Worth it to cross the country for an online fling?

No - so many times no.

a) There are so many things that you can spend your money on instead of buying a plane ticket.
b) Lying to parents - because of a girl... i don't even...

Best advice - do the hard yards and meet up some girls offline. Yes its very hard to do that, but will do you a lot of good in the long run.

I would urge others to give a more in-depth explanation of how much of a bad idea this is.

>>16987260
>Met a girl online last week
>Want to go across the country for her.
Hi OP.

Let me just say, as someone who literally DID cross the U.S. for a girl when he was a teenager: No.

You met her a week ago. In all actuality, you barely know her. If you had known her for years, it would be one thing. But you met this chick a week ago.

Why not?
I mean, Life's all about a good experience.
If it works it will be a valuable experience, something you enjoy.
I did the same, went to germany from easter europe for the same reason, for 2 weeks. and it was REALLLYY GOOD, it wasnt even about sex only or w/e, the experience is just amazing.

she was super excited, and we really hit things off. she visited me after 3 months in my country.

so tl'dr, yeah go for it, dont be that one jew that thinks he shouldnt spend money for something he actually enjoys ;b

>>16987271
Yeah I understand, this is a terrible idea. I just wrote this in a rush as soon as I got the idea, even looked at some plane tickets and so on. By the way, for context I'm 21 and she's 19, she started with the SG things very soon and only sold 2 sets, not really a pro or anything.

What should I do? Keep having fun with her until I meet a girl offline, and then scale down our "relationship"? The thing that busts my balls is that she'll probably be living near me in half a year or so. Not really in my same city, kinda stretched that out, but visiting her would cost me very little, which I wouldn't care about visiting every few weeks to fuck a girl as hot as her. So I wanna "keep her around" until then, in case we're still single and that's a possibility.

Also I'm not completely dry out of possibilities of meeting offline girls. Next week there's a big event in which I might have a chance, and also there's a classmate with which I've started talking with more and more. But I haven't had something in many years so I'm feeling a bit desperate by now.

>>16987281
You're right. As I said I'm "infatuated". Thanks for your opinion.

>>16987282
I would totally go for it if I actually had enough money for myself and I wouldn't have to lie to my family. But the most reasonable thing is not doing it to be honest.

>>16987287
Talk to your parent that you trust the most. Tell them that you will honestly listen to their opinion, but will not necessarily take their advice.

At least do this if you are going to go. Your parents probably have a lot better perspective of this situation than people on this board do.

It's just 6 months ffs...
Just meet other girls in the meantime, and have some fun, but do not get into serious commitments that would hinder your ability to really connect with this online infatuation of yours.

The money you DON'T spend on travelling far just to see her for just a few days will be better spent when you can spend time with her for months, just half a year from now.

>>16987260
>Worth it to cross the country for an online fling?
I cannot in good conscience recommend it. Whirlwind romances are extremely dangerous, especially with that much distance involved. There may be real love here, for all I know, but until the honeymoon phase is over, it's basically indistinguishable from mere infatuation.

I have seen cross-country romances work out, including some that started out long-distance (one was even an arranged marriage). But all of them involved a long period of getting to know one another first. The quickest one I've seen work still took two years, and you've only had a few days.