So I recently got dumped and didn't know what to do with my life. I'm 21, just finished my degree, and I guess you could say I'm starting from a clean slate. I don't really have any friends. Just a few acquaintances from work. I also don't really have any interests, just working out. (Used to be heavy into video games but stopped because I felt like it was problematic) I decided to stop feeling sorry for myself and see this as an opportunity. My goal is to do everything I haven't really been able to do up until this point in my life: go out, make friends, meet girls, etc. I guess my question is: where do I start?
>>17339008
I am in the same situation. GF cheated and left me, I met all my friends through her so they stopped talking to me. I just want to move on but don't know how.
Most people make friends through work and school. Just chill with your coworkers.
>>17339099
What should I ask my co workers to do? Didn't really make any friends in college so my social contacts consist of them basically.
>>17339113
was in the same situation years ago (different anon) play it by ear. Get drinks and pretend to care about sports or talk music. TV, game of thrones is almost universal, just pay attention and be cool. friends mean more friends. Its the original. social network.