my stepfather used to hit me a lot when I was a kid.
Now I'm back home after 4 years of college while I'm looking for a job and I keep getting the feeling that if I stand up for myself too much that I'll get punched again.
Should I report him if he does? When I was a kid I threatened I would report him and he gave me a beating, so I don't know if it kind of stuck with me and I'm not seeing it clearly.
>>16647322
Time to punch daddy back now that you're all grown up
>>16647326
I'm way smaller and he'd probably strangle me to death
>>16647334
Time to unload a magazines worth of .45s to Daddys chest
>>16647322
My dad used to beat the shit out of me until he found out that that I was stronger then him and that I was going to kill him if he hit me again
>>16647340
I wish I could do that, but like I said he's way bigger and I'm so weak. Plus get guilt because my mom always makes me feel like it's my fault and every time there's a big fight he pretends he's going to leave her because of me.
>>16647365
just get the fuck out of that place and tell them to go die in a fire when they come asking for money
seriously anon
>>16647365
So go to the gym or punch him in the throat or move out if you act like a bitch you're going to get treated like a bitch
>>16647386
I can't wait, I'm sending job applications. It's probably going to take me 2 months after the job to actually do the moving.
I am considering cutting contact with them, yes. But it's too much of a step and I don't know if I'm ready.
>>16647389
I really don't. For the sake of my mom I sometimes keep quiet because of our so many fights when I was younger but sometimes I do lose my temper.
Going to the gym wouldn't do anything.
>>16647322
if you live in his house, live by his rules, then he doesn't have a reason to hit you.
>>16647399
It's my mom's house. And it doesn't matter, when I was a kid I'd do everything they told me and still got beat.
>>16647395
Ya it will get you stronger it takes time there but it will make your punches or kicks land a lot harder
>>16647399
>hurr durr abuse is rational
wew lad
hope you get raped
>>16647431
Well yea, but I'm still a tiny girl and he's so much taller. I say this because the few times I fought back I got thrown around the room so I don't think going to the gym would help that much.
>>16647417
reading through this post i can kind of see why.
Instead of disagreeing all the time, maybe you should accept that you're being a disagreeable little shit and part of the problem. Then, I bet you'd discover the majority of the conflicts disappear.