Gf left me cuz i watched porn for the first time in 6 months.

6 months without porn ... man, you're a king.

Had you waited another few days, you would have been crowned king of no fap and would have become an advisor for Bernie Sanders campaign.

Now you will neve feel the bern

>>17105475
Don't worry bro, I masturbate whenever i want ^^ !

>>17105461
Kek
>>17105457
How the fuck will she know if you at home tugging it to some sasha grey videos? You're fucking stupid, the reason why she gives you no pictures is because you're literal autist. Watch porn if u want.

>>17105457
Fuck that shit. If she can't handle you watching porn, she can fuck off to christian mingles or some other bullshit.
Do whatever you want. Find someone who enjoys what you do.

>>17105457
It's always a red flag when problems from a previous relationship enter a current one.

>>17105501
She can't really separate things. I don't know why.

She doesn't know me at all, she just assumed that she knew who i am based on her previous relashionship.

I agree, it's a red flag. It sux.

>>17105528
She's fucked dude. Sounds like some BPD bullshit.

>>17105457
If she used porn viewing as a relationship breaker, she had another reasons or she wasn't worth it at all.

Also when one partner wants sex and other doesn't, you need to use communication and find a compromise. You clearly couldn't find one.

Maybe next time you have to be like: babe, if you won't sex until 12:00 I will have a private time in bathroom with my phone. I hope you don't mind at all.

>>17105457
>Did i do something wrong or is she the one wrong for turning down sexting and refusing sex ?

no, she was definitely in the wrong. what kind of person refuses their partner sex for 3 months! especially in a relationship that is only beginning. this is the kind of shit you expect from married couples. nah, she was definitely being a weird bitch. you will be glad this happened. bitch be cray cray

>>17105563
This. Nigga should be worshipping the sun right now

>>17105540

>If she used porn viewing as a relationship breaker, she had another reasons or she wasn't worth it at all.

Basically, her ex boyfriend used to refuse sex to her and she felt ugly and unatractive because he refused sex for porn.

Also, she hates those porn girls.

To be honest, i'm normal, i have needs. It's not like i'm into some weird porn shit...

>>17105574
>not like I'm into weird porn shit

Why not? Dive into that shit, it's great!

>>17105563
>this is the kind of shit you expect from married couples

Yeah, and we're just dating, i mean, wtf. She doesn't want to settle to anything.

I worked my ass to be with her ...

>>17105574
You literally did nothing wrong.

>>17105580

Don't worry, i'm pretty satisfied with my tumblr

>>17105582
what was her reason? I'm going to say she said the classic "I'm not in the mood".

>>17105574
>Basically, her ex boyfriend used to refuse sex to her and she felt ugly and unatractive because he refused sex for porn.
This is a legitimate problem.

In your case though, it sounds like you resorted to using porn because SHE was the one refusing sex to you, not the other way around.

Were you simply separated from each other for three months or something, or was she just holding on you for some reason?

If it was the latter, I would have been the one to bail.

>>17105574
I mean I certainly do you get why she dropped that relationship, but she needs to get that most guys these days watch porn, and that's inherently bad. Especially if you havent had sex in a long time.

By the way, why HAVEN'T you had sex in so long? You made it sound like she's denying you of sex. What's her reasoning?

>>17105457
>no big deal since we use to fuck at the beginning I didn't had that need
And there's the real problem.
>So we had sex like 10 times at the beginning of our relashionship but i haven't had sex in 3 months and i'm very needy since I gave her my first time

A few questions:
>Why haven't you had sex since the first few times?
>Are you pressuring her to have sex? Pressuring women to have sex generally turns them off.

>Did i do something wrong or is she the one wrong for turning down sexting and refusing sex ?
This is a tricky situation because there are many factors. First, you cannot force someone to want to fuck you. I think you should try and encourage her to fuck you by turning her on, being good to her, etc.

But if you're being good to her by helping her with the chores, being available when she needs you, and loving her... then she should want to have sex with you. If she doesn't want to have sex with you for a long period of time like three months, that generally means there's a problem somewhere in the relationship. So I would try to figure out what those problems are and see if you can fix them.

Sometimes women misuse sex as a weapon. Sometimes women use sex to control men. But even if she is doing this, I think your best counter move is to try and diffuse the situation by talking with her, figuring out if you can do better, and expecting her to do better with you.

