try online dating. Is that something that you would want to know?

Part of the reason I keep putting of dating is because of the fear that I'd be too inexperienced to be any good. A real catch 22.

Men, what would you do?

>>17369037
Nothing to lose I guess, be prepared to screw up I guess but pull through.
Good luck anon.

>>17368976
This is totally why I asked. I recently told my boyfriend that I'm into that stuff. He's totally down for it. But he seemed to respond in a way that made me wonder if he thought I was some kind of psycho underneath it all.

But the thing is, I don't fall into any of those categories. No dad issues, no past abuse.

I have anxiety, but I assumed it was a sort of behavior trait passed down by my mom. When I was a child, I had trichotillamania, and it's when you pull out your hair because it gives a good sensation. I don't do this anymore, but when bf pulls my hair I get that sensation.

Other than that, I am sensitive to all touch, ridiculously ticklish, and yea. I mean, tactile stimulation just gives me chills down my spine. And more recently, I have found that during sex, slight pain gives me so much pleasure.

I just don't want my bf to think I'm some abused freak so I wanted to know how normal it was.

guys, guys...
my bf keeps asking about my fetishes and so far i have sucessfully avoided to give a clear answer. he now thinks i'm vanilla af when in fact i'm just into stuff i'm NOT going to tell him. what the hell do i do now? i tried to develope some more acceptable fetishes but it does jack shit for me.

>>17369163
And now you're gonna tell us what it is.

If I cum inside, I can keep going and stay rock hard for hours. Most girls have seemed impressed with this, however I thought many guys could do this. Can many guys stay rock hard after cumming?

>>17369186
nope. after i cum i got maybe 2 mins before erection loss. about 20 30 mins im ready to go again so yea

>>17369163
That's no way to go about a relationship

>>17369181
It changes constantly, but there are some reoccuring themes.
Recently i'm fapping mostly to post orgasm torture and urethral sounding. But i had phases where i got off to breastfeeding or bestiality. I have fapped to some pretty convincing rape and i like porn with disabled. Lately i have even gone really low and started to have slight furry advances. My more normal and actually doable fetishes would include pegging, mommy play or chastity devices. I mean, if i could tell him that i'm into him "lightly choking me" like every other girl, i would tell him that and we'd be done with it. But you can't casually tell a guy you want to shove something up his dick...

>>17369208
I am aware. That's why i am coming here for help. I don't know how to gently tell him so he doesn't have a trauma and runs out the door.

>>17369186
That happens sometimes with my bf, but not usually. If we hadn't had sex in a while and he's really fucking horny, he can cum and then slowly go on and cum again.

>>17369216
Do you like midgets too?
I was gonna say "i'm putting my money on dogs or midgets", but i thought your opinion on a hard fetish was spanking or something lighter.

You are kinda fucked... probably in everyway. I don't think your relationship can work in the long run, unless you actually say what you are into and by a miracle he is too.

>Girls

When you like a guy do you usually come on super strong?

>23 yo virgin
>Have had multiple girls come on to me in the past, but always sperged out because I was beta
>All the girls would come on super strong
>Make eludes to having sex, sending me nudes, asking me to come over to their house for the very first date, etc.
>Obviously scared to follow up on that because of aforementioned betaness/virgin

It's just so foreign to me that a girl would be THAT into me just starting out. I figured girl's would be a bit more shy and coy about the whole thing, but every girl who's expressed interest in means seems to indicated they want me to come over and fuck immediately.

A friend of mine basically set me up with the super cutie. We texted at first then talked a bit through Skype. She was on vacation and she's coming back soon. She wants me to come over to her house and watch a movie with her for a first "date" I guess you could call it.

I really want to man up, but I can't help but feel a tinge of nervousness


>tl;dr: Are girls always so forward with their advances?

Why I'm scared to do anything: Fear of failure

Why: Afraid I will get beaten up for failing in front of people

Why: It could lead to my death, which counts as failing

I could practice martial arts but then all the hospitals and a certain prison gets slightly richer. Also a lot of idiots will be forced to eat from a straw for a few weeks.

>>17369277
Can you elaborate more?

>>17369263
any kind of deformation. But midgets are too usual for my taste.
See? That's exactly what i mean. Everybodie thinks that girls never go beyond "choke me ligthly and pull my hair" (which i absolutely hate) and call it kinky.

my problem is not that i want to actually go trough with most of those fetishes (well, i want to peg him and if i ever get a baby i hope i can get him into breastfeeding...). But my kinks are too far advanced already to be reasonable. He wants something that turns me on when i have sex with him. Our sex is not bad, i really enjoy it. But i don't have anything i could tell him that he could actually do to get me even more aroused. THAT'S the problem. I mean, if i ask him about his fetishes he comes up with lame stuff like used panties and that makes it even more unrealistic to tell him about what gets me off when i masturbate...

dated girl, felt there really was potential, get blown off and dumped for her friend and fun coworkers who wanted to party.

comes back and wanted a second chance. ok, sure. awesome time during "honeymoon phase" but when it wore off, the old feelings of resentment came creeping back

the more i pull away now, short of ending things completely, the more she's latching like she'd scared of being alone

>>17369283
I don't really give two shitty shits on a shingle what everyone else believes in, but once I die there is only darkness and silence and no feeling at all, which is something I am never interested in, and why I am so afraid of death.

