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I had a chat with my girlfriend and told her that I want to make

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I had a chat with my girlfriend and told her that I want to make something clear: I as the male should have the last word. If she wants to eat sushi but I want to eat pizza, then we go to eat pizza. I said that because we often get into arguments and I noticed that she kind of wants to have the upper hand.

Now she said that we might not fit each other that well and went offline. Did I fuck up? Thanks for any advices of how to proceed.
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>>17015777
You're both in the right.

But as she said: you two might not fit if she's a little spoiled brat.
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Yes. Learning to compromise is part of a relationship. Showing you can't do that is a red flag.
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>>17015777

Haha what the fuck OP.

Sometimes I wonder where you guys get this shit, whether it's trolling or someone literally sat you down growing up and said "the man should have the last word in all matters."

A mature, respectable man listens to all sides and compromises in relationships, because it's a give and take with another human.

Not a feminist here, but thinking this would fly with any girl is insane.
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>>17015777
Chances are you're the one paying regardless..
you two should make food together kiss and make up.

>also stop being such a little bitch
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What the FUCk?

Dude, if you want to have a gf that is worth ANYTHING you better look deep inside yourself and get your shit together. And this isn't 'feminism" talking this is just reality. You are going to be dipping in the lowest dregs of females to find one that will put up with this shit.
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>>17015777
Jesus christ mate
>americans
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>>17015801
So much this. How much do you want to bet OP is part of either the alt-right or the Tea Party?
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>>17015777
You sound autistic OP holy shit, thanks for the laugh man.
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>>17015801
I think he is trolling, lmao. That first post just made me die of laughter, I cannot imagine OP is that deliberately cringeworthy yet managed to get a girlfriend.
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OP here. Compromises are important of course but it doesn't always work that way. Since when is it wrong to take charge as a men?
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It depends. You SHOULD have the last word, or rather, there shouldn't be an argument about it in the first place, only a discussion. But that applies to serious decisions, not on what you should eat tonight.

If she asks for sushi, just let her eat sushi. And then next time eat whatever you want. If you want to eat pizza and she wants to eat sushi, but you always get what you want you're not calling the shots, you're just a selfish asshole.

If she said you 2 don't fit give her some time (one or 2 days) and then ask her if she was serious when she said that. If she says yes just break up, nothing good will come out of insisting. Either way, ask her what bothered her about you, for future reference if nothing else.
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>>17015839
There's taking charge and them there's running her whole life...
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>>17015777
You fucked up in a sense,

Compromise is a normal part of a relationship. Apparently you think that because you are male, you get to make all the choices. Not many women will agree to live in a position where all of their choices are made for them. Think about it- would you want to be in a relationship where you never got your way ever?

So, if you're basically either 1) sexist because you believe that you are superior than women inherently and should therefore get your way, or 2) egotistical and think you should get your way because you are better.

You have two options.
1) look for a woman who agrees with your mindset and "fits" with you- there are very few of these but they do exist.
2) change your mindset and learn to compromise. This will expand you number of potential partners greatly.

If you really are sexist or whatever, the you need to be open about it from the get go or else this will happen again- where a woman likes you until she finds out that you don't respect her the same way that she respects you.
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>>17015777
how the fuck do guys like you even get girlfriends in the first place
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>>17015777
what the fuck nigga
it's like you were raised in the 1700s
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I thought Amish people weren't allowed to use computers, op
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You say that she likes to take the upper hand a lot but consider a brutal truth about reality and human relationships.

In any givenvironment proposition in a relationship, two open minded people will say yes. One assertive for the proposition and one open minded person will both say yes. One open minded person and one stubborn person will result in the stubborn person saying no to the proposition and killing it. One assertive person for the proposition and one stubborn person will result in a No and a big fight and possibly a break up.

So what is the lesson. In any partnership, the person who is most close minded and most stubborn holds the most power. The lesson is to be open minded and find a partner that is open minded.
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I understand you guys. I'm probably a bit too sexist and try to be more open in future.
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>>17015839

You're a damn idiot. You don't tell people that you "should be" in charge, or that you "want" to be in charge, you either are in charge or you aren't. "Taking charge" means to be able to convince your girlfriend to eat what you want to eat, not telling her that you'd like if she'd graciously submit to your unchallenged rule as the peniswielder of the relationship.
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>>17015777
>I said that because we often get into arguments and I noticed that she kind of wants to have the upper hand.
absolutley haram
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Yeah no if your paying you should at least have a say in where you guys are going. Why not make it so that when she pays you go where she wants and when you pay you go where you want. Also fuck that man last word bullshit I'm not into this whole femenist bullsgit but fuck that's literally retardedwtf.
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