Is it unfair for me to start dating someone when I've still got slight feelings for someone else?
>>16658428
It is unfair. You should be with someone you're 100% with.
Yes. Extremely. Abort mission
>dating
No, go for it.
It'll help you put things into perspective.
However, if you get to the exclusivity phase where you (or at least they) begin to become emotionally attached, end it if you think you're only one foot in
no. everyone always does.
As long as you arent married, date all you want. Be responsible though, cheating will ruin your life.
Everybody's still got slight feelings for someone else. But I think you mean more than slight.
>>16658491
>cheating will ruin your life.
thats wrong.
>guy is amazing and we get along perfectly
>he's really into me and i'm into him too
>he wants to start actually dating instead of just being a thing
>i really like him but i still have slight feeling for a past oneitis
>i know i'm not going to find a guy who's into me as much as him though
>i know i have no chance with oneitis anyways, and even if i somehow started dating him we probably wouldn't last
>>16658543
slight feelings*
>>16658543
bump, what should I do?
>>16658428
Yes.
>>16658761
Grow up.
>>16658761
To put it square, you're kinda fucked.
Either you don't take the chance, and you feel horrible for it.
Or you do and you end up breaking that guy's heart.
The only good end is if you fall for him, but how likely is that?
I'd say date and deal with the consequences.
You're likely to feel shittier than you do now, but it's the only course of action that has the possibility of having a good end
>>16658792
Thanks anon. I actually do have some feelings for the guy though, I just need to get over my past oneitis really.