Is it possible to stop being self destructive or am I fucked

I do all these things and I'm still fine. I think you are too.

As long as you know your downfalls, you're not ignorant of them and you're working on them (hence you know how to dress, that you should diet, ect)

Keep going and don't give up

>>17346973
Comes in time bro.

Change things once at a time. Go get a haircut tomorrow, buy some new cheap clothes that fit your body/figure. Stop buying shitty foods at the supermarket, or only budget/allocate enough money in your savings account for exactly what you need (no more splurge purchasing shit foods).

You'll be fine. Don't be so melodramatic over problems that are easy to fix.

Stop posting Scoobs and read the fit sticky.
Read the recommended books from /r/theredpill
inb4 back to pleddit

>>17346973

>Is it possible to stop being self destructive?

Yes.

>I cheat on my diet, beat myself, dress like shit and don't cut my hair, and refuse to talk to women...

OK, that's solvable...

>Is there any magical way to make myself want to do stuff I don't want to do.

...Sigh. No.

You are screwed.