From your experience, what are red flags for a girl who is a

>>17280808

Someone that makes excuses, blame shifts, gaslights, and feeds on attention. They could have any or all of these things. You don't want someone that emotionally high maintenance or unstable either.

Female cheater here, trips without you, private email, phone, you only met 1 of my female friends. Targeted blame to deflect suspicion and don't be afraid to smell her when she gets home, most make scents are pretty in your face

If she's breathing she's a cheater

>>17281304
You're based for helping decent people defend against your kind, but please kill yourself.

>>17281310
you sound like a really nice person.
>>17280808
desu experience from being a cheater and being cheated on the major sign is that they suddenly become incredibly private and get agitated when talking about certain subjects or preaching why they are suddenly so private. Deflection is also a big tell tale sign

>>17281313
Umm thanks? To add more, once you are a serial cheater, it's the cheating itself that gets you off, I have cheated on the guy I'm cheating with before. At that point if you are a decent person you just engage in casual relationships. I inform guys now that I will fuck around

>>17281342
>I inform guys now that I will fuck around
Then why not enter a poly relationship or something? Moreover what if he cheats on you?

>>17281345
He can do what ever he wishes to be honest, I'm not the jealous type. In most cases though they won't and will try to make me stop even when I have told then since day one that I will cheat

>>17280808
Morals.
Are they ok associating with other people who cheat ?
example: If one of her close friends is cheating on a partner and she doesn't care, then it's a pretty good indicator of morals.

Of course there is more to it than that, but it's a good start.

Also club sluts. I won't date them. Don't give a fuck why they go there, but a club at 2am in the morning is not the place for a good girl.

Hiding their phone is also a flag. If your girl wont look at her texts when shes sitting next to you, she's hiding something. Might not be cheating but still.

>>17281354
What does even a relationship mean to you?

>>17281354
I'm curious to hear what kind of girl you are / what kind of guys these are in terms of looks/money/status

most common is that she won't let you go through her messages, photos or anything like that. it doesn't matter if you were her first, or anything. It literally doesn't matter, but anyone can do it so it's hard to really pinpoint the common traits, but if you suspect it, its probably happenin.

Another girl here who cheated. Do I regret it? I did but I don't now. Why did I do it? I wanted someone different, that adrenaline of something new. What I did was wrong, I know that, are there any excuses to why? Nope. Our relationship was going downhill anyway, but I should have ended it before I did it. There are no warning signs

>>17281372
I'm a exotic ethnicity in a upper class college area, most the men are coddled trust fund kids or tech wiz kids

>>17281476
>exotic ethnicity
...and you wonder why people are racist.