Probably have the herp

>>17307856
Raw deal, dude. I feel you. same thing happened to me. The good news? I only had 1 breakout, the initial one. That was ten years ago. I haven't had any breakouts or symptoms since then. I'm not on any pills for it, either. I've had unprotected sex with my wife for 7 of those years and she has not contracted it.

If I ever DO get a breakout, we'll stop having sex until it's over. Minimizing the breakout is as simple as going in to the doc to get a few days worth of pills, and it clears right up.

Will you be as "lucky" as me? Maybe. Some people break out constantly. Others, like me, go for seemingly ever without one.

Either way, it's not as bad as you think. You need to use protection until you've met your "forever" partner, and only if they're cool with you not using protection at that point.

>>17307872
Thanks man. I appreciate your optimism, but I don't understand how I can find a "forever" partner without scaring everyone away the first time we get intimate.

I didn't notice any symptoms with my ex, and I wore a condom every time, but I still seem to have gotten it. Knowing that, I wouldn't be comfortable sleeping with someone without letting them know the risk. And that early on in the relationship I can't imagine someone being willing to look past it.

>>17307856
How do you know you have the herps? I'm also concerned I got it but don't show any of the classic signs yet my research on the internet has scared the shit out of me.

>>17307899
I found out that my ex had it while we were dating. We broke up less than two months ago, and recently I've noticed a few bumps that don't look quite like zits develop on my lower stomach under my pubic hair. They don't look as bad as the pictures on Google, but I'm fairly certain they aren't pimples.

I also have swollen lymph nodes right now, but admittedly they could be unrelated as I have a generally weak immune system because of other health conditions.

>>17307934
Hmmm... Yeah I don't have that. I just have these like random mini blister like things on my feet but they aren't regular blisters. I read you can get herpes outbreaks on your feet too. I also read that it could be syphilis too.... Fuck I'm so scared.

I'm in the same boat, but I think I have HPV instead of herpes. I'm depressed