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Girls into me by no reason 2016-06-04 01:13:23 Post No. 17217070
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Well.
I don't know what's going on.
Girls where never interested in mE , im not a really handsome guy, im pretty tall but i don't think im atractive.
Well this past 3 months have been extremly weird for me.
I've been going to partys with my friends,i've been going out more now and after every fcking party 1 girl comes and flirts with me, and i had like 4 relationships in 6 months.
Which coming from a guy who gave his first kiss last year, its pretty weird for me.
I never asked a girl out and i was worried about my life and i didn't care about having a gf, but wtf now i go to class and these 3 girls who actually hated me are fighting for me.
And 2 girls that i had no idea they were into me,talked to me and told me that they had a crush on me.
This is really weird for me and im not saying this like: Oh look at me i fck all the bitches.
Even i lost 1 ''friend'' because a girl who he liked was talking to me, i don't know if this happens to alots of guys, because im not fcking hot im average, im a 4/10 IMO.
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enjoy your temporary chad status, girls are dumb and only follow their groupthink. you're just the latest fad
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Is English your first language?
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It's not.
Soo yeah there are some mistakes.
My bad... xD
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That's okay, anyway I don't think they are just after you for your looks. They could be attracted to your personality or sense of humor.
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You probably glowed up and they are just now realising it
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How old are you?
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Random luck, plus growing up.
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I remember back when I started becoming more social, late in my high-school days. I seem to have gotten the younger, monogamous version of what you're experiencing.
It was like magic. The bullying ended almost overnight: I never got popular, per se, but people decided they kind of liked me, and I'll take that over what came before any day of the week. I got my first girlfriend, and she got girls coming out of the woodwork asking her how she knew I'd blossom into a keeper. It didn't solve all of my problems by any stretch of the imagination, but it solved some big ones.
Unfortunately, I can't share how I did it. I simply don't know. It came in the wake of trauma, and big changes are always easier -sometimes too easy- when your life just got flip-turned upside down, AND it tends to fuck with your memory besides. As near as I can recall, I just sort of brute-forced it, but even if that's true, I couldn't have done it if I hadn't gone through a very low point in my life immediately before. Trauma comes to everyone, sooner or later, but usually not on such a convenient schedule.
But even if I can't give people a path, maybe I can at least give them a goal. It CAN get better. The standard "just be more social" advice is poorly delivered, and I don't know how to deliver it better, but it IS the right general direction.
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