>>17369284
I don't think girls should never go beyond that; it's just that it is usually males that go beyond that. Girls usually say that those things are disgusting, that's why i presumed you were not on the rarer side.

>But i don't have anything i could tell him that he could actually do to get me even more aroused.
Try saying this maybe?
Sounds bad and good from his perspective but saying you want to have a dog ripping your ass while a veteran with only one arm and no legs eats your pussy sounds worse.

>>17369306
I was more interessed on the being beaten up for failure part.

>>17369314
>being beaten up for failure part.

has it ever happened to any one before?

if so then fuck normal life.

I fucking hate percentage.

>>17369312
I told him but i feel like he's not convinced. I was tempted to tell him the truth (maybe in small doses) with the added information that i only want to watch porn about that stuff an not actually DO it. I think he would still not be thrilled, since he obviously just wants to know what gets me going in bed, not what my deepest darkest porn fetishes are.

>>17369325
Good luck, but please, know when it's time to bail out.
>>17369323
Nigga say what?
You are not making much sense, anon...
It's not normal having people beat you up when you fail.

>>17369337
Bail out of what? Telling him the truth?

>>17369345
The relationship. You have something that is out of his reach and he wants to reach it but never will.
This might be a deal breaker, or not i don't know how much he cares.

To girls, let's say someone tells you or a girl friend of yours this

>"you should stay away from boys because :

>they will manipulate you to get what they want. Trust me, I used to do it
>love messes with your mind
>this person had to have an abortion because she got pregnant after having sex out of wedlock, and now she can't have children because god punished her
>So you are forbidden to have even male friends, and I will check up on you, and monitor who you see, and check your phone
>you must do what I say and pray to god

What do you think? Agree? Disagree? What would you do?

>>17369376

Obviously the person saying all of that is a fucking loon. How is this even a question?

>>17369400
Knowing that all this probably comes from a mixture of sincere affection and archaic education, how do you think one should handle a person like that?

How to break out the fact that the person he's talking to isn't religious, and that the restrictions on her social life and intimacy are an issue.

Every other girl in the family fled the house at some point, which oddly enough didn't seem to make the boys of the family question their values.

>>17369413
>which oddly enough didn't seem to make the boys of the family question their values.
I'll elaborate.

The other sisters left the house without warning at different points in time. All of them.
And none of the brothers thought "maybe something is wrong with the way we treat them".

>>17369376
Say "OK, cool" and move on the other side of the continent

Which is more or less what I did

>>17368402
They teach robotics in elementary school and summer camp. It's just fucking with Lego minndstorms

>>17369413
>So you are forbidden to have even male friends, and I will check up on you, and monitor who you see, and check your phone
He is crazy. A lost cause.
Even without that last part he would only be worth anything if you really wanted to make it work.

>>17369417
Can you tell me about that?

>>17369276
Some are and some aren't. Be thankful it's being laid out in front of you like that. Only thing to be wary of is how easy a woman is gonna give it up can say more about them.

Even if you have a funny or embarrassing situation so what? The first time is gonna be the first time whether you go in blind or train like an athlete. You have already used the word "multiple" so you can't be too bad looking. Just embrace it.

>>17369413

By removing them from your life?

That person is a fanatic, plain and simple. It doesnt matter if their intentions are good. You cant argue with them. Their thought process is not grounded in logic and reason but by religious skywizard dogma.

The harder you fight back, the harder they will crack down and try to "save" you from eternal suffering in hell or w/e. They will never stop trying if they are a true believer.

Sorry but some people are just plain toxic (even if its not their fault) and as much as that sucks, thats just reality, and no amount of wishful thinking will change that.

>>17369430
This

You can't help someone that doesn't think he has a problem

>>17369430
>>17369432
So in your opinion even a discussion of "let me be" wouldn't work?

According to what I know, one of the sisters is left alone because they "don't like her very much, and don't care".
One of the brothers actually left far away because he found them too annoying and they haven't tried to get to him either.
Another sister had the abortion and she wasn't killed or anything so I guess that's something.

I just wonder if she could try and make them understand that she just isn't who they think she is. And drop the police state behavior. I don't know if that ever worked for anyone.

Thing is she's going to another city soon, and they said they'd drop in uninvited just to check on her. She's 19, which is past the majority here, and planning to take her distance, but in the meantime she's suffocating.

I just wondered if there was a chance they might stop that, even if they feel disappointed, by just telling them who she is.

>>17369337
>It's not normal having people beat you up when you fail.

It's not?

Why?

>>17367585
I'm the male version of her, shes a raging autismo.

>>17369458
Not really, usually it requires intimacy for you to beat up someone when they fail, even then it's not normal.
When someone fails you usually move on or punish them according to some rule or with verbal violence.

>>17369443

It might. But probably wont. They would either cut you off completely and accept the fact that satan himself has taken over your body and your soul is damned for eternity. Or, give you a little bit of breathing room - and then proceed to find more covert and creative ways to attempt to sway you back into the fold.

