>friends made plans while I was having an introvert-need-alone-time-for-a-month attack
>heard about it last minute got invited and decided to join and suggested we at least get drinks (the next morning they have a boat trip to catch which I can't go to)
>probably our last weekend together as I will be moving soon anyways
>we all have to drive 6 hours to this city and I will only be staying the first night for drinks.
>"friends" will drive 3-4 hours behind me (I wanted to check in to my hotel earlier)
>I waited for them downtown last night and the last I heard of them was when they were 2 hours away at around 10pm-ish
>thinking they ditched me
>but then the drinking part was my idea, not theirs so I'm thinkin it's not their fault
Do I have a right to get butt hurt? A part of me is saying that they could've texted that they can't make it but a more rational part of me is saying that they are tired and have a boat to catch and they were not interested in drinking to begin with.
what do you think?
Not that hard to text " we can't make it" shit friends honestly you're better off alone till you make better friends
>>17316458
This. Either you're not telling the whole story here or these guys are legitimately assholes, a group of friends wouldn't all cancel on another friend without saying something if they were all friends.
>>heard about it last minute got invited
Does this happen often? If it does, it's basically an invite out of charity, so that if you ever heard about a plan you missed in the future, they could say "Well I invited you!".
>>17316699
they told me about it a few months before but then we all thought I will move by now, which we found was not the case obv
>>17316699
>>17316756
Plus I haven't really been around them for the past month or so since, again I had an introvert attack and didn't wanna socialize with anyone... FML