How do you develop self-esteem?
>>17310916
by getting good at things, pretending you're good at things, or believing you're' good at things
>>17310922
I am good at things.
I'm just not a worthwhile and lovable human being.
>>17310930
What are you good at? What are some of your impressive talents
>>17310916
>developing some skills you are decent at
>taking a lot of shit
>not caring anymore about your life in general
>going on dates and having sex
That's how I did it anyway.
You can't really do it by yourself, but being conscious of having a bad self-esteem helps you stop that evil cloud that comes up every time.
If you want to develop it, aim for something and get it. I have a few example in my life :
> I partially read a book every day, every time I force myself to do it, I feel great and it was worth my pain
> I try to help people so that they're grateful (yep, manipulation I know )
To sum it up, stay with people who love you, force yourself to be better than you are and don't bring yourself down every day.
I fail at everything until I get such a bad job that I smoke a bunch because fuck it and stress and also am in pretty good shape from the stupid goddamn work so now I look cool and handsome
>>17310936
I'm writing a book. I think that's pretty impressive, though the only person who's read and liked my writing has a shit taste in books.
>>17310942
I do that. Still can't get a date.
>>17310939
How do you tell if you're unattractive to partners because you've got bad self-esteem or because you're legit ugly?
>>17310949
>How do you tell if you're unattractive to partners because you've got bad self-esteem or because you're legit ugly?
They can smell the low self esteem a mile away. You need to be confident always, or fake it. As for being ugly, unless you have a dick plastered on your face just get into shape, take up a sport such as wall climbing or swimming and do shit that makes you interesting.
>>17310956
What if I'm a tranny