Hi /adv/, I am a very happy and carefree person so I'm afraid my own experience is not helping me here. Long story short I have an online friend who I care about who is in an abusive and manipulative relationship. They seem very depressed about it periodically and the rest of the time just seem totally numb about it. What should I do? Previously I've just told them I'm here if they need to talk and have avoided telling them to fuck the guy off (I'm also a guy so I don't want to come across as trying to get with her) but it seems like the situation is just not improving and it sucks seeing them suffer. Any advice on what I should/should not be doing/saying? I'm at a loss unfortunately. Pic unrelated
What's abusive in the relationship?
>>16777332
Basically has alienated her from all her friends, making her feel worthless, useless, inferior etc etc... the usual sort of stuff when you hear about this kind of thing... there was a couple of incidents where it got physical but not really bad as far as im aware... Im at a complete loss as to how to help because Ive never really encounteered this kind of situation before