How to deal with a paranoid control freak with a martyr complex?

by not interacting with him.

>>17278488
What if it's your mom?

I'm about to move out, but I still have to deal with her for the rest of her/my life. It's my mom, and we have had good relations before.

>>17278492
you grow up, you set more boundaries, but family is generally tough for life.

>>17278485
You're moving out--let distance help you. Stand up for yourself and limit the types of conversations you engage in or how much control she--or anyone else--has in your life. Live your life and start setting limits/boundaries--that's part of growing up :) GL!

>>17278488
This.

>>17278492
>but I still have to deal with her for the rest of her/my life
One, no you don't.
Two, just don't answer your phone when she calls you incessantly. Which she will, it'll probably take a year or so for her to stop trying to talk to you every 30 seconds