>femanon
>I just ended a relationship last october bc he was manipulative and made himself a victim tons of times.
>use a "dating" app to meet new friends
>a hottie appears!
>he PMs me and wants to hookup
>he turned me on this much that I couldn't decide if I wanted to or not
>tfw I live with roommates
>tfw It's too soon
>tfw he only wants to fuck
>I only want to meet new friends and chill, I'm trying to recover from my last relationship
>I tell him that it's too soon that I'd rather meet and be friends first
>seriously, I don't want it to be like my other relationship.
Jesus christ, fuck my life. I'm a fucking mess, I'm trying to move on and I'm not even sure if what I did is ok. Do you anons think that my decision in not hooking up soon is ok?
everyone is better off alone, misery comes from other people.
>>16997950
>use a "dating" app to meet new friends
You should state in your description that you're only interested in making friends. That way other men wouldn't try to ask you out for hook ups
>>16997950
if you're not ready for sex then that's fine, you don't have to have it
if he's just in it for the sex then w/e, there will be other dudes for you and other girls for him
if he's generally interested in you then start from there
Every fucking man on the planet earth on a dating site doesn't give a fuck that you're just looking for friends on a dating site.
Are you that fucking vapid?
>using a dating app to find friendship
i would call bait, you should know better
>>16997960
This exactly.
There's other ways in meeting friends. A dating app isn't the way.
>>16997950
OH COME ON! DON'T USE A DATING SITE TO SEEK FOR FRIENDSHIP!
>>16997950
>>16997950
No, because anything and everything you do you will immediately acclimate to.
http://cdp.sagepub.com/content/10/6/224.abstract
You're constantly growing and creating yourself, and you'll just become a slutty whore. Your ability to pair-bond will be severly diminished each time you hook up with creepy std-riddled faggot. I've witnessed it happen approximately ten million times.