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A friend of mine killed herself What do I do /adv/?

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A friend of mine killed herself
What do I do /adv/?
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Accept it. And visit a psychotherapist
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Well, what can you do?
And what exactly are you trying to do? You obviously can't bring her back.
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>>16865381
Follow suit.
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Serious respone here OP. I visited my psychologist today and realized something about her. In today's session I kept trying to tell her what I felt and was trying to explain and elaborate and breaking it down. She didn't listen and kept telling me what I should think. Bottom line is she couldn't possibly help me without listening first because she was giving advice on what she couldn't comprehend. So here's this.

What do you feel? what do you mean what should you do? what are your options? what do you feel like doing? let's start with that. Giving you advice when you will reject it is not always good. Tell us what you feel so we can meet you halfway.
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>>16865385
>And visit a psychotherapist
Anyone that visits a shrink should have their head examined.
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>>16865480

You serious bro? why? I'm seeing one right now?
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>>16865381
Mourn. With or without the help of a professional.

Damn. Lost more people than I care to over the years to suicide. Not fun.
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>>16865396
This.
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>>16865395
>>16865415
Should I follow her footsteps or do I do my best to forget about her?
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>>16865646
Are you serious?

Cope, mourn, endure. There is no need to kill yourself.

Saged in case bait.
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>>16865646
Its time to meet your friend in the afterlife, OP.
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>>16865646

If those are your only two options the second one (unless you're some piece of shit druggie stoner or some other kind of degenerate that would also be better off dead).

I'm tellin' you though, if you're for real hang tough and just keep hanging out on /adv/ for years and years if that's what it takes to not kill yourself. You might make a difference to more lives than you know just not being a shitbag. Decent people are hard to find nowadays.
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>>16865480
>Anyone that visits a shrink should have their head examined.
Well, umm, yes. That's the point.
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>>16865646
Why? You're never going to see her again whether you kill yourself or not. It changes nothing.
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>>16865381
your fault for not being an alpha and giving her the D

'my friend'

you lose
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>>16865660
>>16865825
I was being serious. This is the first time I have to deal with something like this and I don't know what to do.
I guess I'll try to move on with my life. And try to live for her too.
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>>16866160
>Live for her
Fuck that. She killed herself. She had her chance to live and she didn't want to. Forget about her. You will forget about her soon enough anyway.
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>>16865646
>>16865616
>>16865396
Livestream on twitch?
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>>16866160
Go talk to a counselor or join a bereavement group. They can help you through this.
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