Be direct with long term crush or just cut contact?

Tell her your feelings and if she says no, you can cut off contact if you choose to do so.

>>17290956

How do I do that? Text or taking her out? Never been in this situation before

Also, of course I'll cut contact after that, I'm not going more beta than thos

You have two choices - get the answer or torture yourself

Give it a shot - you dont have her now, if you fade away you wont have her - so it looks like the only other way to POSSIBLY make her yours is to let it out

Remember you might get crushed, or you might get what you want - be ready for either result

>>17290965

That is the thing. I want to tell her in such manner that won't be idiotic and cringy.

I dont know how to initiate this since we're not feely type of people and I really dont want to seem desperate

I can handle rejections, shit, I've been rejected all my life.

>>17290979
Then grab your pillow and tissues and live in Weepy Town Village

She might not be into you if you arent sparking her interest - that might not be your fault, it might just be that she isn't into you like that

Seeming desperate is a small part in "opening up" to someone else. If she dont care when you show some vulnerability, then you probably dont want her in the first place