Bf and I were talking possible children. I am not against one

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Bf and I were talking possible children. I am not against one kid, maybe two, but no more than that. I also do not want to quit working because of them. I don't care for a career but I still like my job and all the money it brings me, and I absolutely refuse to give it up for anything. I'm the child of a working mother myself.

However, he wants me to stay home instead. We've fought over this. I've thrown it in his face if he attempts to force me to quit my job I will dump him because I want to be with someone who loves me and respects me, and if he tries not to let me keep doing something very important to me, then he does not love me and respect me. Everything he's said about love, etc. was a lie to deceive me and he deserves the worst of deaths.

So he's begrudginly accepted this, but I've heard in the news about too many men who were seemingly okay and then suddenly snapped and killed their partner brutally. Even moving out didn't help as they stalked their partners and then brutally murdered them at first opportunity. What signs should I look out for so I can respond timely to a possible attack?

Pic related an 'unsuspectable' man who turned out a murderer.