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Is it really not possible to just start as friends and gradually

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Is it really not possible to just start as friends and gradually fall in love?

Steve Urkel did it. I want that to be my life.
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That's how I got together with my girlfriend

But it's a shit plan if that's your goal from the beginning.
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>>17161498

how long did you know each other before confessing your feelings to one another? how did she react? howcome you weren't rejected for being in the friendzone?
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I was a friend with a guy for 5 years before I developed romantic feelings for him. 2 years later I confessed, and he felt the same.
But we never became a couple.
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>>17161577
>how come you weren't rejected for being in the friendzone?

A lot of it has to do with not thinking about fucking her senseless just because she's talking to you. That's like playing a game on ultra hard mode. You don't necessarily have to be a girl's friend to fuck her, but being in love with someone has to do with more than just sex. Honestly, being too friendly and already treating her like you're in a relationship with her is a huge turn off. The feelings come gradually and so does the sex. But, as I said before, if sex is the first thing on your mind when you see her, then it's most likely not going to work and it's going to affect you in a bad way. You're going to start to being too nice and doing a little too much to get in her pants. Any person with a brain will know you're faking it, especially after they reject you. I'm speaking from experience; I had to learn the hard way. Also, not the same you guy you asked.
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>>17161577

We knew each other for about three or four years before dating

I asked her out once, she turned me down, about three months later I started to see someone else and she approached me after that. We did a casual thing for a bit, I accidently called her my girlfriend, she got mad so I asked her out proper.

This is not a guide to success. It's a happy accident.
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>>17161609
RIP in pieces
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That's how my bf and I got together.

Now I'm his lil toaster strudel < 3
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>>17161577
a)three months
b)not much of a reaction, we met up as friends, end of the day we were kissing, not rocket science
c)no such thing. If there is attraction, there is attraction, if there isn't, there isn't
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>>17161479
>Is it really not possible to just start as friends and gradually fall in love?
It is possible, but there is a catch: timing is critical. Both people MUST start at the same time -or at least very nearly the same time- or it doesn't work. Unrequited love is bad for the psyche.

>Steve Urkel did it. I want that to be my life.
Steve Urkel isn't real.
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