>meet girl on tinder about six months ago
>she's cute so we start dating
>she's foreign so she wants to get married right soon so she doesn't get deported
>say I'll do it because she's great
>she gets a job offer literally the next day
>she tells her parents
>the wedding is set in like a month
>start having second thoughts
I'm really thinking about breaking this off. Mostly because I just don't know if I can go through with it. However if I do she'll end up losing her high paying job and she'll be an embarrassment to her entire family.
What should I do?
>>17171752
Why would you tell a girl that you'd marry her in a timespan of six months?
>>17171752
Work visa?
Something?
>>17171759
It was the heat of the moment I guess.
>>17171762
None of the jobs she got offered would give her a work visa
>>17171752
Talk to her about it
>>17171752
This is the second time you made this thread so, yeah, I would suggest calling it off
how much money is at risk for you? bring it to a safe place if possible.
It's good that you judge her to be great. But do you two also fit in most other aspects? religion, politics, money handling, kids, the way you think?
>>17171789
second time?
What?
>>17171791
not much really.
Jesus christ.
You fucking, fucking moron.
You deserve the train wreck this is going to turn into