Its worth a shot. But again, you are dealing with fanatics. Imagine someone you love dearly trying to convince you that water is infact not wet, and that if you try hard enough you can breath underwater. Obviously no matter how good their arguement is, no matter how many facts and logic based reasonings they give you - you will never agree with them. Instead, because you love them and care about them, you will continue to try and save them from drowning themself.

Kind of a dumb analogy. But the point im trying to make is that you are effectively trying to debate what is an unquestionable truth in their mind, and you will never succeed.

They will always try to save you from "drowning", or, will see you as dead already and grieve your loss after cutting you out of their life.

>>17369276
Somewhat, I'll spend some time feeling him out. Just because I liked him at the first impression doesn't mean I still will after we get to know each other better.
I'll be flirting with him pretty strongly though. Ask him to send nudes but I'll be just fucking around with it desu until I get a good idea of who he is, it's going nowhere and then I might just bail because I won't like him.
So it looks somewhat like this
>friendly + banter
>will make you talk about yourself
>flirting
>moar flirting
>either you are in or break contact
If it comes to meeting and someone has expectations I'll break it off than break contact.

>>17369506
+ It'll probably look pretty forward though, but that doesn't I'll fuck him.
Your girls are probs either comfortable with you or slags

>>17369490
Yeah. I get your point.

The goal of it wouldn't be to change their mind about it, but to have them accept that she isn't like that. Which of course you already explained what their reaction would be, and I think it makes sense.

I'll try and be supportive. Thanks to all you guys. And keep adding stuff if you feel like it.

dude here in an open relationship

should I tell girls that I am in an open relationship if I'm just looking for casual sex/fwb situations. I feel ethically obligated to, but I feel like this would turn off most women and make shit even more difficult. so for the girls, would you even consider a casual thing with a dude in an open relationship?

>>17369515

Theres no accepting someone that you love is going to go intentionally drown themself. It really is a black and white situation when youre dealing with a fanatic, religious or otherwise. They cannot be reasoned with, you cant bargain with them - their truth is the only truth and all else is heresy.

As i said, the closest you can get to acceptance, best case scenario, is that they back off for a while but continue to plot secretly - eventually going back to where you are now when those secretive attempts fail and they are forced to be blunt.

Not at all on the same tier, but both sets of my grandparents were devout catholics. Both my parents were raised as good christians, had to attend services and bible studies, my dad was even in catholic school.

Both my parents turned out to be deadhead agnostic hippies. They refused to baptize me or my brother or incorporate religion into our lives on any level whatsoever, because they believed we should decide for ourselves as adults rather than be brainwashed as children.

My grandparents on both sides were not happy. Infact they were horrified that their sweet little grandchildren would live life as heathens and burn in hell. Nothing ever became of it, but we joke that my dad's parents secretly baptized us with holy water in the kitchen sink when they babysat us.

Again apple and oranges to your tale - but the point is that they were so firm in their belief, and cared so much - that they would resort to such ridiculous things to "save" us.

>>17367573
If you're interested in a relationship then take it slower. Don't have sex on the first date.

>>17367610
She look like she's in her mid to late twenties. There's no fucking way she's 18.

>>17367573
Well, you're in the flipped scenario, it usually happens to girls. Do what they do: wait with sex. If they'll stick around, they want more than in your pants.

>>17369548
It'll probably turn off a lot of people, but wouldn't you rather be with the ones it doesn't bother?

>>17368803
This is pretty much the norm for women, either vanilla or light sub. It enforces the stereotypical dynamic. I wouldn't know statistics but am pretty sure that this is the #1 sexual preference for women outside of normal stuff.

Personally I like being spanked, lightly restrained, having my clothes pulled off. If a guy tried to fuck with my oxygen supply I'd literally kick him out of my bed though, no idea how and why that ever became an accepted surprise thing to do.
But overall I do not identify as a sub. I like the more intense kind of pinning down and coming for me, but not name calling (including stuff like sir) or other real elements of powerplay. If it has an element of power I actually prefer to be dominant.

But basically, if this is you're thing you're in luck, very common and considered very sexy.

Male here
What makes you stick around a guy? Like I can get on dates that usually seem to go well, but I can never get the second date. What can I do to change myself to be more attractive as a person?

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GUYS!

What do you think when your (or a) dog buries his face into a girl's crotch every time the dog sees her?

>>17369599
I don't think much of it considering mone does the same. I think it'll depend on the guy with this one.

>>17369037
Anybody else?

>>17369056
Yeah, I assume that will happen a lot.

>>17369599
I feel sorry for the girl because it's awkward as fuck.
Dogs sniff everything new, unusual or interesting. They also do that with guys but i guess girls have more interesting smells for them.

>>17369614
This is considerate weird; i wouldn't talk about it unless asked.
You are trying to sell yourself, don't just state your negatives like that.

>>17369614
I'd tell them down the line. Not during one of the first dates, blow the question off with something like "nothing that stuck". Definitely do not allude to it in your profile.

