what is the first step to get a gf?

Be clean

>>17309019

Be patient

Be something that girls find attractive. If you're not, then work on it until you are.

>>17309019
The busier you seem, the more attractive you are to the women around you.

When you find yourself potentially talking to one, play it cool as if you were talking to one of your guy friends.

>>17309028
Be patient won't work.
Make a move.
It's easy to get a gf.
But it's hard to find the one

Remove yourself from the fleshlight.

The second step is to start hanging out and doing fun things with girls and their circle of friends. Getting a girlfriend isn't some trick or something, attraction is the natural pull between people doing it's thing. Have fun, contribute some effort or new content into the world, and you'll make a good impression. Then casually step it up to dates with any girls you're kinda into. Like just ask them out, and if they say no then it's no skin off either of your backs. Don't sit and stew over it till it becomes a big thing in your head. Just practice doing things with girls until it's normal for you. And if you find someone you sync well with just escalate things. There's no crazy ass secret process, it's just people being people.

>>17309019
Be funny. not cringy funny, but let it slide off of you. Smile a lot, and generally have an air of coolness. Don't try to be the funniest guy in the room, but pick up on your surroundings. Be aware of shit and point it out and be all like, "curious, y'all."