How does one get over the past of women they are with - I mean

>>17011771

Every human errs and is affected by the circumstances. Who failed before, will eventually success if given a chance. You can either try your best now, despite your doubts, or give up first and have regrets forever that you didn't give it a fair shot.

>>17011779
One can give it ones all while still suffering internally
I think this is missing the point

Did she mean those things when she said them? If so, something happened and changed things. What was it that happened? Might give more clarity on what your issue is. If it was random or for no reason, that could be worrisome.
If she didn't mean those things and was just leading them on, by all means get out.

>>17011801
She did mean those things, and her only answer is that through time she fell out of love with them, or found some reason why she couldn't stand them anymore.

>>17011771
>>17011812
To be brutally honest, you can't really be sure it'll work this time. You can't really be sure you're not just the latest in a long line of losers.

That's life, gotta just do your best, then hope and pray.