Sexy girl wants me to join 2f/2m group

I like group sex, but im not gay/bi so i'd Tell right away the girl that im not interested in getting my dick sucked by a guy.

Bumping for intetest

If you're nowhere on the bisexual/gay gradient, then kissing a dude and getting blown by one is just going to be a turnoff for you and you'll probably not be able to get hard. Just tell the girl that you're only interested in fucking her - you don't have to compromise your sexual preferences just because she's hot. If she's not down for that then too bad for them.

OP here-
Thing is I'm pretty artistic and open minded..
I've studied male and female anatomy for years.. nude life drawing, painting, etc. I appreciate the unique differences of both physiques. The thought of sucking a cock is not appealing to me right now but honestly I've never done it? So what is saying to me that I wouldn't like it?
This whole situation has brought up memories and feelings that in the past I have suppressed but I'm just not sure if those were just 'normal' straight thoughts or truly homosexual in nature. Looking at a guy and thinking, damn he's good looking.. noticing the bulge in a friends pants, etc. I have never watched gay porn, I dont lust after men and I have never fantasized about the same sex. But in the past, after these occurrences, I have struggled with defining my sexuality. So I'm thinking, is it just my open-minded nature that leads me to experiment with situations like this? Am I bi-curious or is it just who I am to be generally curious and willing to try new things? I know you can't answer that for me, it's more just food for my thoughts, and maybe yours too.

Last night I spent a few hours on male bi forums reading posts about the moment men found themselves to be bi. I related to a few of the people I found there.. which has thrown me even deeper in to this pit of confusion.

I also read posts by men in their 40s, 50s, and even 60s saying they discovered in their later years that they had this attraction to male sexual encounters. They were pretty upset that they didn't experiment when they were younger.. and I don't want that to happen. I'm a person plagued by my regrets and past failures, which I suppose is the reason I'm driving myself so far past my comfort zone in this instance. Keep in mind I'm being painfully honest about my personality here, these are feelings I haven't shared with anyone before now. And it shouldn't be taken for evidence that I have already made up my mind, I am still very confused.

>>17263726
Don't do it Donald. Stay pure for you r waifu!

>>17263726
They will stab you in an alleyway.

It is a con.

>>17263726
Cut all contact to them.

OP again-
Roman men often engaged in multisex/gay orgies, there's many more societies in history that also found same sex sexual relationships fulfilling and necessary. I wonder if I lived in that time, without the social pressures of today, if I would be in the same quandary of self identification. Probably not.

>>17265494

There's nothing wrong with trying it, but if you try it and realize you don't like it, don't force it just for the chance to fuck a hot girl

>>17265527

I would appreciate some critical thinking with your response because although I have thought the same thing, it doesn't inspire thought or reflection.

>>17265529
Thanks for this, honestly guys probably know what feels the best right? lol

If it feels fantastic what does it hurt?
I guess an STD would hurt, so far that's the only thing I'm afraid of though. Dicks.. it's like, if I don't like it, then I know after experimenting right?

>>17263726
You've video chatted her OP?right?
Please don't get catfished by a gay dude posing as a female.

>>17265865

She called me this morning and we spoke, no video chat. Then I talked a little dirty to her and she masturbated on the phone. lol

Also if any of your past experiences bring up red flags I am not seeing, please share.

>>17265873
Have you seen her on video chat or got a time stamped photo?

>>17265900
No video chat, asking a person for a time stamped photo doesn't usually work in my experience. So in conclusion, no to both.

>>17265922
So a person who wants to fuck you you've never even seen in realtime?

>>17265931
Correct. I'm starting to pick up what you're putting down.

Try it, assuming everyone's clean, the worst that will happen is you'll know what a penis feels like in your mouth. You won't suddenly start wearing pink furry high heels, driving a white BMW while parading around with a pride flag.

So consensus, should I demand video chat/images before going through with it or should I man up and get my dick sucked by another man and risk the catfish?

ill keep everyone up to date for sure, thanks for the replies and help.