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Pic not really related but I could use the advice.
My GF has gotten really over sensitive and obsessed with me. This relationship has gotten way too paternal, she called me 2 minutes after leaving my apartment in tears crying about how she missed me. What're my options here? How do I approach her about it or let her down easy if I have to?
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>>17208569
Sit her down and explain how you're feeling.
Tell her that it's cute that she wants to be around you all the time, but you need your own space.
See how she handles it.
Is there anything going on in her life that might have caused her to act like this?
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>>17208590
She still lives with her parents (she's 21) but her mother acts like a tyrant. She's allowed to see me once a week for four hours that day. The rest of the time she wants my attention whenever she can get it. Thinks if I have free time I should use it skyping her. She doesn't really have to many friends besides myself and she doesn't really ever leave her house because her bitch mother won't let her
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>>17208569
she seems very insecure, being without you probably gives her tons of anxiety. She should go to a therapist because she probably feels anxious in many parts of her life. Dating someone with anxiety is difficult because you will have to reassure her a lot, but if you really care for her and can take this on it is worth standing by her as long as she makes the effort to improve her behavior. Just avoid enabling her, if she gets scared and starts taking away your free time do not reward the behavior by complying with demands, just say no. Saying no to her demands will get her more comfortable with being scared and she will eventually calm down in the face of anxiety with time.
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>>17208608
You got this one opportunity to save a life and youre thinking selfishly?
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My grillfriend is the exact same way. Though she has reason to be. Has PTSD from being raped, and its triggered a bunch of other psychological issues.

She understands when I need time alone though, I am very much an introverted person, and was a hermit before I met her. But I still devote a huge chunk of my time to her.
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>>17208608
She's really sad that she only gets to spend 4hrs with her boyfriend and her mom is a total bitch. She's also probably frustrated by it.

I bet you if she could actually spend a bit of time with you she wouldn't be like that.
She should move out of her mom's house.
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>>17208569
I am now watching Office Space, thank you for reminding me that it exists anon.
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