About to text girl from school for the first time, but im not

>>17316948
That's fine dude, stop overthinking

>>17316952
This.
The more you focus on it the less natural it will be.
Just start with a "hey what's up?", some chit chat on how she's been doing and then if she's free this X day.

>>17316948
Be sure not to say Anon tho, she might think you're me

>>17316948
That's fine. Just relax and everything else will come natural.

>>17316952
>>17316963
What about smileys?
Do i put one in the first message or no?
And for later, how many do people use in regular?

>>17316978
Don't use smiley faces, save for sporadically. If you're trying to be goofy or something, and feel like what you're saying may have the sarcasm lost - you can throw one in (I like the :3 face just because it's stupid and fun)

None in the first message. Talk to her a bit, but your focus ought to be asking her out somewhere to grab some food or something.

>>17316978
As a rule of thumb, as a guy you should avoid them.
Don't put one in the first message.

Also, if she doesn't repsond don't take it personally she might not be interested, doesn't mean others ain't.

>>17316978
Holy shit man. You are an Otaku

>>17316978
Dont use smileys in the first message. Maybe a smiley face when you say goodbye.

>>17316990
To be fair his anxiety is normal.
Texting like that when both know what's up is a fake interaction and it feels weird..
I fucking hate that kind of texting cause it's forced.

>>17316990
pls no bully.

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Fuck it. Going ham right now!

>>17316995
I ain't bullying, if anything I envy you. I have no social life to the point I dream about hanging out with people I somehow know are my friends.

Kill me

>>17317004
Nothing to envy tho.
I have 1 friend who I dont hang out with ever other than at school, and now there's 2 months of vacation aka loneliness.
And I was only lucky this girl actually gave me her number, even after i went full autist on her the first time we really talked.

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>>17317013
>tfw you wish you could go full autist on someone

I don't remember the last time I was given the opportunity to assume my final autist form

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>>17317022
Wasnt a pretty sight, but i guess you gotta practice to stop being an autist and become decent at conversation.

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>>17317034
How the fuck do I do that?

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>>17317037
Im not really sure. Im trying to talk to the store people as much as i can when i buy lunch at school.
Not in the sense that i go for small talk, but I say "hi / bye" and the regular stuff. And every once in a while ill ask for help, even if i dont need it just to talk a bit.

Im basically preparing to follow pic related. Just trying to fit in a couple of words to people when i can.
It's the only thing giving me hope, thinking i can finally get a gf one day.

>>17317053
Just a random girl in a grocery store?
Kudos. Is she any good?

>>17317060
Just whoever.

>>17317053
Thanks for the advice Anon.

I think I'll head to the emptier bars tonight and try to talk to some bartenders. Hopefully.

>>17317065
I'm talking about the girl OP took the number from :/

>>17317067
Just don't try to hit on a barwoman.

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>>17317067
You can do it. I believe in you!
Another picture to give another boost

>>17317073
op here. She went to my school, and on last day before summer vacation i asked for her number.
The rest is just my backup plan to get a gf.

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>>17317078
Anon please, I lack any sort of ability to "hit" anything.
I'm flattered you think me confident

>>17317080
Ok here is a tip, don't get anxious now buuuuuuut.
After you get a number wait like 3 days to text.
If you wait a shit ton of time some other guy may hit on her and make her his waifu cause you were too busy waitting.