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Hi /adv/. Long time lurker first time poster. I cheated on my gf last night with a colleague. I'm currently consumed by guilt and I don't know what to do.
I love my girlfriend but things aren't great. We're constantly on the verge of breaking up and argue constantly. This colleague and I have become close but I don't feel much of a romantic connection. I know I'm a shithead.
Will telling my girl ease my guilt or should I keep quiet as this was most likely just a one time thing?
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>>17291326
Don't tell her and break up. You care about her, which is why you feel guilty, but if your relationship got to the point where you are unhappy and you're willing to cheat, there's no point.
Don't date your colleague either.
Find someone you like and you're happy with.
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You don't love her. You love the thought that you have someone, which means you really only love yourself. Since you love yourself and only care about yourself, the best thing (for yourself) would be to end the relationship and pursue what you really want. Asshole.
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>>17291331
Thank you.
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>>17291337
OP here. Ouch. You might be right, but we would've broken up a long time ago if it was that simple. Grief, turmoil, and mental health issues (all hers) have all played their part, making it harder to just break up with her. I know that makes me seem like a wimp but I genuinely care about her in a way I never have before for anyone.
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>>17291407
>I genuinely care about her
No you dont, or you wouldn't have cheated. It is an unforgivable crime no matter how unhappy you are. Break up first, then fuck. No excuses. You don't willingly betray someone you love like that.
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