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>>16864670
Lost virginity about a month ago, 19.
Nothing special actually. It's cool, but less enjoyable than a pizza imo.
Still having sex now, you'll become better and better, but at the end it is absolutely different from what people portrait
So find someone expert and find out. No shame.

>>16864850
Ah, it becomes addictive (just like pizza. i want pizza now).
Nothing that you can't solve with a bit of masturbation btw.
After the first time, do it if you want to do it, not if you have to.

>>16864670
yes
no, I was still scared shit. But my second try was good. It actually feels harder to do if you don't know the person unlike if you have an actual girlfriend. No romance or shit, they want you to hurry the fuck up so they could get more customers

>>16864670
Not for the virginity but for my second time.
First time was a girl jumping on my during a panic attack and the therapist told me to try something outside of a relationship.
It was either that or a ONS and I settled for that.

Messaged her that I needed something relaxing.
Half an hour massaging, she switched to rubbing then sucking/riding.
It was very relaxing, she was a very nice girl who took the time to make me feel relaxed and it helped a lot in my case.

I asked her to spice it up a bit after like 1 hour and she did without much questions.

Stayed ~2hours.

>>16864919
Oh and I forgot to add advices

Bring your own condoms.
Take the time to measure your dick and order custom made condoms if you're too far from the "normal size" (most guys are).

It changes everything, you don't want to feel too constraint or too lose. You want to feel something.
And be clean.

28 here. Lost mine on my 22nd to a nice escort. It was ok, felt great at the time, she was good at acting like she was into it.

That feel when no girlfriend does not go away, however.

>>16864670

Yeah, did it at 23 and it was pretty damn good, considering I was actually shaking when I got there. She was 30 and pretty hot, got off like three times in an hour. Somebody started knocking on the door because we were taking too long.

Definitely got lucky, though. Went there a few months later and the girl I picked up was a classic dead fish AND the condom broke because this dumbass here let her put the rubber.

Guess that's basically it: Look for somebody with a tad of experience, don't get too stingy and know how to properly put on a condom.

>>16864940
Listen to this guy. I've had plenty of lackluster experiences with the dead fish variety. Try to get a woman over 25, they're usually very kind and experienced. Avoid the 19-year-olds.

Yes, it's a good way to get it over with. Be mentally prepared. Escorts are not like movies and TV that glamorize them. They are bored and don't care about you and want you to come as quickly as possible and get out.

>>16864919
That sounds like something I could go for. Where does 4chan go about finding escorts though?

>>16865371
Nevada for the legal brothels, backpage.com if you're feeling adventurous, or that ero review site I forget the exact address. I'd suggest a legal brothel if you're in the US and live near Nevada since it's guaranteed clean(er) and you won't get arrested.

>>16865378
My friend actually wanted me to go with him to Vegas at some point in time, I might give it a try if I go there.

>>16864927
Im an escort and Id not recommend a client to bring condoms - I will use the ones I buy because I know they are safe. I have plenty of styles and varieties (xl, small, regular, thin, with colour/taste etc) for the sake of it. I am a high end escort so maybe if you see a lower end one it might be an idea but in that case its better to ask beforehand.

>>16864670
>Has anyone here gone to a prostitute/escort to get the virginity thing over with ?

yeah

>Was it fun ?

not really

but it was definitely worth it IMO.

4 months later I had a steady girlfriend.

>>16865412
Not a virgin, but bored and the gf lives cross country at the moment and approved getting my dick sucked if I feel like it. Is backpages legit, or just a bunch of cops trying to snag people?

>>16865423
same happened to my friend

Yes.
It was 'okay', sexwise.
She was 'okay', personality-wise.

I was worried that I'd picked up an STD,
yet was too afraid/stupid to get tested until
two stressful months later.

When I finally had my (non-paid) first time, I have to admit that having done it before really helped.

