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Anxiety killing boner 2016-05-26 08:35:29 Post No. 17184656
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>be me, 24, fairly bad luck with women
>dating this girl, that I've liked for awhile, she's perfect
>qt3.14/10
>bang once, i finish early but she says it's best she's ever had
>try again tonight, get foot cramp as i'm putting on condom
>thought of worthlessness, rent, and every problem I've ever had flood my mind
>no longer have boner
what the fuck can I do to fix this, I'm not generally anxious, but the pressure of foreplay, getting hard, staying hard while putting on condom, putting on condom right, not finishing to fast, making sure she's pleased, is fucking with my head majorly.
It hasn't always been like this, but I haven't had sex in awhile. I'm fucked.
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Fuck without condoms
No balls.
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>>17184656
Same problem here. Bumping for interest.
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>>17184656
Focus on her. Give her a couple of orgasms by hand or mouth before you even think about climbing aboard, and then even if you can't get it up you won't have cheated her. (And because the pressure is off, you might be able to keep it up).
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Used to have the same problem, memories of past relationship and all the bad feels that came with it.
What works for me is just lying there for a little before even making out or anything, just getting accustomed to her, kinda. Maybe touch her body a bit, but dont do anything you feel you "should" be doing; bonerkill for me.
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Had exactly the same problem few days ago. Took half viagra, and banged her for almost an hour straight. I'd say do this 1 or 2 times, till you gain confidence. But be careful, to not get addicted
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OP, if you can't keep it up, just explain to her why
i wouldn't be upset if a dude i was fucking was just like "alright this is making me kind of nervous, i'm not very experienced and i really like you"
that might make you feel better automatically and then there ya go
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