Personally, I'd be a bit on my guard in case I felt like the guy was emotionally immature or didn't have a healthy self esteem and independence. If I talked to someone multiple times and didn't get that impression from him at all, I wouldn't care. It actually seems pretty fun to make sure a guy's first time rocks his world.

In my opinion, if someone already fell for you a bit then it put off by something like that, you kind of dodged a bullet (regardless of how much that's easier said than perceived that way) because apparently they didn't care that much about -you-.

>>17369591
Hmmmmm
I could be friends with him, which means he has a sense of humor or at least appreciates mine and is smart. Also kind. I have an allergy for self-absorbed nancies and armchair activists.
>>17369599
Damn nice booty

>>17369625
Considered*

>>17369619
This reminds me that there was a dog from a man in my neighborhood who once stuck his nose in my crotch and took a relishing, audible whiff. I was mortified but the worst thing was that whenever that dog saw me again, he recognized me straight away and started pulling and trying to get to me.

I'd see the guy's face turn to "oh god, it's the girl with the cooch", it came to the point where he'd just turn around when he spotted me.
This was too much to handle for an awkward fifteen year old.

>>17369037
Honey, dating is a market. You're supposed to sell yourself and target a girl you'll like.
Don't overshare.

For guys,

Asked earlier but wanted to clarify the question. How would you respond or feel if a girl asked you to model (clothed) for her drawings given you know she studies art in school?

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>>17369633
Best post of the day by far

>>17369643
I have no idea but your requirement for a model from what i remenber is you being attracted to him or finding him hot. That doesn't sound good at all.

>>17369648

Well someone asked if I meant someone specifically and I was saying no it usually crosses my mind if the guy is attractive or interesting. Someone else replied saying they would feel happy but also sad because it confirms their ugliness so my response was that usually people don't draw stuff they find ugly. I'm asking because I need practice (since I have only ever asked my female friends) but I'm afraid to ask a guy/my guy friends because 1. Sounds creepy af if we don't know each other (at least it definitely would be if the gender was reversed) or 2. If we are friends they might misconstrue my intentions.

>>17369625
That was my thinking. Focus on the positives.

>>17369626
OK, that's good. I won't lie, but I'll try and spin it in to a positive. Say I spend more time trying to improve myself (which still isn't a lie).

>>17366593
Girls, how much does that time of the month change your mood/overall personability?
New co-worker went from being nice and cheery the first day I worked with her to "do not talk to me today" (I asked her how her week went and what she thought about the job only to recieve silence) about a week later.
I don't feel like I was a dick so I'm attributing it that.
Am I wrong?

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>>17369599
Oh my god, i hate that so much i can't even tell you. It's the main reason i don't like dogs. My bf's parents have one and he sniffs my crotch EVERY FUCKING TIME. It is pretty humiliating.

I feel like this dosen't deserve it's own thread.
How come
>I can't ejaculate unless i'm lying down
>I can't ejaculate if my penis is wet
>beating the meat feels like shit unless I only use the tips of my fingers

>>17369808
Conditioning. You might want ti get rid of this or it will get problematic to fuck. Stick to masturbating in (for you) unusual ways till you can cum like that tok

>>17368738
I met her through friends a couple months ago, at a bar. I'd prefer not to say which religion, as you never know who might be reading this Yknow? I have plausible deniability right now, lol. It's a major religion though. I think I'll try that, when should i text her and ask if i was trying for the weekend? Maybe Wednesday? She's also kinda cold in texts, if that makes a difference. It seems like a whole different situation in person though. Not sure what's up with that either.

>>17368589
Bumping for this question, if anyone else doesn't mind weighing in.

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I dislike and can't trust women, outside of my mother and grandmothers.
I haven't gotten along with my little sister in over decade, and any interaction I have with her is awkward at best. I can't shake the deep dislike I have of her, due to the mutual, decade old animosity we have had. She is no longer as horrible as she used to be, but I still cannot say that I actually love or care about her like I do of the rest of my family members. The bitterness and dislike of her is too deeply ingrained into me. I struggle to see her in any positive light.

When I was in school, girls bullied, and teased me with even more gusto than guys did, and in high school, I didn't even dare to approach them because of the feeling that they inherently hate and abhor me. I can safely say, that I had basically zero truly positive interactions with females in my 12 years of school life.

The only girls I ever have truly gotten along with were my preteen cousins, whom I spent a lot of time with during the past few years, and all that achieved was getting my aunt think that I was a pedophile, because apparently, stuff like holding a 10 year old in your lap, cuddling etc showcases of affection, are pedo. Those accusations shattered any trust I had towards my aunt, and I don't want to even see her again, because of the horrid suspicious she has had about me.

The first positive interaction I had with a girl roughly my age was this year, at the age of 23, when I got back into studying after about a 3 year break. I befriended (or thought so at least), a girl who lived in the same apartment complex as I, and even developed feelings for her, for the first time in my life. I truly thought that she was my friend, and that we might eventually be something more, but all that came tumbling down when she suddenly dropped all contact with me, without even giving me the courtesy of telling me why.

Females are fickle, fey like creatures who only seem to cause pain and suffering to me.

>>17369945
The difference between men and women is that men are more physical and women are more psychological.
All in all, people are all terrible.

