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>>16958327
how long have you been going out with this individual?

"Hey anon, if we ever had sex, would you just jack off in the bedroom instead of fucking me?"
"What?! N-no, of course not!"
"Well would you invite all of your friends over for a circle jerk while I sit in the corner watching?"
"What the hell is up with these questions?!"
"Well, considering when I want to spend ANY time with you, you either ignore me to play games or invite your friends over, I'm wondering how you expect our relationship to be when we are both finally ready to be... You know... Intimate."
Try not to laugh while he stumbles for an answer. Be as cute and coy as possible for maximum effect.

Every consider the possibility that he is just as busy and tries to make time for his friends who are also probably giving him shit (much like yourself, even if subconsciously) for not spending as much time together as they wanted/used to?

The video game thing you just need to be more assertive, just come on to him sexually really strongly. Slap the damn controller out of his hand and get into his lap while sticking your tongue down his throat.

If you just want someone to hold you and talk with you all the time while subsequently ignoring their close friends, you have unreasonable expectations for this relationship (which is clearly high school or college level bullshit drama that shouldn't even be on here).

Maybe he's the wrong one and it's just that simple

>>16958366
I travel far to get here and make sacrifices at home to see him so much and I went over budget today to spoil us on our declared and planned date night and it turned into us and some friends
No, I'm fine with normal general interactions with him but at least once a week or every 2 weeks when we're busy I want some alone time with him so we can catch up with each other