need help mom found my porn

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This thread looks promising.

She'll get over it.

>>17133610
Just tell her your friend was using it and he left. He left it on to make you look like a pervert.

>>17133610
You could just try and stop, OP.

Ultimately, it's a time wasting habit. You can get away with doing it once a week. Daily is overkill and unproductive, as is creating hordes of porn you will never watch again.

>>17133644
hoards*

Get over it Dean, your mother is dead it isn't real.

tell her it was a prank

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>OP HERE

>>17133628
>>17133623
>>17133644

I have never seen her like this. I dont think she'll get over it.
She has not spoken a word to me for several days now.

It wont change what happend if I stop fappin daily to porn.
She probly sees all that nasty stuff when she looks at me now.
I'm so sad. I want the things to be like they where.

I hate the silence, I miss my happy mom.
Shit, I know I fucked up but I never imagend shit would end up like this.

It should get better with time. It was a sudden, shocking reminder that you're not a kid anymore. Ask her, very sincerely, if she would like to talk about it. Being able to air out her jumbled thoughts about this and being able to ask you any questions she has could make all the difference.

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Also....to be total honost and to give you insight on how bad this situation really is.
I think my mom locked her bedroom door yesterday b4 she went to sleep.

She has never in my life locked her door.
I'm 24 and I live alone with mom. It kinda hurts writing this, and I cant talk irl about this shit.
We used to have so much fun and laughs,
I'm really broken.
I am not complete sure she locked her door but I think she did.

>>17133698
God damn, you fucked up bad if your mom is now afraid you're going to rape her. There's no going back, you need to move out.

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Be a man, grow some pair of balls and tell her, that everybody is different and has different taste. IF she judges you because of what you like or she's avoiding / ignoring you, you should speak to her, not angrily or vulgarly, but calmly and with respect, that these things are most private and everybody has right to do what they want in their private time that belongs only to them

>>17133704
he can't move out, he's not even 16 yet

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>>17133685
I tried that.
I really did.
First attempt I asked whats wrong?
She just looked very angry at me and did not say anything.
Now everytime I ask something she just nobs or looks the other way.
I think things will never be the same.
I'm such a loser.

>>17133610
this story looks so damn real

>>17133713
You asked what's wrong. That's dumb. You know what's wrong. You say "can we please talk about what happened?" She says no, ask why not.

>>17133698
>24 and lives with mom
Oh, she probably just wants you to move out. Makes sense why she went through your laptop in the first place.

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>>17133704
>>17133711
I dont think she is affraid I'll rape or hurt her.
I think she just dont want me to enter her bedroom so I cant try to talk to her.

I have been trying to talk to her.
I tried some jokes and cleaned up the hous.
But everything I do it all keeps getting worse.

Talking kindly wont work.
Living on my own I wont leave my mom alone.
My mom is my best friend.
We really had so much together. I broke it, I destroyed it all.
I'm very worried and sad.
I dont know how or what is going to happen.
I cant leave becouse of this, becouse iff I do than she will remember forever.

>>17133720

This story doesn't add up. Why was your mom in your room in the first place? Why was your door unlocked if you were fapping? Most importantly how did you not immediately close all tabs once you busted a nut? Especially if you live alone or in a small house.

If you're not just baiting, my advice is to keep apologizing and promise you'll go on a program to stop watching porn. Whether you'll do it or not is unimportant just try to convince her that you'll fix the problem she's seen. Barring that, stop asking politely to talk to her and sit her ass down for a heart to heart. No mom is going to emotionally disconnect from their child just because that child is into hardcore pron.

>>17133610
This is what you get for not using windows key (next to ALT) + L.

>What do I do?
You can tell her that the fact you enjoy non-vanilla stuff doesn't make you horrible person.
You can ask her if she would freak out too with regular naked girls pics.
You can assure her that this isn't proof that you are failure as a son.

But still, your mom is woman from different era. She might never accept it. But behaving like a freak won't solve anything either. Just wait a while. Maybe she will discuss this with somebody else who might assure her this is not a big deal since she won't trust you.

Could've been worse

>>17133698
>>17133732


If true, you need to talk to your mom and get her talking. Let her know you are sad and that you can tell she is hurt, and try to get her talking.

Just get her talking and shut up and listen.