>>17369963
That doesn't really help me understand our trust women any better. Mind games and emotional manipulation just leave me hurt and confused.

>>17370016
Is it what you want advise on?
I can't help you with that, to be honest. I just can't trust anyone and that keeps me away from those mind games but it also keeps me away from any meaninful relationship.
You can try to do that and meanwhile learn more about women and know when they are up to no good. It's not like you have any meaninful thing going on, so i'd say you have nothing to lose.

What kind of frequency of being asked to either hang out or go on a date is too much for the femanons here? Is your golden number twice a week, once every couple days, or something else? Obviously this is totally dependent on the individual, because what may be excessive to some may be just right for others.

Guys:
I have cysts in my ovary and one of them ruptured during sex with my boyfriend. He pulled out and I was sort of riggling around moaning in pain, but he kept jacking himself off.

Is this not an instant boner killer? Should you not be so worried the mood disappears? He was quite supportive after he came (offering to dress me and stuff), but I'm only just realising how weird that was in the moment.

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>Meet girl online
>We talk for a bit, ended up exchanging numbers
>I ask her out, she says yes
>We end up texting a lot
>Go on first date with girl last weekend
>I think it went relatively well
>Saw a movie, got some food
>Talked for a bit
>Then we went to say our goodbyes
>We both kind of just stand there, staring at each other
>Then we both kind of awkwardly wave goodbye
>She agrees to a second date though

I feel like I fucked something up. I can't help but maybe shake the feeling that she wanted to kiss or something.

>>17369643
>How would you respond or feel if a girl asked you to model (clothed) for her drawings given you know she studies art in school?

Umm...

Personally, unless they were a close friend I'd probably decline and be... bemused?

And if it was from a close friend I'd know them enough to know if it was a come on or not and so I wouldn't really think much of it.

>>17370069

Depends on how deep in the throes he was.

It's not just dudes, if you're far enough down that rabbit hole, it's pretty easy to get so lost in the moment that you become kind of myopic and it becomes hard to notice anything else going on.

Girls

I need advice. I've been friends with this girl a while, and well.. Lately things have been going bad for her,
And we haven't been talking much. I've always been there for her in the past when she's needed me, and she knows this. But lately I don't hear much from her at all. And I'm a bit concerned because I'm actually going to be traveling to the city near where she lives in a month. And we've talked about before spending some time together. I feel pretty bad, I'm not Sure what to say.

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If you're out to lunch with a girl and she gets bad news on her phone, tells you what it is, and looks like she's about to cry because of it, but doesn't, does holding it back mean anything? I wasn't even really sure what to say or do, the drive back was awkward as fuck. I just kept telling her it would be ok, and that I'd help her through it, and she'd be fine. I tried to tell her it was ok to cry but she didn't seem like she was comfortable with it. I don't even know what I should have done, holy shit. I'll most likely be seeing her tomorrow, should I even ask if she's ok or just act as if nothing happened?

>>17370071
sounds like you arent too experienced, but she just reacted that way because you gave off conflicted signals and she didnt know what you were gonna do, but chances are you are doing alright and you will see. The thing that will tell you if everything was ok or not is, whether she will go on a second date with you.
if she does, everything is fine

>>17370168
you tried to be too intimate for a first date.
imagine a girl bringing her toothbrush and clothes to leave at your place when she comes to the second date to your place.

I dont know how autistic you are, it could fail, but there is a chance, that she will think positive about you caring about her problems.

>>17370069
you are not the first girl that cried during sex or had pain down there, I would personally not wank during it, but it's nothing that sets us into emergency mode.

>>17369643
I dont see a problem here, just make it clear that it's not a date by maybe paying him or something.

would be kind of flattered jsut as when people compare you to an actor

Girls and guys

Why do you all always say that I need to "move on" after things don't work out with a specific girl? in my case, I haven't been looking for love or sex. It just sort of happened, and now that it's over I feel absolutely fucking terrible. But I don't want to go find more girls, I don't want to have sex.. Why do people keep saying "move on?" How am I suppose to do that?

>>17370209
it means not dwelling on it, if you think about your ex or a girl from the past, actively try to think of something else or doing something else instead.
because you will never start to feel better, if you still think about how to salvage it and what you did wrong etc. to some extend it's ok but it's pointless. I ahve lost half a year of my life dwelling on my first love, when there was no chance whatsoever i could win her. And there are men out there dwelling 10 years over a woman. you dont want to be like that.

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>>17370185
so basically my autism struck again and she'll be avoiding me from now on or what? But serious question here, what would the ideal have been? We were already out, and she got the bad news. I HAD to drive her back. I couldn't just strand her. Should I have just turned some music on and not said a word the whole way?

Are there women out there who are waiting until marriage to have sex, but not very religious (so, largely out of worrying)?

>>17370224

The thing is, I have so much time that I can't not think about her.. I work fulltime, but at work there is period of time when there is literally nothing to do, and nothing I can do to occupy my mind. So sometimes all I can do is think about her..

I know it's in the FAQ but, really, where do I meet women in real life? I'm a relatively anxious person, I live in the middle of nowhere, and I didn't really talk to girls in high school because I was white and they were all black, so the situation's... rough.

