is this an ok to handle a situation with an Ex?
>broke up with a girl almost a year ago
>over the past year sleep at her house and hook up a couple of times
> end up sperging out a few times and telling her my feels
>realize my mistake and cut contact for a few months
>flash forward a couple of months and shes cutting my hair, feels have died down and now just want to end on a good note ( we are both moving soon)
>she says we should hang out soon, I brush it off because I truly don't believe she'll hit me up
she doesn't so no fucks given
> find out that she was with some lesser male that fawns over her from a mutual friend, makes me feel good about myself
>meet some random girl at work, end up fucking
>the same night (a couple of nights ago) she follows me on instagram (she unfollowed me after the breakup) at two in the morning
> message her two days later, "lmao 2 am follows"
>she replies, " LmfAo guilty"
>dont reply for a day
>just sent her, "its funny to know you still think of me after a few drinks"
should I have just left it with the first message? I haven't followed her back yet but she made her account public again since she followed me
>tl;dr ex from a year ago followed me on insta after I stopped giving her attention, was my reaction beta
shameless self bump
please adv i need you
>>17363551
Why do you stay in contact with her? Why did you break up with her?
your reaction isn't beta but it's a fuccboi move and probably made her a little embarrassed
you're not getting replies because this is a boring situation. yadda yadda complicated ex thing. it'll either happen or it won't
You're pathetic. Go find your balls, whether you left them, and cut her the fuck off. Done.
>>17363660
we have mutual friends, shes pretty. i broke up with her because I was going through a lot of drug induced anxiety and depression issues.
>>17363671
>>17363686
fair enough, I just wanna fugg one more time before we each move