Hey /adv/
long time no see
I bring you a problem with my female superior
>start new work a couple months ago
>meet my new superior
>10-15years older than me
she's pretty sexy desu, she's really fine
>we talk more than you'd usually talk with workmates etc etc get to know each other
>she's single
>ex-husband she has problems with
>sometimes flirty wave at each other when we see us at work
>she's curious why I don't have a gf
now in the couple days the subject ob new years eve came up a couple times and we both are doing nothing
I feel like I should ask her if she maybe wanted me to come over or something like that, you know the drill
Problems are...
a) if I got everything until here wrong I may lose my job, right? or at least be extremely awkward because I'd be that idiot from work who mistakenly asked to her if she wanted him to come over etc etc OR I could screw everything up anyways and again, lose my job
b) if anything were to happen I'd be in a relationship, right? I want her but she's that much older than me and I don't know what to think of that
What's preferable: having a job but not having a relationship with a coworker who may but probably isn't interested in you, or having a relationship with a coworker but having no job and having to explain why you were fired (or a gap in your employment should you choose to lie) to future employers?
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wouldn't get fired because of the relationship
but your point still stands, pretty easy actually