- bar? (I don't drink but I could go anyway and/or start drinking?)
- library? (doesn't seem likely?)
- some kind of... IDK, restaurant?(???)
- the mall? (been there like twice ever?)

>>17370283
>Are there women out there who are waiting until marriage to have sex, but not very religious (so, largely out of worrying)?
>largely out of worrying)

Not a chick... and not to offend anyone... but if you think about it... that is like the absolute WORST primary reason to find out someone's been waiting.

Not because they were religious, not because they were principled, not because they were hoping to find someone special.... but because they were so fearful it limited their scope of interactions...

Yeah... a little hesitancy is understandable and maybe to an extent, cute, but if that's your PRIMARY reason... that implies a level of mental fucked up that whispers of a whole slew of other complications and proverbial land-mines.

>>17370300
Check out your local parks & rec. Do activities, join clubs. Go to music events, and practice chatting up people. Even men! Just so you can get used to talking to strangers!
Try a church. I go to church, and there are quite a few atheists there. It's mostly for community, philosophy, and singing.
Do online dating. Just do it.

Though I'd say that chatting up strangers would be like, my best recommendation. You're anxious, that means talking to women is scary for you. Talking to strangers when you're not used to it is hard enough as it is.

Practice asking people the time. Then ask for directions. And then ask for recommendations for places to see/eat. Compliment someone on something they're wearing and ask a question about it.
If you're playing pokemon go, walk up to someone playing and ask for help.

If all else fails, move.

I believe in u

>>17370168
You're over thinking things. You did what you could to show that you cared. You did good.
Sometimes people don't want to talk about things that trouble them, or they don't like crying in front of others. That's okay. You didn't do anything that would make you avoid-worthy.

What I might suggest is saying, "Hey, do you want to talk about it?" or "Are you doing alright?" whichever you feel is more appropriate for your style and the dynamic you two have.

It's okay! It's okay, Anon.

Out of curiosity, what was her bad news?

>>17370069
Pain looks a lot like pleasure. Were you saying things while moaning that would indicate the issue?
Even if you looked pretty obviously in serious pain, with boner goggles he might not have realized it yet.

How does one go about getting a one night stand? I've been going to clubs for two years now and I've never had one. Do you just talk to girls, and ask if they wanna come to my place?

>>17369945
>. I befriended (or thought so at least), a girl who lived in the same apartment complex as I, and even developed feelings for her, for the first time in my life. I truly thought that she was my friend, and that we might eventually be something more, but all that came tumbling down when she suddenly dropped all contact with me, without even giving me the courtesy of telling me why.
I thought you said you'd stop posting. We are not your blog, we are not your therapist. Get a tumblr and call your doctor. Please stop please stop please stop

Do any women find doggystyle, reverse cowgirl and other positions that are 'reversed' painful? My gf claims they hurt like I'm going to rip her inner walls out. Yet in missionary and cowgirl I can pound away.

>>17369773
It could be that. Or maybe she hadn't had her coffee. Or maybe she didn't sleep well. Or maybe she changed her medication. Or maybe she had a migraine. Or maybe she had a back ache. Or maybe her friend pissed her off. Or maybe her grandma died. Or maybe she decides she doesn't like the job. Or maybe she decided she doesn't like you.

We can't really know.

Girls is it possible for me to get an ex I haven't spoken to in 4 years back or do you have any tips in how I would do it? We were best friends for years before we started dating. She also broke up with me but my life has completely flipped in the 4 years and I'm now very successful except I can't get over her and each relationship I've had since I've ended in about a month because I compare them to her and what we had.

>>17366977
Have him stop fapping for at least a week.

Ride him hard. The dick can only not release itself for so long. Make his body react to your touch more; make him want it every time he sees you.

Positive reinforcement works wonders, but he seriously needs to stop masturbating that often and that forcefully.

>>17369548
Yes, I would expect it to be said. Be honest and clear about it. Even if you think it's something "casual" if you don't straight up talk about non-monogamy, then people are going to assume that you're exclusive.
Some girls won't be into it, but that doesn't mean you should lie to those girls so that they'll fuck you anyway. That will make things more difficult for you when they inevitably find out. There will be girls out there who are thrilled to be in this position, because it's low commitment and there are less concerns about this guy catching feels.
t. a girl who is a fuck buddy to a guy in an open relationship and is thrilled about it.

>>17367730
Girth is far more important than length unless you are sub-4 inches, in which case it becomes noticeable.

My advice is to get a BathMate. Best sex toy I've ever owned. After 20 min of safe pumping with warm water, your dick will be about 1/2 inch longer but 1.5 times as thick, and thickness is where it counts for women when it comes to pleasure. (Source: 2 women I tried this on both commented on the thickness and the moans were extra labored)

Alternatively, get good with your fingers and tongue.

If I've been told that I'm attractive by several people, why no woman has ever flirted with me or shown interest in me?

