For the past 5-6 months I'be tried to be a more social person and get out more.
It worked well, but I had to stop going out because of college entrance exams for the last 2 month or so, and now I'm back at being cripplingly afraid of talking to people.
It feels even worst than before, any advice on how to get back on track?
>>17264885
Remind yourself that you did it before, so what's there to be afraid of?! Take things in steps and just try to get back out there...forgive any setbacks, but keep trying! You're definitely not alone in feeling anxious or feeling afraid, but BEING ALONE is not much fun and you've been there, done that--what do you really have to lose?! GL!
>>17265560
Thanks a lot, that's exactly what I needed to hear.
I'll try to go to a bar tomorrow (to late for going now) and cheer myself up.
>>17265600
You're very welcome :) Hope it only gets better for you out there!
>>17264885
same thing you did as before, just go do it. its like riding a bike. anxious at first but you ge tused to it even faster than before.
I did that too, tried being confident in myself and talk to girls and be social. I failed miserably, guess being ugly and social can't go hand in hand. Confidence is a meme.
>>17265709
>Confidence is a meme.
Nah mate, I'm fairly good looking and I lost my virginity at 24, while all my confident but less attractive all lost theirs between 17-19.