>long story short, be friends with a girl for two years while

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2016-06-15 01:06:59 Post No. 17256165
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>long story short, be friends with a girl for two years while knowing she was in love with me
>led her on very much, despite my saying I didn't feel the same way
>she's leaving the country and will be gone for a while
>made me realize how I took her for granted this whole time
>about a month ago, we get drunk and I kiss her; we've had sex a few times since that night
>feel like I'm starting to have feelings for her, and to boot we've always talked daily from good morning to good night
>she basically gave an ultimatum today, saying it was her fault "for keeping having feelings toward you while I know that you've never felt anything"

I feel like the right thing to do is to let her go, because she's in love and I basically am not. But I care about her a lot as a person and it'd hurt to lose her. But if I were to try things with her, it's starting off on such unequal footing.

Please help, /adv/

Anonymous 2016-06-15 01:09:15 Post No.17256172
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>>17256165
Accept that you missed your shot, went too far with someone you shouldn't have led on, and move on so she can get over you and find someone worth her time.

Anonymous 2016-06-15 01:22:42 Post No.17256193
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Anonymous 2016-06-15 01:22:42 Post No.17256193 [Report]

Two things:

1. Love grows. You could perhaps come to care for her very much.

2. Then again, you might not - in which car is only fair to let her go.

Why did you kiss her and have sex with her? Did you have any feelings at all or did she just happen to make your peepee hard those times? No judgment, they're are friends whom i would not have minded boning if there were no real world repercussions - but be clear headed about why you did what you did.

Anonymous 2016-06-15 01:25:15 Post No.17256195
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>>17256165
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9GkVhgIeGJQ

Anonymous 2016-06-15 01:31:45 Post No.17256204
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Anonymous 2016-06-15 01:31:45 Post No.17256204 [Report]

>>17256172
What makes it too late? I'm calling her tonight cause I can't see her in person at the moment. I think what I say tonight will decide it all.

>>17256193
I honestly don't know. But overall, I'm not the kind of person who can have meaningless sex. Since we started doing that, I've been thinking about her a lot differently.

>>17256195
>youtube video not available in US
what the fuck

Anonymous 2016-06-15 01:42:12 Post No.17256228
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Anonymous 2016-06-15 01:42:12 Post No.17256228 [Report]

>>17256204
Boys don't cry - Cure, The

Anonymous 2016-06-15 01:54:11 Post No.17256265
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Anonymous 2016-06-15 01:54:11 Post No.17256265 [Report]

>>17256228
Thanks Anon, for the record I am definitely not cying

Anonymous 2016-06-15 02:00:01 Post No.17256283
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Anonymous 2016-06-15 02:00:01 Post No.17256283 [Report]

>>17256265
It's not about crying though.

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