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Your mom should know you like jacking your cock like every normal hman.
And so what if its some nasty porn, to each their own. Shell get over it and youll eventually have a laugh.
WERE ALL JUST SHIT BAGS TRYING TO FUCK AND GET FUCKED
Thats what life is...
Its all normall
Pretty funny its some nasty puke porn etc lol dont worry bruh

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>>17133723
>>17133725
>>17133738
I have all my porm saved on my hd.
I was fappin and whent to shower.
While in the shower she whent to my room and found my porn.
I must have forgot to close the porn. I have my media player on repeat so it keeps on playing.

I really really dont know why she went on my laptop. This is private property.
We have this as a house rule.
I dont go through her stuff.
She often enters my room I see no problem in that.
You must understand she is my best friend and we hang out often.
Watching movies and drink together.
My mom is a very cool mom all my friends say this.

I think, I will try to stop talking to her about this.
I tottaly misshandled the situation.
What if things never get back to normal?
What iff In her mind I will always be this sick perv.
What when I get a gf and mom thinks I do that kind of shit to my gf?

I think my life is over.

Well, that should teach her to stay out of your business.
Actually you could reverse the situation and blame her.
That would unleash all the emotions and itll be alright quicker.
I mean, your dad probably likes some kinky stuff too idk.

>>17133774
So what if she thinks your a sick perv? You were made inside if her.

>>17133777
Pretty much this.

I don't see how watching porn should make you the bad guy. It's the CURRENT YEAR. Everybody watches porn nowadays. Hell, my dad showed me a video of a dude fucking a snake a couple of weeks ago, just for a laugh.

>>17133610
Tell your mom you got a virus and you were trying to remove the porn files on your computer

>>17133800
A bit late for that, anon.

>>17133774
>I think I will stop trying to talk to her about this
>I will do the opposite of the advice I'm getting

But you haven't actually tried talking to her, you did a half-assed "what's up?". You need to actually say the words "let's talk about what happened"

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>>17133747
>>17133753
>>17133763
>>17133777
>>17133789
Dad is not in the picture.
Its just me and mom from the start.

I'm done talking.
I need some time to think things over.
I never felt this missrable b4.
I failed my mom.
Mom will never look at me as she did b4.
We probly never chill and watch movies again.
I can imagine akwerd moments while sex scene's in movies pop up.
My life is over.
It's over.
I think my mom has never seen shit like this b4.
This thought just came up, What if she is a rape victime in the past?
That would explane her reaction.
But I doubt that this is the case.
I fucked up....

OP, just go about your business as if nothing happened because you didn't do anything wrong and you don't need to apologize for anything. She's the one with the problem that she needs to work through. Honestly, she's the one that should be making a thread on /adv/ asking how to handle the situation, not you.

If things can't "go back to normal" that's only because she lacks the maturity to deal with the situation and realise that you're a grown man. It's not like she caught you shooting heroine.

Tell her to grow up and get over it, it's just some fucking porn. Also remind her that your penis touched her vag when you popped out of her.

>>17133812
You have a mommy issue because your father is not in the picture, consider it and stop trying to be a saviour for your mom, its just your porn dude. No big deal she needs a reality check, show her the view counts or stats or something.

this should be a wake-up call for you to stop living such a shitty life

you can't keep living in the shadows...

>>17133610
Your mother has invaded your privacy, you have not fucked up, she has, especially when she is judging you for what sexually arouses you. Get a lock on your door and move on with your life.

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>>17133873
>>17133883
I dont know...i'm tired right now.
She still has not spoken to me.

I was happy with my life the way things where.
Why would I need to change my life?
Why? Becouse I get older I cant live with my mom?
As I sayed b4, mom is more than just a mom. She really is my best buddy.
I thought nothing could brake us apart.
The porn, the gape and prolapse and woman abuse is something I think she never seen, or only seen in movies about a serial killer.

I feel sick, sad and horrible.
You all pointed out that talking about this with my mom is not working out for me becouse I keep saying stupid shit.

Moving on, I dont know how.
When will this torment stop, I dont know.
I cant tell her that all men watxh this kind of porn, I think she would tottaly freak the fuck out.

I will keep an eye out tonight to make sure if she locks her bedroom when she goes to sleep.
This hurts me the most.
I need to know.
Can I ask her why would she lock her bedroom?
Or will she think that I keep an eye on her?
I dont know how to act normal, I feel like a creep, so many thoughts, I have lost total controle about the situation.