>>17370555
They were just being nice, you probably average

I've had a "fwb" for a year because I had feelings for him and I settled for what I could get. He went out with a girl hes non-serious dated on & off yesterday (2 days after we fucked) and shes his type. But what actually made me upset is the comparison with how he treats me vs her. I feel like shes above me, like she somehow deserves to be respected by him yet I dont. I've only had sex with 1 person. So I found her tumblr and sent vague anonymous asks to ask her to stop fucking with him. There is no way to do this without looking like an insane whore. If thats what I am then so be it. I don't even have a right to feel this way which makes it so much worse. But it just isn't fair, I put up with being a fwb for a year for nothing and she just effortlessly gets to be with him. I don't get to see him for any other reason than sex. But all she had to do was exist. I wish I didn't waste my time. A year is a really long time to fuck with someone who doesn't fuck with you like that.
So my question is, what would 100-150 xanax bars cost?

>>17370557
I've seen girls showing interest in average guys all the time, but not me

>>17370565
Maybe you don't show confidence

>>17370571
the other night I went to a bar with friends as I usually do
I initiated a talk with a girl and asked her if she had a boyfriend, she just stood up and, slightly drunk as she was, shouted that she did and went on to make out with three guys in front of me "this is my boyfriend, wait no this is, sorry this one is" one after the other, I don't know why the fuck she did that really

but no, I'm a confident guy and I consider myself above average when it comes to looks

seriously, why the fuck did she do that >>17370598

>>17370598
>>17370621
Because she was drunk and was probably already flirting with those three guys

>>17368887
Bumping this question and also, if I'm only interested in a sexual kind of Fwb relationship, how do I go about telling her?

>>17370631
I wish I could just get drunk and assault three girls in quick succession without getting rejected or accused of rape

>>17370647
¯\_(ツ)_/¯

How the hell are you supposed to reconcile with an ex if it was LDR?

>>17370689
You don't.

>>17370700
Yeah but what if?

>>17370717
Then you spend the rest of your days pining away for something that could not be.

>>17370302
well I mean, the principle is good, but for most people it's clearly not enough to stop them
I have anxiety disorder, and I don't know if anyone who doesn't have serious worry from whatever source a) would understand where I'm coming from and b) would still be a virgin without being hyper-religious or an abhorrent sort of person (because I want a virgin for reasons that would take like another 3 minutes to get into but come down to anxiety again among other things)

How on earth do you message a girl who's profile says literally nothing aside from "I like netflix and cuddles"

Hello! I'm looking for input from anybody here. What's happened to me a few times is that I'll go to talk to or ask someone out, but then see that they're with their parents so I don't say anything.

I guess what I'm asking here is would you find it weird if someone started talking to you or asked you out and you were with a member of your family? Because I think it'd be really weird. Thanks!

>>17370409
thanks
it's not nearly as hard as it used to be, I can totally talk to people, and even sound normal, I just didn't know how to make that happen
parks, huh? I can look at that
churches? I'm not an atheist but I'm not all that religious either, so being in a church now feels... awkward
clubs? I thought for like 3 minutes you were talking like model planes and shit until I remembered night clubs-- I've never been to one, I don't dance, I don't drink, I don't want to be around drugs... so really the whole thing seems like a non-starter-- unless I'm wrong?
on-line dating? yeah, I've thought about that, any recommendations for which site?

Is it just me, or is masturbating the best human discovery ever?

I've been worried all day about texting this girl who. But decided to masturbate before, and now. I don't even want to talk to her, but a few hours ago she was all I could think about. So much easier

>>17368589
One last bump for this question. If anyone has anything to say, I'd love to hear it.

>>17370750
No matter if you're asking guys or girls out, yes it would be weird.

>>17370755
>lubs? I thought for like 3 minutes you were talking like model planes and shit until I remembered night clubs
No, I actually am talking about clubs. Art clubs, athletic clubs, kayaking clubs. It'll be available through your town's parks and recreations.

basic question, how do I talk to women? Anytime I talk to a girl, they seem to lose interest. How can I fix this? I've also been on practicing with women and always get the same result. Wtf is wrong with me?

>>17370795
jby

>>17370781
Yeah I figured it would be. Thanks!

>>17370798
Yea I do, they just get bored and leave. I don't want this to happen.

Guys and girls

I'm been texting with this girl for the past month. I like texting with her.. But there is a problem.. She wants to have sex. It's clear. She says she wants us to cuddle and she wants to stare into my blue eyes and pull herself onto me. When we text and when she talks to me like that, it puts me into a trance. But after the whole conversation is over and I go to bed (like right now), I think "shit, I shouldn't have went along with it".

Basically, this cute girl wants to have sex with me, but I don't actually want to, although my body is telling me otherwise. What do I do?

>>17370206

Can't really afford to pay because I'm a poorfag. Usually I just barter some art service (like painting their skateboard) or they just study or play a game or something in the meantime so they aren't wasting their time either.

>>17370988
It might be easier to answer if you tell us why you dont want to have sex

Would you ask out a friend? Any way that this doesn't ruin the friendship?

>>17366593
OK I wanna ask the ladies

Dating men you work with. Good idea or bad idea?

20 year old guy here, soon to be 21. I went to an all boys highschool and I've kept to myself in college so I have 0 experience with girls. I've been working a food service job over the summer for two years now where I met this girl who is one of my coworkers.

