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there are literally no rules to femdom. you have to etablish the roles. i'd suggest going for the "sex slave" scenario. then you use your new toyboi the way that you need it. if you need him to ram his hard cock inside your dripping pussy repeatedly and with great force, then he has to do exactly that.

also, don't do that with different guys. get one and train him well.

>>17295161

I dont see why you cant try to find something and or someone to work that desire.

i cant, however, imagine how doggiestyle can be considered "femdom" though. Maybe try to get some femdom foreplay thing going before letting him wreck you from behind?

Dunno really.

>>17295172

See that sounds good on paper but since he's not an actual slave he can just not come back if he doesn't like it. Do you think there's a market for that kind of play among men who are into femdom and raised on femdom porn? Or a place I could go to find out, without a shitload of independent research?

Also, good idea on the finding one guy thing. Maybe someone less experienced.

>>17295192
>since he's not an actual slave he can just not come back if he doesn't like it
why would he if you tickle his peepee's fantasies?
it's fairly easy. almost every guy is submissive to some extend. if not, make him. i'm doing that atm and it works like a charm.
get a guy that need a strong hand and someone to guide him. inexperienced is good. maybe even a virgin. hell, post your skype here and i bet tons of guys will contact you in a matter of seconds.

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>>17295194
word of warning, tho:
dominating is a very strong sexual energy. i considered myself a sub at first. then i experimented with being a switch. there's no going back now. dom all the way

>>17295161
I am into femdom and a male sub.
You should find yourself always controling him, that's the most important aspect. You can pretty much control everything as you want to, althogh doggie will put you in a more submissive position. If you want to actually still dominate him and have it that way, try being creative, like buy a fox tail buttplug and stick it into him while he has to do you doggie style.

You could also buy him a thick penis sleeve and let him fuck you really hard while he can't cum because he doesn't feel it as much.

These things always develop between people. Just a crude example you might not like, but if he's fucking you from behind while you're laughing and telling him to try harder and that he's too small to please you, is he even in yet etc, that would be you taking on the dominant role.

Obviously that's not something you are necessarily interested in just because you want to try femdom. But you can do lots of things with you being dominant without having you dominate the penetration part. Like do a thing where he has to follow your demands and if he does well enough, you allow him to fuck you. Or you tie him up and tease him until he's going insane, then release him on you.

It's not all so black and white. Just because you are dominant doesn't mean you have to be on top all the time.

>>17295200
>You could also buy him a thick penis sleeve and let him fuck you really hard while he can't cum because he doesn't feel it as much.

neat.

> fox tail buttplug
next christmas bb. now go to sleep

>>17295161
>for logistical reasons
???

Ya'll are very helpful.

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>>17295218
>not knowing your words

>>17295218
The angle he hits her with in combination with the shape of her vagina and the curve of his penis.

>>17295225
take note anon.

>>17295161
Being a dom starts with being able to control someone else. In order to do that, you need to have some form of concept of what you want, or you won't be able to guide the other with your will if you have none. What concept do you have?
This is a good start:

> I don't want to try it if there's no screaming orgasm in it for me.

>>17295225

Correct.

>>17295161
>I really love getting fucked hard from behind, for logistical reasons
Fatty detected.

>>17295161
Femdom is different from male dom. Male dom is about force. Femdom is about letting the guy be a slave to their sexdrive, not letting it fulfill, and exploiting it for your pleasure.
Be selfish, your pleasure is No1.
The other anon with the cocksleeve idea was onto something.
Eating pussy is big in femdom because it achieves exactly that. He will have a pussy and ass in his face that drives him crazy but only the girl will cum from it.

>>17295234

Screaming orgasm is the goal of sex? Got it.

So you're saying to not get fancy with it? To just be like, hey, asshole, do it now and do it right? Think they'd be into that, too?

Also, good job on the ideas, everyone.

>>17295253
>asshole
i think you confuse dominance with being mean. that's not the goal. atleast not for most

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>>17295161
>"I really love getting fucked hard from behind, for logistical reasons"
>logistical reasons
Fucking pig

>>17295253
>To just be like, hey, asshole, do it now and do it right?
Depends on the guy, and what you're into. I'm a guy who was pretty vanilla for a long time, but my gf is really into being a sub and I tried to dom for her first, then I realized I really like it. We talked about it first of what our fantasies were and acted them out. There are a lot of dom material on the internet to give ideas, just google it. Also be aware of this: >>17295198 if you get a sub bowing to your wishes and exisiting for your pleasure, being a dom feels great.

>>17295243

That anon did have some good ideas. So you think in a lot of femdom scenarios position doesn't matter so much, as long as the woman is in control? Hmm I think I should to do some experimenting and test some of these theories.

>>17295253
Not them but there's many ways to frame it. I personally like the "why don't you make yourself useful?" angle.

Start easily. Some people love being called names and being degraded. I was the anon who mentioned humiliating his sexual efforts and belittling his dick - some men would adore that, and many would be utterly turned off if not very much hurt. This also depends on how much he enjoys and identifies with the submissive sexual position.

I would start with a warmer, not outright offensive form of femdom. Either gentle femdom or "sassy" femdom for lack of a better word. Gentle femdom is basically no aggression, no violence, you are simply in control. You undress him, you pleasure him - like a maternal vibe. This goes well with "good boy" type dirty talk. It can help to imagine him as a twelve year old boy (not too literally, not that sexy) and you are helping him discover his new and scary sexuality, and are going to blow his mind.

If you like a bitchier anlge, you can take on the role of the ice princess from high school. Yawn at his efforts. Mock him a bit - "that's all you can do? you think that's going to satisfy a woman like me?". If he tries to stop doing something you enjoy, grab his face and ask him "excuse me, did I tell you that you could stop?" "next time you ask for permission, understood?"
This goes really well with orgasm denial, facesitting etc.

