I have this thing with a girl and she had a bad eating disorder years ago. She put weight back on but the psychological aspects are still there. She talks to someone to help with her problems but I'm not sure it's really helping. Anybody have any experience with this, or could put me in the right direction?
You should try to talk to her bc you seem like you care for her a lot and often knowing someone cares and loves you really, really help. I went through a similar problem, the perspective of the girl and having someone close to you, having someone to talk to personally, having some understand is one of the best therapies out there. Treat her like a normal gal. Don't make it awkward by constantly bringing up her ed, but make her happy, or find stuff that makes her smile, bc a good mentality=better chance of recovering. Tell her good, positive things and really, legitimately mean them.