one could say i'm a crazy girl. i have always had rather disfunctional relationsips. but i realized how bad they are for me and distanced myself from dating for 5 years, going to therapy during that time, trying to get my shit together. recently, i started dating again, and i'm still in awe. it's like a fucking fairytale. we are so "perfect" together that it's like a perfectly smooth and stil lake. how can i introduce some POSITIVE intensity into our relationship?
You're right that you sound like a crazy person.
>>17006812
>a crazy person
i'm aware. i try to keep it on a leash. but can you help me find GOOD and HEALTHY ways to keep a realtionship exciting?
>>17006814
What kind of excitement?
>>17006825
that's the problem. i have no idea. i mean, we have an awesome sex life, we go on vacations, we plan on getting married, having kids, and all that shabang. i'm just worried that someday my crazy will kick in if i don't feed it regularly and with healthy options. what else is there to "make neat memories" in a relationship?
>>17006836
Go to some festival or rave party or whatever together, take some "soft" drugs and have sex in the woods
Do something like bungee or parachute jump, I dunno man
>>17006814
First step is to stop capitalizing words.