If you step up for her but she doesn't step up for you, it's time to move on.

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>>17105625
*That's NOT inherently bad.

>>17105601

She's usually say she's not in the mood or that she doesn't want to see me because according to her, we always fight (which we do because she brings up a topic like my ex gf or smth)

>>17105627
>>17105457
Oh and as far as the porn, again, it's a tricky situation because it's bigger than just "the porn."

The issue here is that there's a problem in your relationship. She's obviously got a problem if she isn't taking care of you for 3 months. Instead of confronting the problem head on, she's withholding sex and you're jerking it. That seems pretty unhealthy to me.

That being said, I don't think women have the privilege of telling men what to do with their bodies. Women of all people should understand this.

Is it your right to watch porn and masturbate? Fuck yes. But please realize that in this specific situation, it looks like her lack of sex and your porn viewing is actually a symptom of a bigger problem in the relationship.

You should address the bigger problem. If you do, watch her stop giving a shit if you watch porn.

>>17105614
i dont understand why any guy would refuse sex because of porn, i mean guys normally watch porn and they imagine having sex, it only makes sense that they will have sex if it is offered to them while they are watching porn. i personally would watch porn before having sex with ex partners because it would get more more in the mood.

Omg. Please dump this bitch. She is crazy and she is making you crazy. How did she know you watched porn? That's private and none of her business unless it affects your relationship. This chick will torture you forever because she is bored.
Fucking Run.

>>17105614

I haven't seen her in a very long time, 15 days and before that 1 month. So yeah.

With her ex boyfriend she used to be horny as fuck, but with me, I get nothing. i'm fucking 24 not 60 yo bro...

I use to feel like shit when i thought about it.

She said she doesn't want to fuck cuz she doesn't feel horny like before but to me, it's like food... u just have to get it started to get your appetite back.

>>17105625

Basically, she is defending me from sex because :

1 - she is never in the mood
2 - her libido is lower than 0 now ( but she was horny as fuck 7 months ago when she was with her ex boyfriend )
3 - She thinks we will start fighting because we used to fight sometimes and now she keeps a bad image.

Truth is, we laugh a lot and she only focuses on one detail or smth and it ruins our moment.

>>17105640
From your post, I'm getting the idea that you view porn kind of like a tool to be used to get in the mood or personal relief, etc.

Sometimes guys watch porn and stop fucking their women. I've had girl friends go through this, I've done this to girlfriends, I've talked to guys who talk about this. Not everyone mind you, just some people and sometimes.

Porn, like everything else, can be an addiction. When I stopped fucking women because I was too busy beating it to porn, it was because of other issues in my relationship with that girl - she was annoying me, she was being too needy, I needed alone time, etc.

Also, a lot of women don't understand that they can't possibly satisfy every desire a man has. Men have issues with this too.

>>17105627

>>Are you pressuring her to have sex? Pressuring women to have sex generally turns them off.

I never asked for sex in 4 months. I respected her choice and was waiting for her to come and ask for it.

I know it turns women off, i have a pretty bad experience with that.

>>17105627
>If you step up for her but she doesn't step up for you, it's time to move on.

True ...

>>17105661
Have you considered that she's getting laid somewhere else? You guys should be fucking like crazy. Otherwise her needs are probably being met somewhere else.

Either way it's not working. End it and move on. Break contact with her. Don't give her closure. Don't explain yourself. Just say it's not the relationship you imagined and you're moving on.

>>17105661
Guy you're talking to.

At the same time OP, it's perfectly reasonable for you to expect sex in a relationship. It's a balance. You can't pressure her for it, but you can let her know that you expect it in a healthy relationship. I know that sounds contradictory, but it's all in how you approach it. It's a delicate balance.

>>17105661
Look dude. I'm not gonna give you advice like the other clowns in here. Because I'm not pedantic and it's pretty pointless to analyze a shitty relationship. Just cut contact with her. Get a hobby. Hang out with friends and become more social. Realize that no matter what you feel it's a failure and it's time to do something different.

>>17105627
>But if you're being good to her by helping her with the chores, being available when she needs you, and loving her... then she should want to have sex with you. If she doesn't want to have sex with you for a long period of time like three months, that generally means there's a problem somewhere in the relationship. So I would try to figure out what those problems are and see if you can fix them.