>>16865426
>>the gf lives cross country at the moment and approved getting my dick sucked if I feel like it

lol...
Guaranteed she is sucking someone else's dick, pendejo.

I did. Street hooker BJ, behind a dumpster at night near a park. She actually took a little time and acted into it anyway; I don't think they get picked up by many young decent looking guys. Regrets? Not at losing my virginity to a fucking street whore; it kind of made me hope the sorry ass tease girls I had dated without sex eventually got a taste of that kind of pitiful existence. Decent use of a few bucks to feel a warm wet mouth. Only regret is the feeling of dodging a bullet - local police are really, really, hot on nailing prostitution and I did everything wrong and could have wound up in jail with a criminal record and tons of embarrassment. Years later, I've discovered that there is so much free pussy for the taking that paying for it is idiotic. Seriously, the key is to go against your instincts and don't be a "nice guy."

>>16865423
>4 months later I had a steady girlfriend.
Have you ever told her? This is one of the thing putting me off, if I sleep with a string of prostitutes and get a gf who has who my first was do I lie or tell her the truth? I would not like to lie to her.

I know a couple of guys who have fucked hookers, they just seem to ignore it happened.

>>16864670
To fuck escorts is usually very fun.
It is not just if they don't look like the pictures.

>>16864670
>Has anyone here gone to a prostitute/escort to get the virginity thing over with ?
>Was it fun ?

Generally people say the first time, whether with a professional or with someone like a girlfriend or aquaintance, is awkward.

If you want to go the professional route, you might want to check a website for information such as USASEXGUIDE*INFO

It might improve the odds of finding someone sympathetic rather than rushed and mechanical

You can figure out where to put the dot in the URL

>>16866408
Women go around sucking all kinds of sick and then insist that their boyfriends don't judge them for it because the past is in the past. So I don't see what the big deal is when a guy bangs hookers, since both choices are equally risky sexual outlets.

>>16865666
Same thing I'd say if someone posted this, but if you knew her, you wouldn't be so sure.

I'm 28 year old fat kissless virgin. I have good paying job, a college degree, friends, a house, and a car. Despite having those areas of my life together, I don't blame any woman for not wanting to have sex with me. I'm disgusting. This is why I will most likely give in to my desires and hire a whore. All my friends have told me not to but... I just can't take it anymore. I'm planning on going to Nevada and hiring a legal whore so I don't get arrested or an std. I can't hate myself any more than I already do.

>>16865412
how much do "high end escorts" from wherever you're from cost?

I wouldn't recommend either doing it or not doing. What I would say is that you need to want to fuck a prostitute if you do it. That has to be your goal here.

If it's secretly that you want intimacy or you're just feeling angry and isolated I would say just rub one out and save some money.

You won't enjoy the experience unless you appreciate you are paying another human being to give you a service. That's the dynamic you are entering and it's not quite the same as boning a person that you actually like.

If you're safe and sensible it will probably be a positive experience. Spend a little more and do the research. Many of prostitutes have reviews online. Try to make a list of what you want to try and make sure she'll let you cum more than once.

If you go the cheap option you could end up having a miserable looking Mexican jerking you off into a kleenex for $100 while lying on a dirty towel in a hotel that might give you tetanus.

Do it right and it will probably make you relax about sex and women a little, it's not a magical cure though. It gets rid off that fear though, that if you brought a woman home you'd just start crying because you had no idea what you were doing.

Don't expect too much. If you're an awkward loser now you will continue to be one. It's unlikely to improve your game and you'll probably still struggle to get hard or cum the first time you have sex with a girl you are dating. And you will probably have to lie about having done this for the rest of your life.

If you do go through with it remember what you've done. You've just risked getting robbed, getting HIV, and prison time to get your dick sucked. Do you really have any reason to be scared of asking out the cute girl in your office now?

>>16866408

I told her I had sex before but I didn't tell her it was with a prostitute.

None of her business, really. I don't pry about her exes.