Or, what you could also try, is to sort of top from the bottom and be the teasing minx who has caught the big bad wolf (tying up works very well there) and pesters him, until you eventually switch roles and he dominates you anyway.

I hope this gives you some inspiration for an angle to use that won't be too much for him right away if he needs to get used to being the sub.

>>17295269

Doggie style or bent over is the best position invented. Fact.

>>17295280
Yeah but being forced of doing it for "logistical reasons" means you should stop eating burger and tacos everyday

>tl;dr hi im a sub and i want to dom but femdom sex doesnt interest me can i just be a sub and call it domming instead?

This is how stupid you sound. You're not going to make a very good dom. Sorry for not sugarcoating it but better you figure it out now than get in the bedroom with someone expecting to be dominated only to be disappointed that you're making them do all the actual work.

>>17295287
Fucking virgins not realizing some positions just hit the spots better than others...

>>17295277

And I gotta be careful about getting guys into this 'cause I've really botched getting them into femsub in the past. I like your suggestions. Definitely gonna keep em in mind. This is gonna be fun I think.

>>17295273
What are your ideas?

>>17295293
>botched getting them into femsub in the past
How?

>>17295290

So you're saying you don't think it can be done? Thanks for the input. You're basically useless though.

>>17295304
This
Remember the vibe of this comment and make your bedroom have this vibe. That's good femdom if the guy is into it.

>>17295287

I wouldn't say forced so much as I know exactly what my body wants. Also, I don't see why sex would be that much easier from behind for fat chicks, never having fucked or been one, but you are the expert I guess?

>>17295161
Why aren't you into cunteating?

>>17295316
It's actually not easier at all. If she's really fat and he's average or below average it can even be hard to get properly deep inside of her despite the big ass. You're just getting comments from guys not used to thinking about sex from the female point of view.

>>17295318
not OP, but it doesn't really cut it.

>>17295323
How? What's missing? (Besides being the sub which OP wants to avoid)

>>17295295

Man I've been thinking on for a while it and gotten foreplay ideas from my own experiences, but I can't find porn with this in it so I'm stumped.

>>17295301

I always end up dating these sweet, geeky little guys and then I try to ease them into it but that puts me in a position of control, which ruins it. So I end up taking control anyway, yelling "pull my hair and call me a slut," that kind of thing, and it ends up being very not sub-like. But I'm getting into it. Worth exploring, I think. It's different from femsub, though. You all have made some valid points.

>>17295327
You can always roleplay a scenario like teacher-student, or hot female bully-victim. That gives you a frame of reference. Porn that is not exaggerated balls stepping femdom is hard to find absolutely.

>>17295344
>position of control, which ruins it
Then how do you want to be a dom if being in control ruins sex for you?

>>17295321

That's what I was thinking. Wouldn't spread legs be easier than having a big ass in the way? I don't want to know bad enough to look it up and watch though.

>>17295326
The dick is what's missing.

>>17295351
she's talking about being a sub. and my experience is a bit similar. got tired of guys not taking charge so i took it in my own hands.

>>17295326
it's just not intense enough.

>>17295351

I'm getting into it. It's worth exploring. I did say that.

>>17295371
How does it work for you?
Any tips?

>>17295374
Sit on his face and ride it. If he's not intense enough, slap him, call him a lazy bitch, and sit on him harder. Femdom pussy eating can be as intense as you want.

>>17295377
works like a charm. you need to "own your desire". that was crucial for me

>>17295386
Elaborate please.
How do you control him?
What do you tell him?
How do you dom him?
What positions work fo you?

>>17295371

Are a lot of men responsive to that? I think it must be easier than getting a vanilla guy into femsub.

>>17295382

But still no dick. At best, with experienced guys who know their way around a pussy, I might have a weak orgasm if I try. There's gotta be some ball slapping sex eventually though or I'm not on board. So some pussy eating is okay but it can not be the height of my sexual encounters.

>>17295386

Do you still get the hard sex or are you okay with just getting head and some cowgirl now?

>>17295403
>getting head and some cowgirl now
lmao
it's more about the fantasy part in our case.
we are really getting into mommy play atm

>>17295388
How do you control him?
i'm not into that whole "lick my dirty boots you piece of shit"-stuff. i do more so by doing the authority part in role play

What do you tell him?

oh, all different stuff. depending on our mood. "now suck mommies nipples hard and good" for example. kek

How do you dom him?

i tell him what to do and how to do it. i also "manhandle" him as far as that's possible. i "use him strictly for my pleasure" and i dictate how and if and when he is allowed to cum.

What positions work fo you?

positions are no concern of mine. what goes on in my mind is way more important

>>17295398
No one said it should be. That's just foreplay. Then you put a cocksleave on him and ride it, or tell him that mommy wants to cum and he'd better make it good.

>>17295427

Man position matters to me. You guys sound really cute, though. This is a success story. So you think I should focus on domming up the foreplay and do the sex the way I want it? Plus stick with the cocksleave idea?

>>17295344
>I always end up dating these sweet, geeky little guys and then I try to ease them into it
Why don't you date alpha men who would pound your sweet little pussy doggy style while pulling on your hair and spanking you?

>>17295456
>domming up the foreplay
Domming is a mental thing. You need to make him submit to you. After eating you out, and some mommy play, his desire to cum will make all that is neccessary to make him submit and want to please you, exactly the way you like it regardless of position. The cocksleave idea just for preventing him from cumming longer, and because with a big enough cocksleave, position won't matter.