I've always been there for her. I'm caring, i listen and i give space when needed. I respected her. I never did anything wrong as far as i'm concerned. I never talked to any girl and was 100% honest because i used to believe that she would be my last girlfriend. I spend my time fighting for the wrong people and i fell in love with her... and everything changed. She's the kind of women you're willing to marry without questioning.

It's just too bad that i wasn't good enough and she couldn't settle to a few sexy pictures of her in a bikini.

I was fucking perfect to her. She'll say i was horrible but in fact, i was only awful during fights to show her how hurt i am. I know what i did wrong.

Mea culpa today.

>>17105698
Nigga you retarded as shit you hypocritic ass motherfucker

>>17105702
>>17105698

I have friends i go out i have everything i need.

it's just that i'm horny all the time since i lost my virginity 6 months ago.

It's driving me crazy... i'm even having wet dreams..

>>17105718
Then go out and get some strange. Get tinder or something. Its super easy to get laid. Work out more and make yourself seem more appealing. Its simple.

>>17105702
>She'll say i was horrible
Yeah women often play the victim.

But what does she say about you? She might be playing the victim card, but she also might have some good points mixed in there.

None of us are perfect anon. It's very easy to pretend we've done nothing wrong when the other party is acting poorly, but that's rarely the case; it's usually a two-way street.

But at some point you have to ask yourself if the relationship is even worth repairing.

>>17105725

Not gonna show off here, but i can have anyone right now.

Sex without love is pointless. Sadly, it's her that i love and it's her i want to fuck because she's the sexiest woman in the world.

Love makes me soft.

>>17105727

I did my best to be the man she wanted me to be.

All i can say, is that she has her way of living this situation and i'm just sharing the way i'm living it.

so this is definitely a bait thread.

sounds like OP is the girl of the relationship

>>17105739
That is the dumbest thing I've ever read. You've had sex with one person. You crave the carnal release then make an excuse as to why you can't have sex. You're a fucking pussy.

>>17105760

I'm just loyal.

You'll learn about it someday if you're lucky :/

>>17105770
Well except for the fact that I've had 10 years worth of relationships. But thanks for coming out. You think first pussy love =/=loyalty? No. You Fuck bitches till you find someone right. Otherwise you stop your bitching and put Wristina to use.

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>>17105457
Pffff, you're in a relationship with three months without sex?
Fuck that shit. I fuck whenever. Girls are retarded. Cute, but psycho. All of them. Especially the smart ones that could never be a psycho.
If you're in a relationship and not fucking at least once every 3 days, that's bizarre to me.
I only would ever consider dating a cute chick who's down for 3+ times a day or bust.
Fuck that noise.

>pic related; not your gf

>>17105744
Don't ever be anyone's "man." Jesus Christ, faggot.

>>17105774

You have your way of living, and i have mine.

Being heartless isn't my weakness but it seems to be yours.

Anyone can have sex. i'm afraid not everyone has a healthy brain.

>>17105786

Holeeee shiiiit

BTFO
T
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>>17105786
Yeah, I'd call myself heartless.

>>17105457
My girl friend freaked that I watch porn, I told her to either suck more dick or get used to it. She has a lower sex drive and I don't pressure her into pretending she doesn't so why should I have to pretend that my sex drive is lower?

>>17105786

from what i've gathered from previous posts is you just wanting to vent and that's fine. the real problem here is you not being over your ex at all. you dodged an insecure bullet bro. this chick isn't the end all be all of women.

it's okay to value loyalty and want to have sex with someone you love; but right now you're being loyal to someone who dumped your ass for jackin it to riley reid after 3 months of dead space. that shit takes a toll. i honestly think you should play the field and start getting out there and meeting more women.

write yourself a note or something listing exactly why you broke up. when people in relationships break up, the hardest part is reflecting on all of those good times you had with your partner. be realistic with yourself. was this really the ideal relationship that you thought it would be? at 6 months your bedroom life should not be the fucking tundra. how did it make you feel when you were denied for 3 months straight? that's the type of person your ex was. a lot of people tell you who they really are not with words, but with actions. do yourself a favor and listen to them.

>>17105849

Thank you... This is actually some very helpful advice

May god be with you.