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Ex gf and I were together for 1 1/3 of a year, and split about 1 1/2 years ago. I broke it off with her because of school
She's messaging me now everyday after a year and a half of silence. She has made it clear she doesn't want to start things again but become friends. I don't want this, I personally want togetherness fully or nothing.
Additionally she talks about going out and getting knocked up and genuinely being slutty.
Am I being an aspire about this? I don't want to see her or speak if we're not dating, should I be more comfortable with this.
I don't even want to start dating again, I was happy before, but I don't think I want friends either.
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>>16943775
Uh, aspie? No, your feelings are completely legitimate. I've been in the same situation as you, only with the genders reversed, and it's completely legitimate to not want contact with your ex. Only thing to do, in my experience, is to be brutally honest: "I have no interest in being friends, and don't contact me further. Bye." Especially with her talking about hooking up with other people, that's incredibly immature and mean-spirited. Just say no and block her. EZ
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What's the problem? If you don't want to message someone you just don't (but you might want to tell them first). If they keep messaging you and the notifications annoy you then use the block button.
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>>16943785
It was mean spirited, I was her first so she's become this way and wants me to know this.
I just don't know if I'm over reacting. I'm a little nervous too because I'm not great with girls.
I will tell her to lay off anons
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