>first year met her, talked a bit. I though she was very cute but that was it and I went back to college
>fast forward to this year
>we've been making a lot of small talk and exchanging banter
>she tells me about how she's been in a fight with her boyfriend. Something about him being jealous of her being around another guy and then him moping and hanging out with other girls to get back at her
>continue talking to her more, she's often the one to start the conversation
>thought she had to leave early one day but then see her working
>"I thought you went home"
>"awww, you missed me didn't you anon. You're such a great friend"
>fuck
>learn 3 weeks later that her and her boyfriend still haven't made up

The more we talk the more I like her and the more I want to ask her out but I don't know how to do that without it being really awkward especially since I don't know if she's still committed to this other guy. I can't tell if she's interested or if she's just being friendly with the chit chat and banter. I've never had anyone talk to me like this though. I don't know what to do.

>>17371169
Bad

>>17371156
Sure. Yes, but you can't predict what's going to happen

>>17371175
Don't ask out someone you work with.

>>17371183
>Sure. Yes, but you can't predict what's going to happen

I would see said friend in a lot of classes. Would that make you say its a bad idea, since we would be forced to see each other no matter what happens?

Logically it makes sense that its not a great idea but on the other hand we are in a busy degree and I barely meet anyone else who is not studying the same thing as me. We get along well.

>>17371200
It really depends on a million different things and I couldn't say whether or not you should do it

>>17371213
Thanks for the reply. You're right, I guess I'm just looking for some sense of security in this uncertain time, however false it may be.

Hopefully all turns out well, whether or not I decide to do it. Time will tell.

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So you go out with a guy, you have fun, do a lot of stuff, things are cool etc.
Upon leaving you actually leave the guy with nothing, no hug, no nothing, just a shitty bye. Then you don't even initiate convos with that guy.

Would it be okay if I messaged her? It's been a week and it is killing me.
The other girl.

Talked to her via instagram, she seems interested, asks for my number, I gave it to her, set up a date later on, but I couldn't arrive due to work problems. After I said we could meet another day, things have changed. She left me on seen, she hasn't talked to me ever since but she likes my instagram pictures.

Should I initiate convos?

I don't want to be desperate in both situations but I hate it

>>17369037
>Men, what would you do?
20 here. I just don't bother. I have the exact mindset; too inexperienced to be any good, so shit would definitely fizzle out quickly. Besides which way, I'd have to find someone who doesn't care (yeah fucking right, not in this day and age), because even if you try to hide shit like that people can tell.

It's not like any of the women I meet are interested in me anyways.

Okay so I'm a 18yr old average looking not-chubby but not super skinny guy with social anxiety in a southern rural area of the uk. I don't have any friends and I've only made out with a girl once when I was 16 and that's it. I'm a loner now and I work at home.

So how do any of you girls combat social anxiety or just not knowing how to reconnect with the world. I'm kind of stumped. I'm not very self confident but being in people's company might improve that. I just feel it's unhealthy for me to be so alone when I'm nearly 19.

>>17371243

Bump. Anyone?

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>>17370452
I do what I want.

>>17369105
>hair pulling
>light pain

thanks femanon, you've given me 2 new things to try this friday!

yeah gf's anxiety is pretty bad,
eg:
>confident people scare her

>one time she was given an award she cried when called up to the stage

>feels "put on the spot" when people ask her questions

A more specific example.
>dad is an overly confident lawyer / barrister,
>while gf was over having breakfast with us, baby sister said hello to her.
>she was nervous being around dad so didn't say anything back.
>dad told her to say hello back, in a sort of firm, but not - mean way.
>gf proceeds to have an anxiety attack and almost faints

oh! also, her mum seems very nervous about little things
when she first found out her daughter and I had sex, she started worrying about STDs and pregnancy
even tho I'm clean and we used condoms and the pill
immediately gf started worrying as well, and basically manipulated me into messaging the last girl I was with
( which was incredibly uncomfortable because I dumped her, and was now casually asking if she had given me an std 0


she's ticklish on her feet, but not in a sexual way ( at least I don't think )
will have to compare wetness before and after tickling


>>17369186
I actually trained myself to do this since I was like 15
but at the moment it completely depends on:
>mood ( gf is still getting used to sex AND has anxiety, not a sexy combo )
>temperature ( gets seriously effing cold AND hot here in aus )
>if we're both really into it
( we usually are because I try to take my time, but because we're still living with our parents its difficult to time it)

generally I prefer to eat gf out to multiple orgasms,
and THEN start fucking her because she's already fully turned on and her contractions allow me to cum in 5 - 10
I last on average 20-30 mins, but again it depends on conditions, especially who's in the house with us

If a girl's jealous boyfriend sends me angry text messages telling me not to talk to her or look at her, but she acts normal and still talks to me, doesn't mind touching me, etc., should I mention that he's sending me these things? It makes me wonder how he even got my number is all. I mean if she gave it to him to try to turn me away that'd be one thing, but I don't even think she knows this has happened based on our normal interactions.

Should I let her know so she knows he's going through her phone, or should I just leave it alone so as not to like stress their relationship?