"I need a break."

So today like I said she met up with me at the lake and told me she wants to take a break. it was very hard for her, she cried a lot and wouldn't let go of me when I asked her if she wanted a hug.

I went back to work and messaged her an hour or two later saying how foolish and immature I've been, how I miss holding her hand and falling asleep next to her, waking up and seeing her in the morning.

She said This is all coming too late, I have no energy left to put into this relationship, I need a break.

I said I understand, and now here I am.

So...break advice: Do I cut contact, just wait for her to decide what she needs? I told her everything I had to say, I don't want to come off as desperate or dependent on her.

I'm supposed to meet up with her soon to grab my stuff. What should I say, what should I do, how should I act? Should I message her to get my stuff, or continue the no contact rule and wait for her to let me know?

Thank you in advance.

>>17158494
>she wants a break
>she's big into "energy" and "aura"

She's retarded.
And she's already set up somebody else to take your place if she's isn't fucking him already.

Cut contact and move on. You're at the beginning of your adult life.

>>17158494
>yeah I need some advice.

Protip - if you need advice learn to lead off with a fecking question. You ask questions like a girl and by that I mean you don't ask questions but tell a sob story.

Also, you sound like a dick (that accidentally buttfucking her is gold) and she sounds like a fruit loop.

>>17158494
jesus christ, i read the first post and I need a break too. I see where she's coming from, y'all both dumb "HURR YOUR MASSAGE DRAINED MY ENERGY"

damn bruh.

>>17158494
>in what I thought was a humorous way. I accidentally stuck it in her ass. She didn't say no at first, but after I thrusted a few times


Oh my gosh that's so fucking hilarious I bet you both were just dying of laughter.

"I say, my dick is in your ass!"

"Really? Capital, capital, what a lark!"

Aura and energy? Yall need jesus

>>17158505
Sorry bro, I know it sucks, but breaks are just breakups in disguise. She wants to go bang some strange, and honestly when you've been in a relationship since high school, who doesn't? I'd recommend you find a new girl of your own to fuck, cuz she's probably already got some new guy in mind, if not already lined up. Goodluck, and godspeed friend.

>>17158494
Dude. Unless she's had so much stuff shoved up her pooper that there's no elasticity left, there's no "accidentally" sticking it in her ass.

>>17158584
with enough lubricant and I assure you it's entirely possible.

>>17158600
But if he's fucking her vagina, there's not really a reason to lube up her asshole so much that you'd accidentally stick it in there.

It's over.

Look to the future with optimism, safe in the knowledge that your next gf will make your ex look like a worm.

>>17158605
lubricant obeys gravity and spreads out pretty easily

>>17158610
in missionary, sure. And sticking it in the ass while in missionary by accident is about as plausible as sticking your finger in your ass by accident while you fap.

>>17158610
When you lube the ass, you gotta put lube both on the inside and the outside to make it easier to accommodate a dick. I'm just so confused as to how OP was able to put his dick so easily in her ass that he did it accidentally. Like that doesn't happen unless there's a shit ton of lube, preparation/warm up, and voluntary relaxation involved.

>>17158624
have you ever had anal before?

if you get her really wet, and are fucking her, you're still going to have to go slowly if it's one of her first times or if you haven't done it in awhile, but it is quite easy as the male to get it in there.. The female taking it is another thing, though.

>>17158656
I've tried to have anal. Lube, warmup, preparation, and there was no "accidentally" sticking it in my ass. It didn't even work, he couldn't get anything past the tip in before I started bleeding, so that's why I'm having some serious trouble that OP innocently stuck it in the wrong hole without realizing

>I left work to meet up with her
top kek

>>17158656
>but it is quite easy as the male to get it in there

Needle dick detected?

I couldn't slide anything up my ass bigger than a soda straw and have it go in "quite easy".

OP is full of shit, of course. No wonder his GF wanted him to leave and not spend the night. Fucking hilarious!

>stealing energy

please move on

>>17158494
>he says sometimes I massage her for too long and she can feel me "taking" her energy instead of giving it.

NEVER STICK YOUR DICK IN CRAZY. It's not hard to understand.

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>>17158494
>She says sometimes I massage her for too long and she can feel me "taking" her energy instead of giving it

>I took so much of her energy that she sat up and told me that our relationship is failing

>>17158520
I find this post humorous

>>17158856
that might just be some bullshit way of her saying that she doesn't like when she can tell OP's massaging her just to try and get laid

bait

OP's girlfriend is LOW ENERGY!

Why are you dating any "artsy" chick? They usually have the mentality of a child. They are good for fucking, then you leave when they start rambling about how they "found themselves in india, and they are communist, otherkin for planet Femanon 5"

That when you pop your cock out fast and make sure the cum trail can't be used to follow you.

Violated her? Jesus Christ. You know she's essentially crying rape on you for no reason, right? One of the most trademark crazy things to do?

>>17158667
No, it can definitely happen. It happened to me a few times before I ever tried anal, didn't go in far obviously but hurts like hell.

>>17158904
>>17158875
Ugh I know she's partly this crazy socialist, feminist, psycho. But I love her and she was changing for the better.

Recently she's been looking at her friends going to parties and getting wasted on snapchat and I feel like it's making her depressed. Fuck social media.

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>>17158875
>OP's girlfriend is LOW ENERGY

>>17158494
this is the dumbest shit ive ever read in my life

Yep. Move on, OP.

>>17158624
>Like that doesn't happen unless there's a shit ton of lube, preparation/warm up, and voluntary relaxation involved.
you're
wrong

>>17159694
That's just my personal experience man, shouldn't have tried to state it as a fact. But holy shit, I just don't see how you could accidentally put your dick completely in someone's asshole without somebody noticing and/or being in pain

>>17158494
What worked for me was letting my gf know that I was staunchly against us taking a break, I told her I'd give her space if she needed it but also made it clear that I was very against it. She decided she didn't want to do anything to upset me so we called off the break