Can I end a sex relationship without ruining a friendship? Not

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Can I end a sex relationship without ruining a friendship?

Not too long ago I got out of a long term relationship. I wasn't looking but a friend (he's gay, I'm bi) hit me up saying we could mess around if I needed to blow off steam. I told him flat out that I'm not looking to date or have a relationship. I wanted some kinky sex (and i told him exactly what) and that was it. We end up doing it and told me he loved me and it was just gentle sweet stuff. Which isn't awful, but not what I wanted. I asked him to leave afterwards, and since then he's been blowing up my phone, asking when he can take me out, etc. He's a good friend, but absolutely not what I want right now. How can I tell him no?