I met one girl few weeks ago, went out, talking almost everyday via text messages and stuff. Everything went well, I thought I could really be with her.
The thing is that my last few tries of taking her out failed because of different reasons. This made me think it was rejection, but everytime I would get over it she would text me again. The thing is that I am confused and I want to be done with this. How can I stop this fucking around and in short, if we can form a couple or finish this. Of course, I dont know any subtle way of putting this without making me look needy/desperate/cringy etc.
Just get her drunk.
Relationships are pushme-pullyou. When you push her, she pulls away. When you pull away, she pushes you.
>>16905962
further explanation? I dont quite understand
>>16905840
This happens all the time.
She is trying to get with Chad while she seeing you as a provider, she is afraid of losing you. She is using you as an emotional-tampon--talking to your about her little problems...
Next time, respond with something like: sorry I couldn't reply earlier, i was about with this girl who asked my number at the mall
>>16905840
She's setting you up as an emotional tampon and a safety net.
Cut contact and find another girl.
Either that or play games right back like >>16906123 said.
>>16906123
>>16906131
What if she is into me, or my brain is making this shit up?
>>16906135
She's not actually into you, retard. Did you not read what the fuck I and that other anon posted.
>>16906194
Fuck, thanks for knocking some sense in me, anon. I needed that.