Was I really wrong?

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I recently broke up with my gf of 3 years. I was paying all the rent, the bills, and buying most of the food and I could bore you with all the other problems we were having but the catalyst was this: We weren't fucking, and she stonewalled me hard every time I brought it up or tried to fix it. Eventually I started to chat and trade pics with other sexually frustrated losers to get some sort of sexual release, I'd like to point out I never actually fucked anyone else. She found out, and we broke up. She insisted she had come out as "Ace", I was cheating on her, and that was reason enough to not have any intimacy in our relationship, and she never told me because I was "unapproachable" she isn't entirely wrong, but it was something that needed to be said right? I've accepted that I kinda fucked up in reaching out to other people for sexual gratification, but was I really in the wrong? How do you get over someone you love, but at the same time you know the relationship was an awful burden that needed to end? I'm trying to move on, but I really just want her to be better.