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>>17133812

Yeah she probably got raped hardcore with puke and piss like in your movies you love to ejaculate to.
Now she locks her door and is frightened bc you remind her of those sick bastards.
Every time she looks at you she imagines you jacking it, enjoying yourself to that sick shit.
No im just fu king around, its alright dont worry its normal. It happens all the time.
Or maybe not, find it out later on
My mom found my sick pornos ep. 665

>>17133933
>its alright dont worry its normal
It's now normal to jack it to interracial, pissing, and puke porn. Fuck I wish we could wind the clock back.

>24 and lives at home
>no gf
>never had father
>mom is best friend
>possible hardcore porn addiction
>absolute overreaction from both mom and son to situation

Yeah OP this isn't a normal or healthy at all. It sounds like your mom is fucked up and it's fucked you up too. You really should not be living with her at 24.

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>>17133932

She probably found you incest porn too bro, thats why she locks the door.
Nah just dont worry. Not a big deal im serious....

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General advice from pol to every anon here. Porn is degenerate and leads to the destruction of self. Keep going to church and pray to God everytime you feel tempted to watch such repulsive videos.

If everything else fails follow next steps
1. Open your porn folder
2. Erase all your porn
3. Clean your recycler bin
4. Open your Google Chrome
5. Open incognito tab
6. Watch porn directly from there with no evidence left
7. You can do that on your cell phone too

But remeber, a Christian life is a good life

>>17133939
Yes, its a big business too, and most important its completely legal, unless op lives in the uk.

>>17133932
Stop watching porn and stick to prayer and celibacy, God wants you to save your soul!
If not try some lesbian bondage hardcore porn, you'll discover that women are rougher than men when it comes to porn

>>17133932
man the fuck up and talk to her about it, let her know that it's just videos of actors and you don't even like that stuff in real life just the videos. Your mother had hot steamy sex to produce you and she also lived through her teenage years and 20s just like you except without internet. She has fantasized about almost every sexual thing just like everyone else. Seriously man the fuck up and comfort her instead of letting her thoughts stew.

OP, why do you write all your posts like some shitty poem?

Either take all the advice that's been given to you in this thread which has been consistent in telling you to either talk to her or ignore her and move on, or stop being a bitch and let the thread die. All you're doing is posting "I don't know, I don't like this, I don't know, everything is bad now, I don't know, I fucked up"

Man the fuck up and do something or bitch up and do nothing. You made this thread for a reason.

>>17133957
It should be outlawed, I lost my teenage years to degenerate pornography.

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>>17133967
Yeah, my gf's all wanted me to tie them up and use them. I pissed on 2 fo them. Idk and I met them in real life not on some specialised site like fet life
Op here is some more advice, get a fet life account make sure your mom wont find out and get married with some woman who likes that shit too, the world is a colorful place and accept your just one shadeaof grey.
Make sure you post your full identity on fet life with pictures so you can come here for advice again.
Na dont do that. Just post ur dick and use a special email adress and phone number.
Find your soul mate, piss on her, hey you coild even shit in her mouth for all the world cares.
Go to church have some kids and live a satisfying life.
Who cares?

>>17133956
Go eat a bag of dicks, anon

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Why the fuck was your mom looking through your computer? She was obviously LOOKING for porn. What the hell else did she think she was going to find? Any excuse she's giving you for why she went through your shit is a lie.

Her entire reason for going through your computer was specifically to find something to be upset about, and she did. Big whoop. Call her out on her bullshit. "You purposefully went looking for something bad by snooping behind my back, and to no surprise, you found it. It's just a form of escapism for me. Get over it and stop being nosy."

My mother was the same way. Constantly looking for reasons to be disappointed or upset with me, but she was very extreme about it. It started with shit like this. Eventually I just snapped and got tired of it and realized there was nothing wrong with the things she was trying to make me ashamed of and started biting back.

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>>17133980
I think if I do what you say, than she would think I'm defend8ng this type of porn.

I saved a large collection of shit like this, and yes also incest porn, hotkinkyjo, naughty Alysha, gardengirl facial abuse and more.

I dont know what she saw or how how long she was browsing through my files.

I assume that she saw some very sick shit.
She is in shock for several day now.
I have never seen my mom like this. Never.

I cant look her in the eye and say that this is normal. Wtf yall thinking?
I cant do that.
What I want the most is that things get back to normal and have fun with mom again.

>>17134017
if you're not willing to follow any of the advice given then why did you come here? if you do nothing it'll go downhill.

The best and fastest way to make things right is to swiftly kill yourself. Don't forget to stream it though.

