Hey /adv/,
How can I stop comparing myself with my girlfriend, or any other person in general. We are both in an exchange program right now. Whenever she goes to a party, I feel like I should go to two. Or when she visits some country close to her, I feel like I should go to one. This is making me feel bad. I don't think this is a nice approach and it prevents me from being happy.
Get out of your own head. Stop being so introspective. Just do whatever do you want to do.... whenever you want to do it.