Hey 4chan, seeking some sage advice here.
I have a group of friends consists of me and 3 other guys.
One of the guys, let's call him *Hwang* does some peculiar things.
*He always touches some of us molester style
*He manipulates things around in his favor
*His mannerisms in arguments always changes the subject in his favor -- he must have his way or he'll throw a fit
*He privately *disses* us to each other and calls me a homo sexual in a serious tone.
*Basically he's a nigger
So today, another friend in the group wanted to address something with Hwang before the intervention. Let's call this friend Haon. Haon brought up a personal issue and used me as a reference which is all true. Hwang is deflecting the issue through manipulation and diss (see intervention topics) and claims he didn't say it.
Now Hwang is completely fed up with the rest of our group and while we would like to stay friends with him, it is hard to mend things when he doesn't want to and somewhat his personality. He also virtually walked out of the group via google hangouts.
TL;DR A group of friends failed an intervention for the way a friend in the group acts (he acts like a fucking nigger), instead resulting in him being indignant and unresponsive. How do we fix this?
Advice plox. <3 d.va
All of you should collectively ignore him until he gives in.
>>17242274
Seems like the kind of guy who'd immediately take things as an attack if you were honest with him. You did the right thing though. Just wait for him to come around.
OP here - adding on
We had a private group chat on hangouts (for the rest of us not including Hwang) because we play games with each other when he's not available sometimes. So he's also angry that he wasn't included in that chat.
Sounds like Hwang is a dick. Ignore him and he'll come around, most likely fixing his problems on his own. How old are y'all btw?
>>17242514
all born in 1993, so in our 22/23s
>>17242525
Same here bruh, my friends and I did this almost exactly to a guy we hung out with a few years ago (minus the literal intervention). About three weeks passed and he realized we were his only friends so he came bank and was practically a different person. He still had the shit that we liked about him but all the childish shit was gone. I think he dropped acid or went on a stoner steak or something and chilled the Fuck out. We still hang out with him to this day and I'm actually rooming with him next year so it all worked out well