>>17134044
It's kind of becoming clear that OP is making this up for attention or trolling. He's deliberately ignoring everything being said and just repeating the same shit.

Abandon thread.

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>>17134044
I honostly dont know what to do.
I came here to listen to your advise but I cant man up to do what you all think is best in this situation.

I'm hoping some anon will come with a magic solution so all this will go away.

I'm in a very bad state of mind right now.
I'm lost, and I think my mom kinda feels lost to.
I keep saying I dont know what to do, becouse I'm really desperate.
Tomorow I will try first polite by saying that I am sorry and that I dont enjoy watching woman beeing abused.

But I'm sure she will say "why have you saved so many videos if you dont like it?"

I think a appoligy is the best way to start a conversation.
And if she is so disgusted with me that she wont talk back, than i'll trow away my laptop in front of her.
I want mom back to my best friend.

She saw my incest porn. The file is in her name. I have films of me masturbating in her bed wearing her underwear

>>17134076
>to be my best friend

>>17134076
Throwing the laptop away isn't just going to magically fix things. Just say "You know that's not real stuff that I do...right? It's just fantasy. There's a line between fantasy and reality and I know where that line is. I'm not a bad person and you know it."

Your only option other than addressing it directly is to do what most families do; pretend it never happened and wait however long it takes for things to stop being awkward.

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>>17134083
If that is true than your situation is way worse than mine.

Yes these last view days suicide crissed my mind.
But I dont want my mom to be alone so suicide is not a option.

>>17134100
Suicide. Over your mom seeing your porn collection. Something that has been happening to teenage boys every day since the 90's.

Get over yourself holy shit.

I found her sex toys. I inserted them in me. I filmed it. She used them after me. She saw the film.

>>17134100
>But I dont want my mom to be alone so suicide is not a option.
She deserves to be alone, you snivelling, bitch. She'd be so much happier. And she wouldn't be scared of you entering her room. She probably stays up at night listening for your footsteps.

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>>17134097
This might be the best advice I heared tday.

Pretend nothing happend.
And yes..I feel good about trowing away my laptop. The more I think about it the beter I feel about doing this.

Now the laptop to me is a constand reminder about what happend.
I will trow it away and I will keep my bedroom door open from now, so she can see it's gone and I hope she comes back to my room and feel free like the way she always did b4.

I will buy flowers in the morning and tell her I'm sorry. Than trow away my laptop.
I hope in a couple days things will get back to normal.
I think inviting a couple friends over will help the situation, and just act like nothing happen.

I hope things will be ok.

>>17134138
don't invite your friends over, she'll probably think you're trying to gang rape her.

>>17134145
I had typed out a mom son gang bang rape fantasy. I think she read it

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OP. Your mom saw what she saw. The only solution is to talk to her about it. If she's going to be a typical woman and just bitch about it to herself, then you have to be a man and force the conversation. She will respond and maybe somewhat respect you when you do. Talk about the issue and lie about why it was there if you must. But dont let her just sulk in whatever new image of you is manifesting in her head. And don't act guilty about it. She will notice your guilt and react to it.
Just remember that she's from another generation and doesn't know about computers as much as you do.
Force the conversation
Don't act guilty
Explain yourself/lie
She will cut her shit when you approach her the right way. Good luck

>>17134138
You're definitely trolling now. Anon said don't throw it away, so that's what you want to do? Fuck outta here

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>>17134138
You obviously want to fuck your mom real bad.
And she knows it.
Your a fucking pussy man, your a fucking psychopathic pervhho wants to fuck mommy.
Now either you stop acting sociopathic by buying her flowers because your progress of trying to fuck her is gone.
Get a grip, your a psycho like most of us and deep down you know you actually dont care and would rape your mom if you could.
You wont be fooling your mom anymore, shell always know you want her pussy so bad, thats why you built this relatiinship right?

You want to be daddy and fuck her.
You are isolated and were working towards that shit.
Hell I even bet you sneaked around her panties and shit.

The thing is deep down you are this guy and you know it, and you just believe your own lies and excuses and try to find a way to undo the
Destruction of your progress in fucking your mom because you were slacking.

Now, yes do that, be a real one and buy her flowers etc. hell id even advice you to talk about it with her.
You want to fuck her so be kind to her and talk to her about it, especially dont forget the incest part.
Keep on living your wonderfull perv life and your mom might one day suck you off.
By you sociopath welp haha
You should be honest from now on. And get the advice you REALLY want.

