Hey /adv/,
It recently got out in my friend group that I slept with one of the guy's girlfriend. I've basically been completely ousted - removed from the facebook group thing, been defriended by most of them, had people go on a diatribe to me about how I'm scum etc.
A few of them don't care, but 90% of our socializing happens in a group setting so for all intents and purposes I no longer have any friends. I have no intention of trying to make them forgive me; even if they for whatever reason took me back in I couldn't deal with the awkwardness and stigma anyway, so that's that.
I'm not looking to justify my actions or anything, but I'd like to know if anyone here has been in a similar situation? I've never been in a position like this beore. I work graveyard shifts so I almost never interact with people and have few to no avenues to replace these friends. Does anyone here live a life without friends? What's it like? Is it possible to be happy?
Cheers guys
Meet new people, make new friends. What the fuck? You think you're one of the few people who works those kinds of shifts?
They're out there, you're just not looking and making assumptions.
Find some online friends, I guess. Will be harder for you to fuck that up. Given your hours, be prepared to make friends with Aussies (assuming your NA).