This year my parents, after a really crappy 20 years marriage,

>>17322640
Tell him you've learned how your parents deal with strained relationships (divorce) so you're unwilling to keep a relationship with him. Apologize that you need to take a step back saying you realize this must be inflicting;

But tell them it is the right thing for you.

Maybe then he'll realize the responsibility of keeping important people around you and not giving up like a floppy faggot.

>this is bad advice

You're 23. Just ignore him, cut him out of your life. You're a adult. You can do that.

>>17322640
>I'm 23
Then you're old enough to tell him to fuck off. Seriously, you're an adult who can make those choices. If you don't want to see him, don't.

>>17322640
I know it's a bit weird but I thought that of my father too. then I realised that his raising was amazing while my mother's overtolerant regressive left raising had ruined my life. My father was under a lot of stress because he was right winged and he beat me alot but i deserved it. He always had good intention into making me into a man. I want to contact him again after 2 years of not seeing him to tell him that i was wrong and I was being a cuck. I want to build up my relationship again. Don't make the one sided left wing decisions I made you'll be really really sorry.

>>17322672
>he beat me
>I deserved it

OP avoid this at all costs AHAHAHA

>>17322674
Sometimes you deserve it because you destroyed everything in the house in autistic rage or those type of things i did

>>17322640
>vague figure for me all my life because he's really agressive, egocentric and heartless, is trying to reach me like VERY much
> I'm not a fucking 2 year old baby like he always treated me.

Does he always treat 2 year old babies with aggression ?
This post smells like teen angst.
He's your father.
Give him a chance and don't be a cunt about it.