Casual Sex

Stop thinking about it so much. Not everyone is having sex, let alone all the time. Chill. Have compassion for yourself.

I'm about to do some tumblr level shit but whatever.

Have you ever considered that you're asexual?
Literally means someone who is not interested in a sexual relationship (different then a romantic relationship).

so, by the fact that there is a community of people that are sexually like you, I'd say you shouldn't feel inadequate.

-another asexual

>>17010138
>everything but casual sex just seems so boring and pointless. I feel inadequate in not participating in it/wanting it though.
Do you mean everything ABOUT casual sex seems boring and pointless? I'd say that's a more common view than you'd think.

When I was younger and single, casual sex was not my bag--I had a couple of awkward promiscuous years and finally discovered that, at least for me, new conquests are only theoretically exciting, and sex is dramatically better in relationships.

Not for mushy reasons, (love makes better sex, etc.), although I've heard from many people who feel that way, but for purely practical reasons. Practice makes perfect, basically--when you've slept with someone more than a few times you know better how to please them and vice versa, and hopefully you're comfortable enough with them to communicate.

But if you're saying that you don't experience any sexual desire, even sex in a relationship may not be your bag--barring physiological, psychological, or neuro issues (low testosterone, drug interactions, depression, some ASDs, etc.), perhaps you really are asexual, as >>17010183 suggests. The internet tells me it's a real thing.

>>17010138
>casual sex just seems so boring and pointless.
> I feel inadequate in not participating in it/wanting it though
Why? I can't even name anyone i know who's into casual sex.
Don't let this board distort your perceptions of real people's sexual habits.

>>17010313
I can, they're all cunts