>>17133610
Shoulda nuked everything

>>17134225
OP is Norman bates

>>17134353
I was just about to say I'm getting a serious Norman Bates vibe from this thread...

>>17133698
And you still think your not addicted to porn? And you still don't think of stopping your insane, time wasting, unproductive behaviour?

>>17133800
>Tell your mom you got a virus and you were trying to remove the porn files on your computer
This would have been perfect but op fucked it up lol

$10 says his "mom" is a shrivelled corpse dressed in lingerie.

>>17133610

I'm sorry to say this because you seem upset about it too, but I had a good laught while reading your story.

What other anons said is true (the serious ones) your mom only had access to internet later in her life, this is maybe new to her.

She probably knew that there were some hardcore stuff out there but never saw it up close. So she might think only the weirdos loves that shit or somethin.

Also, this happens all the time, I heard countless stories like yours and imo the worst you can do is make a big deal out of it. She'll eventually reflect on it, or get info on the matter and get to the conclusion that your browsing history doesn't necessarily mean that you're a bad person.

Just carry on with your life, act like this is not a big deal because it isn't, really.

anyhow good luck with that haha

>>17133610
you probably got your fucked up sense of sexuality from one of your parents, possibly her.
Don't feel too bad, I felt better about my sexuality when I found out that my estranged father works at a strip club and is involved in pornography.

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>OP HERE
This might be my last update on this thread. I need to think this over.

Things took for the worse this morning.
Woke up, washed my face whent to the kitchen to prepare my breakfast.

Mom was standing there waiting.
I said hi,
She looked real angry and said we need to talk.
She screamed at me, called me a monster a perv and said she did not raised me to be a rapist.
I did not know what to say, sorry was the only thing that came out my mouth. This only made her more angry.

At one point I said dont you think you are overreacting?
She said that she dont trust me anymore and that she wants me out the house.
WTF!??
She is disgusted with me she said.

As I'm writing this I'm crying my eyes out and have no idea what to do.
I have never seen mom this angry.
I had grabbed some of my clothes and when out.
I walked a couple turns round the mall and than whent back home, I creeped in the garage and thats where I' m at right now.
She never comes in the garage and doesnt know I am here.
I am total silent and my hearthbeat is going crazy.
I left my laptop in my room and the fear that she will search my files again is killing me.

My phone is almost dead and my charger is also in my room. I dont know if mom goes outside tday or not.
I'm broken and feel like a filthy piece of shit.
I'm such a loser. My life is over.
I fear that things never will be back to normal.
My mom actualy screamed at me and called me a perv and a monster.
I still cant believe it. I assume she was longer on my laptop than I first thought.
I have lost everything. I'm in total panic and my mind jumps from thought to thoughts. My phone is almost dead. I hope some anon is sencire about helping me and this situation has gone to the extreme. To be honost, I cant live without my mom. She's my best friend and I miss her. I hate myself for dissapointing her and making her upset. This is it. Thank you for those who had serious advice and

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I was in a similar position once. Basically I was an idiot teenager and torrented a lot of porn without a VPN. They called her about Giant Wet Tits or whatever and it was very awkward. Granted my stuff was way more vanilla than yours but I'm able to laugh about it now.

The difference is she kind of reveled in making me uncomfortable but just told me to never do it again (as in download shit). Reasonable people will just be extremely uncomfortable, but not angry.

>>17136079
>She screamed at me, called me a monster a perv and said she did not raised me to be a rapist.
Yeah ok either your mom was raped in some horrific situation or she's whacko. Gangbang porn is weird, but not rape. Give her time and hope she mellows out, because this kind of reaction is nuts.

>>17133610
It was research material & you're not gay

>interracial porn

You deserve the shame, cuck.

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lol what a bitch. my mom burned all my porn because god. now I jack off 4 times a day at least. get over it dude. at least she doesn't send you in front of your church cause your cursed and or possessed. fuck my mom what an everlasting embarrassment.

>>17136079

Well yup are 24 so she can't just kick you out I think, tenants rights and all that.

So you should walk in, pack up your stuff and check into a motel or a friend's and star looking for a new place dude

It obviously git your mum way harder than I think any one here would understand so she will need time.

Get out of her space and slowly build up contact again. Leave a letter saying you will be happy to talk things through when she is ready.

> Mom we have to talk
> *unzip pants*

I think watching any xev bellringer is off the table then

>>17136105
I can't jerk to this. Her baby bump is too cute.

>>17137002
This