Help /adv/

>>17248821
That's not shyness. It's mental illness. She has some serious fucked up trauma in her past to make her not want to be touched. Or she has autism. But the former is more likely.

You should communicate what you said here, to her. See what she says. If she doesn't make immediate changes, dump her. You don't need that level of fucked up.

>>17248827
Thanks man, she's defos doesn't have autism cause she plays in a band, works with people and is really sociable. I figure I don't have much to lose anymore so I'll ask her why she's so distant.

>>17248857
You guys might need to just talk it out. She might be uncomfortable because she doesnt know how far you'll take things, or that youll rush her

>>17248821
Take the 5 love languages quiz and have her take it too. Girls like quizzes. As a guy I rate physical intimacy as my main language but words of affirmation is my secondary. It'll help you figure out how to show affection to her and she'll know what you want.

I had one GF that wanted physical intimacy and another that wanted gifts.

>>17248821
Sounds like she just doesn't like you, but wants to keep you around because you give her attention.

How old are you, like 14?

>>17248879
19 mate

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You sound like a temporary cuck while she waits for someone better to make the first move on her.

Stop talking to her as much, or just be 'busy' a lot and see what she does. I guarentee she'll eithee end the relationship or make some bullshit excuse.

>>17248881
Well regardless, While it's possible that >>17248827 is correct, it's much more likely that she just wants you to orbit her so you'll give her attention.

She doesn't have to put out at all, and you'll stay around because you're in love with her or something, and she knows it.

Just saying man - I would move on in a rush.